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This latest addition to a long line of scandals concerning black churches again places the oldest and most enduring African American institution in the cross-hairs of ridicule and derision. Bishop Eddie Long is widely known for his uncompromising opposition to gay sex but is being accused of coercing sex from young boys under his “spiritual” guidance. We thus have all the makings of a Goliath who will certainly fall harder because of his sizeable influence in not only the Atlanta area community, but also because of his vast presence in national and international politics and affairs.
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Richelle Carey of CNN’s Headline News interviews author Deborrah Cooper on how the Black church keeps Black women single and lonely. Click to listen!
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Women need to stop trying to be “good girls” and instead stand up for their rights when it comes to dating. Tell men straight up: “hey, I am dating around to find the right fit. You might be that guy, but until I spend more time with you and get to know you better, I am going to continue dating a few guys. You should do the same.”
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If he says “I love you” many females think they have a dream come true. In reality if he really wanted to be with you as a family man he would be doing things very differently. A man that loves and respects you does not set you up for the Dumb Baby Momma Okey Doke.
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Black men consistently blame women for the babies born out of wedlock, charging that black women should “close their legs” and whining that men have no power to decide anything about a pregnancy. Do they forget that women can’t get pregnant by themselves? Why do Black men refuse to take ownership of their choices, bodies and semen, attempting instead to place that responsibility on women?
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Can you recognize when a man is gaming on you for some ass with fanciful words that get you all excited and thinking you have a committed relationship when you don’t? Sure you do! That’s why you’re in the shit you’re in right now!
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Reverend Al Sharpton and I sat down this week to discuss my controversial article on The Black Church and how black churches work hard to keep Black women single and lonely and under the thumb of preachers around the country.
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I’m tired of hearing Black men whine that they aren’t ready to be a father and that he shouldn’t have to pay child support for a kid he didn’t want. Look here fool… if you are having sex bare with a woman you know is fertile, you are ready to be a father whether you affirm it vocally or not. Actions speak louder than words. You are doing everything it takes to become a father, right? So what are you talking about you ain’t ready?
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Dear Ms. HeartBeat: Why are so many people opposed to abortion? Are they really so stupid that they think a clump of cells is a life? Well I have a little news for you folks… it is not a life until it is born! Signed, Fed Up Dear Fed Up: People also believe in Santa [...]
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Should a woman that wants to get married take the bull by the horns and propose marriage to her guy? What are the pros and cons of a woman proposing marriage?
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It really doesn’t matter why a man is verbally or psychologically abusive towards females, nor does it matter if the undercover abuse is purposeful or not, the damage to a woman’s self esteem and emotional stability if she listens to that bullshit is exactly the same, and it can be quite considerable.
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