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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles - Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

02/20/2015 | Comments (2)

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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Relationship Research Survey: Important Questions I Should Have Asked

12/10/2013 | Comments (0)

Have you regretted not getting vital information and asking important questions before getting involved in a relationship? “Hindsight is 20/20″ as the saying goes, but asking the right questions means we’ll get the right answers and possibly save ourselves from unnecessary heartache.

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40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men - Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men – Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

12/05/2013 | Comments (12)

It’s not the thug dudes who are obsessed with ShaQuanisha, it’s these so called “good black men” who live, sleep and dream about her. It’s clear that these “good black men” strongly and passionately desire ShaQuanisha — that’s why they talk about her so much.

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During a break up my girl slept with one of my friends… how do I get over it?

04/24/2015 | Comments (0)

A young man is anguished by the mental vision of his ex girlfriend being intimate with a friend she dated during a long break up, and seeks advice on how to move past his jealousy.

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My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex

02/10/2015 | Comments (0)

A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.

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Girlfriend Has Big Boobs but Won’t Show Them Off

10/30/2014 | Comments (1)

Boyfriend is disturbed because his girlfriend has a great rack (boobs), but won’t wear revealing clothing to show them off. Why benefits does he think he is going to receive from his girl wearing next to nothing?

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Ramp Up Your Health with 11 Foods That Boost the Immune System

05/04/2015 | Comments (0)

How can you boost your immune system — the bodily functions that fight bacteria, viruses and disease — and give yourself the best opportunity to stay healthy through the winter cold and flu season? This article provides some answers.

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Shopping for Men is Just Like Shopping for Shoes

04/26/2015 | Comments (0)

You’ll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they refused to keep shopping until they find a shoe that fit perfectly. The same mentality women have about shopping for shoes is often the same one they have about shopping for a man.

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Are We Obligated to Give My Sister a Baby Shower?

11/28/2014 | Comments (1)

My sister’s first baby is due in three months and I’m wondering if we’re obligated to throw a baby shower for her? A few people have already commented that they wouldn’t be coming if we did throw a baby shower, because they’re pissed they never received a ‘thank you’ note from my sister from her wedding two years ago.

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Black Men Be All Up in Their Feelings Like Women

12/07/2013 | Comments (5)

Modern black men be all up in their feelings like women, whining about the things black women say on social media and demanding that women specify SOME black men when she is critical of black male behaviors.

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Black Men and Sexual Addiction

12/03/2013 | Comments (19)

In my work in sex addiction therapy, I come across men of all ethnic backgrounds struggling in this area. While the White sex addict may have just as many partners as the Black addict (some with over 200 partners while with their spouse), there is one major difference. Can you guess what it is? It’s the condom. The tendency is for white guys to act out sexually taking more precautions to use a condom while black men ignore the need for contraception, thus perpetuating the trend of single-mothers left to fend for themselves.

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Black Men, Low Expectations and Embracing Mediocrity

11/24/2013 | Comments (20)

Young black men are in a crisis and falling behind educationally, economically, emotionally and socially. Why are their expectations for themselves so low? Why is there such a willingness to settle for mediocrity instead of striving to achieve greatness head and shoulders above the crowd?

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Childhood Sexual Abuse in the Black Community – Survey Results

05/28/2015 | Comments (0)

No one wants to talk about it, but child sexual abuse is the biggest “dirty little secret” in the black community, and has been for generations. This landmark study, with more than 8000 responses, gets to the heart of the matter of sexual abuse amongst African Americans, and examines the long-term damage a rape culture based on patriarchy and secrecy does to victims of child sexual abuse.

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Disgusting List of Blacks Killed by Police 2014-Present

Disgusting List of Blacks Killed by Police 2014-Present

05/01/2015 | Comments (2)

We must stop wasting time fighting each other and get it together. Mobilize, organize, politicize, and strategize. Start with how to take back your block, your neighborhood, your city, your county, and your state from racist police. Get people out to vote and replace Mayor’s, District Attorneys, City Councilmen, Supervisors and anyone else whose agenda is not in your best interest. Make sure those who are in office are not in league with the police union and that they will make sure any cop who does not perform to the standard expected is terminated immediately.

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How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You're a White Boy from the Valley?

How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You’re a White Boy from the Valley?

10/01/2014 | Comments (0)

This week it all came out. Like a scab being ripped off a sore, the ugly truth about Thug Kitchen has been revealed and charges of racism, cultural appropriation and general stupidity have been levied at the two site owners who have hidden like cowards and failed to address the conflict.

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Never Date a Dead Animal – Sunday 10/20/13

10/16/2013 | Comments (0)

Learn the obscure, early warning signs of controlling, lying, narcissistic, verbally (and physically) abusive men. More importantly, understand the underlying mindset which causes women to ignore and minimize a man’s hurtful behavior, continue to date and even commit to him.

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Pedophiles - Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

Pedophiles – Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

08/10/2013 | Comments (3)

It seems most men have no willingness to control their perverted sexual urges for the flesh of very young girls, as young as 8 weeks old. Globally, girls are being denied the right to have a childhood because of perverted male pedophiles. Why is pedophilia on the rise? Why are there so many pedophiles in our societies? What can be done to protect the bodies, minds and spirits of young girls from predators?

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7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

07/16/2013 | Comments (19)

Black men are falling further behind socially, economically and educationally, and they tend to insist on a double sexual standard, female submission, and male dominance as a matter of course. In spite of these glaring losses in stock value, most black men still see themselves as a prize. “Everyone wants us, but nobody wants you!” is the taunt often levied at black females.

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Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse

| 09/12/2014 | Comments (0)

If you’ve endured abuse – punching, slapping, kicking, choking, arm twisting, forced intercourse, threats of violence to you, your pets or your children, hair pulling etc. by a romantic partner, friend, family member or stranger, please share your story.

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My Jealous Man Wants Sex All The Time!

| 08/23/2014 | Comments (0)

A young woman seeks advice about her relationship with a man who demands sex constantly, even when she isn’t in the mood – sometimes she even feels raped. Is she in an emotionally abusive relationship with a sex addict?

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His Bad Back is Controlling Our Sex Life

| 07/29/2014 | Comments (11)

A broke down 42 year old man with a bad back is one of her problems. The other is that she is tolerating a selfish prick and calling his shenanigans a relationship.

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The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

| 07/20/2014 | Comments (499)

Single Black women sit in church every Sunday being brainwashed and placated into waiting for love. The true reason that there are so many single, never married Black women in the U.S. is the Black church which promotes female submission and subjugation to men, to the detriment of female achievement and happiness.

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Is He Playing Games With Me While He Cheats on His Girlfriend?

| 05/22/2014 | Comments (0)

He lies, he cheats, he drinks like a fish, and he uses drugs. What in the world is this young lady wasting her time with this loser for?

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What is the Best Opening Line to a Woman on an Online Dating Site?

| 05/14/2014 | Comments (1)

I’ve asked my friends for advice on how to introduce myself to a women on an online dating site that I find interesting or have shared interests. To say the least, the advice is all over the place! I need help because this is unbelievably confusing.

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My Boyfriend Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant

| 04/27/2014 | Comments (0)

How can a boyfriend of seven years who cheated and got another woman pregnant ever think he and the woman he cheated on “work things out?”

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