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Relationship Research Survey: Important Questions I Should Have Asked

12/10/2013 | Comments (0)

Have you regretted not getting vital information and asking important questions before getting involved in a relationship? “Hindsight is 20/20″ as the saying goes, but asking the right questions means we’ll get the right answers and possibly save ourselves from unnecessary heartache.

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40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men - Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men – Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

12/05/2013 | Comments (12)

It’s not the thug dudes who are obsessed with ShaQuanisha, it’s these so called “good black men” who live, sleep and dream about her. It’s clear that these “good black men” strongly and passionately desire ShaQuanisha — that’s why they talk about her so much.

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It’s Not a Woman’s Job to Earn a Man’s Respect

02/27/2013 | Comments (5)

Does a woman really need to jump through hoops to earn a man’s respect? In truth, respectful people give others respect without reservation. Those that think they are so grand others have to earn their respect are crazy.

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Is it Too Soon to Tell Him I Love Him After Dating Only a Month?

11/29/2013 | Comments (1)

Everyone can be on their good behavior for a short period of time, but after 6-9 months, folks relax their front and ish gets real. As time passes and you spend more time together, you get to see more of who he really is, how he handles conflicts and problems, levels of responsibility and accountability, you meet his family, you meet his friends, you see how he is living, you learn how he thinks and what his values and morals are.

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While Separated My Husband Had a Baby With Another Woman!

10/15/2013 | Comments (3)

During a separation a husband has created a child with another person. What should the wife do – say or go?

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Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Share Me With Other Guys!

Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Share Me With Other Guys!

09/14/2013 | Comments (1)

Advice seeker thinks her boyfriend wants to “share her” with other guys, but Ms. HeartBeat sees a sociopath sex trafficker working on a naive and unaware potential victim of pimp game.

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Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

02/28/2014 | Comments (0)

When you are married or in a relationship and your man cheats with a side chick, it makes YOU a side chick too. So don’t be getting all high and mighty, thinking you are better than the next broad because you have a ring and his last name. Understand that he doesn’t give any more fucks about YOU and that ring he gave you, or the relationship you two have than he does about HER… both of y’all are side chicks.

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Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

12/20/2013 | Comments (29)

The BWE movement (Black Women’s Empowerment) is filled with black women who continue to hang onto a need for validation, acceptance and acknowledgement by black men. I believe it is a twisted need to feel something… anything… including pain.

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Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

11/22/2013 | Comments (0)

Butts are the IN thing. Single women who believe they don’t measure up in the butt department are going through some pretty drastic measures to get the booty they feel will make them more competitive in the dating game. But many of the things women do to get the perfect butt involves expensive, sometimes life-threatening procedures.

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Black Men Be All Up in Their Feelings Like Women

12/07/2013 | Comments (5)

Modern black men be all up in their feelings like women, whining about the things black women say on social media and demanding that women specify SOME black men when she is critical of black male behaviors.

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Black Men and Sexual Addiction

12/03/2013 | Comments (18)

In my work in sex addiction therapy, I come across men of all ethnic backgrounds struggling in this area. While the White sex addict may have just as many partners as the Black addict (some with over 200 partners while with their spouse), there is one major difference. Can you guess what it is? It’s the condom. The tendency is for white guys to act out sexually taking more precautions to use a condom while black men ignore the need for contraception, thus perpetuating the trend of single-mothers left to fend for themselves.

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Black Men, Low Expectations and Embracing Mediocrity

11/24/2013 | Comments (19)

Young black men are in a crisis and falling behind educationally, economically, emotionally and socially. Why are their expectations for themselves so low? Why is there such a willingness to settle for mediocrity instead of striving to achieve greatness head and shoulders above the crowd?

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MANSPLAINING - Mansplaining Defined

MANSPLAINING – Mansplaining Defined

01/27/2014 | Comments (0)

What is mansplaining? When men attempt to redefine women’s use of language and nullify women’s experiences with their own words, you’ve seen mansplaining in action.

