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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles - Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

02/20/2015 | Comments (2)

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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Relationship Research Survey: Important Questions I Should Have Asked

12/10/2013 | Comments (0)

Have you regretted not getting vital information and asking important questions before getting involved in a relationship? “Hindsight is 20/20″ as the saying goes, but asking the right questions means we’ll get the right answers and possibly save ourselves from unnecessary heartache.

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40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men - Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men – Black Males Obsessed With Ghetto Baby Mamas

12/05/2013 | Comments (12)

It’s not the thug dudes who are obsessed with ShaQuanisha, it’s these so called “good black men” who live, sleep and dream about her. It’s clear that these “good black men” strongly and passionately desire ShaQuanisha — that’s why they talk about her so much.

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My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex

02/10/2015 | Comments (0)

A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.

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Girlfriend Has Big Boobs but Won’t Show Them Off

10/30/2014 | Comments (1)

Boyfriend is disturbed because his girlfriend has a great rack (boobs), but won’t wear revealing clothing to show them off. Why benefits does he think he is going to receive from his girl wearing next to nothing?

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My Two Year Old Son is Abusive to His Four Month Old Sister

10/28/2014 | Comments (2)

Mom asks what she can do to get her abusive two year old son to stop biting, smacking and head butting his four month old sister.

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Are We Obligated to Give My Sister a Baby Shower?

11/28/2014 | Comments (1)

My sister’s first baby is due in three months and I’m wondering if we’re obligated to throw a baby shower for her? A few people have already commented that they wouldn’t be coming if we did throw a baby shower, because they’re pissed they never received a ‘thank you’ note from my sister from her wedding two years ago.

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Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

02/28/2014 | Comments (1)

When you are married or in a relationship and your man cheats with a side chick, it makes YOU a side chick too. So don’t be getting all high and mighty, thinking you are better than the next broad because you have a ring and his last name. Understand that he doesn’t give any more fucks about YOU and that ring he gave you, or the relationship you two have than he does about HER… both of y’all are side chicks.

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Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

12/20/2013 | Comments (32)

The BWE movement (Black Women’s Empowerment) is filled with black women who continue to hang onto a need for validation, acceptance and acknowledgement by black men. I believe it is a twisted need to feel something… anything… including pain.

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Black Men Be All Up in Their Feelings Like Women

12/07/2013 | Comments (5)

Modern black men be all up in their feelings like women, whining about the things black women say on social media and demanding that women specify SOME black men when she is critical of black male behaviors.

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Black Men and Sexual Addiction

12/03/2013 | Comments (19)

In my work in sex addiction therapy, I come across men of all ethnic backgrounds struggling in this area. While the White sex addict may have just as many partners as the Black addict (some with over 200 partners while with their spouse), there is one major difference. Can you guess what it is? It’s the condom. The tendency is for white guys to act out sexually taking more precautions to use a condom while black men ignore the need for contraception, thus perpetuating the trend of single-mothers left to fend for themselves.

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Black Men, Low Expectations and Embracing Mediocrity

11/24/2013 | Comments (20)

Young black men are in a crisis and falling behind educationally, economically, emotionally and socially. Why are their expectations for themselves so low? Why is there such a willingness to settle for mediocrity instead of striving to achieve greatness head and shoulders above the crowd?

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How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You're a White Boy from the Valley?

How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You’re a White Boy from the Valley?

10/01/2014 | Comments (0)

This week it all came out. Like a scab being ripped off a sore, the ugly truth about Thug Kitchen has been revealed and charges of racism, cultural appropriation and general stupidity have been levied at the two site owners who have hidden like cowards and failed to address the conflict.

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Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse

09/12/2014 | Comments (0)

If you’ve endured abuse – punching, slapping, kicking, choking, arm twisting, forced intercourse, threats of violence to you, your pets or your children, hair pulling etc. by a romantic partner, friend, family member or stranger, please share your story.

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The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

07/20/2014 | Comments (499)

Single Black women sit in church every Sunday being brainwashed and placated into waiting for love. The true reason that there are so many single, never married Black women in the U.S. is the Black church which promotes female submission and subjugation to men, to the detriment of female achievement and happiness.

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Never Date a Dead Animal – Sunday 10/20/13

10/16/2013 | Comments (0)

Learn the obscure, early warning signs of controlling, lying, narcissistic, verbally (and physically) abusive men. More importantly, understand the underlying mindset which causes women to ignore and minimize a man’s hurtful behavior, continue to date and even commit to him.

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Pedophiles - Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

Pedophiles – Waging a Global War on Very Young Girls

08/10/2013 | Comments (3)

It seems most men have no willingness to control their perverted sexual urges for the flesh of very young girls, as young as 8 weeks old. Globally, girls are being denied the right to have a childhood because of perverted male pedophiles. Why is pedophilia on the rise? Why are there so many pedophiles in our societies? What can be done to protect the bodies, minds and spirits of young girls from predators?

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7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

7-21-13 Black Men vs White Men Which Is Better for the Modern Black Woman?

07/16/2013 | Comments (19)

Black men are falling further behind socially, economically and educationally, and they tend to insist on a double sexual standard, female submission, and male dominance as a matter of course. In spite of these glaring losses in stock value, most black men still see themselves as a prize. “Everyone wants us, but nobody wants you!” is the taunt often levied at black females.

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His Bad Back is Controlling Our Sex Life

| 07/29/2014 | Comments (9)

A broke down 42 year old man with a bad back is one of her problems. The other is that she is tolerating a selfish prick and calling his shenanigans a relationship.

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Is He Playing Games With Me While He Cheats on His Girlfriend?

| 05/22/2014 | Comments (0)

He lies, he cheats, he drinks like a fish, and he uses drugs. What in the world is this young lady wasting her time with this loser for?

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What is the Best Opening Line to a Woman on an Online Dating Site?

| 05/14/2014 | Comments (1)

I’ve asked my friends for advice on how to introduce myself to a women on an online dating site that I find interesting or have shared interests. To say the least, the advice is all over the place! I need help because this is unbelievably confusing.

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My Boyfriend Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant

| 04/27/2014 | Comments (0)

How can a boyfriend of seven years who cheated and got another woman pregnant ever think he and the woman he cheated on “work things out?”

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MANSPLAINING - Mansplaining Defined

MANSPLAINING – Mansplaining Defined

| 01/27/2014 | Comments (0)

What is mansplaining? When men attempt to redefine women’s use of language and nullify women’s experiences with their own words, you’ve seen mansplaining in action.

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Day 20 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Murdering Black Women for Shits and Giggles

| 12/06/2013 | Comments (19)

Why do black men feel it is okay to kill a woman because they feel rejected, are angry, depressed, feel hopeless, etc.? What is the motivating factor behind such a mentality towards the very women they claim to love? Why is the black community filled with so many immature men incapable of handling their feelings in some sort of sane manner?

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Is it Too Soon to Tell Him I Love Him After Dating Only a Month?

| 11/29/2013 | Comments (1)

Everyone can be on their good behavior for a short period of time, but after 6-9 months, folks relax their front and ish gets real. As time passes and you spend more time together, you get to see more of who he really is, how he handles conflicts and problems, levels of responsibility and accountability, you meet his family, you meet his friends, you see how he is living, you learn how he thinks and what his values and morals are.

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