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Day 20 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Murdering Black Women for Shits and Giggles

12/06/2013 | Comments (19)

Why do black men feel it is okay to kill a woman because they feel rejected, are angry, depressed, feel hopeless, etc.? What is the motivating factor behind such a mentality towards the very women they claim to love? Why is the black community filled with so many immature men incapable of handling their feelings in some sort of sane manner?

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Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt

11/22/2013 | Comments (0)

Butts are the IN thing. Single women who believe they don’t measure up in the butt department are going through some pretty drastic measures to get the booty they feel will make them more competitive in the dating game. But many of the things women do to get the perfect butt involves expensive, sometimes life-threatening procedures.

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Never Date a Dead Animal – Sunday 10/20/13

10/16/2013 | Comments (0)

Learn the obscure, early warning signs of controlling, lying, narcissistic, verbally (and physically) abusive men. More importantly, understand the underlying mindset which causes women to ignore and minimize a man’s hurtful behavior, continue to date and even commit to him.

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Pedophiles - Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

Pedophiles – Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

08/10/2013 | Comments (3)

It seems most men have no willingness to control their perverted sexual urges for the flesh of very young girls, as young as 8 weeks old. Globally, girls are being denied the right to have a childhood because of perverted male pedophiles. Why is pedophilia on the rise? Why are there so many pedophiles in our societies? What can be done to protect the bodies, minds and spirits of young girls from predators?

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7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

07/16/2013 | Comments (17)

Black men are falling further behind socially, economically and educationally, and they tend to insist on a double sexual standard, female submission, and male dominance as a matter of course. In spite of these glaring losses in stock value, most black men still see themselves as a prize. “Everyone wants us, but nobody wants you!” is the taunt often levied at black females.

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| 09/18/2013 | Comments (0)

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Why Don't Women Talk to a Good Black Man Like Me?

Why Don’t Women Talk to a Good Black Man Like Me?

| 08/30/2013 | Comments (8)

Relationships are as much biological as they are emotional, at least at the beginning. You approached her because your dick got a tingle and you reacted biologically. Understand this good black man, since she didn’t get a tingle she rejected you.

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If You Are Denied Access to An Abortion or the Morning After Pill

If You Are Denied Access to An Abortion or the Morning After Pill

| 08/30/2013 | Comments (2)

Latest reports say that from 2010 to 2013, 57 abortion clinics have been closed across the United States. This means that millions of women have reduced or no access to safe termination of an unwanted pregnancy. However, there are alternatives.

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Pakistan, Afghanistan or Blackistan: For Women its All The Same

Pakistan, Afghanistan or Blackistan: For Women its All The Same

| 08/28/2013 | Comments (17)

I’ve been followed, grabbed, cornered, berated and forced to kiss someone. It’s happened so often that it doesn’t even feel like my body is really my body anymore. The world is a museum of flesh and I am merely one of the many displays to be oogled at by men.

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Lessons for the Fellas

| 08/22/2013 | Comments (1)

Lying to women to manipulate them into sexual relationships, failure to support your children, sponging off your Moms in your mid-20s or beyond are all traits that need to be changed if you are to truly call yourself a man. Lessons in manhood.

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Breeding the Next Generation of Sex Slaves and Profit for Prisons

Breeding the Next Generation of Sex Slaves and Profit for Prisons

| 08/07/2013 | Comments (2)

Those of you who know me KNOW I speak often on female empowerment. Well this is one area where women have a lot of power they aren’t using. There is no reason to birth more children to end up being fodder for pedophiles and pimps. What’s going on worldwide to little girls… children… makes no goddamn sense.

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Guess What Ms. HeartBeat - I'm Dating a Stripper!

Guess What Ms. HeartBeat – I’m Dating a Stripper!

| 07/19/2013 | Comments (1)

Do you think we can have a healthy and lengthy relationship? I really don’t have a problem with where she works if I don’t think about it too much. I mean if we started dating before she started stripping and she told me she wanted to be a stripper, I would totally be against it. But since it’s what she was doing when I met her, I accept it because I feel that I don’t have the right to change her or ask her to change.

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