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		<title>The Decline in Black Marriages&#8230; Is Marriage for Educated White People?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 01:40:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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</script></div>A report released on January 18th, 2010 by the Pew Research Center identifies a fundamental reconfiguration of marriage: As a consequence of increased education and greater access to high-paying jobs, wives are more likely than ever before to earn more and to be better educated than their husbands. Research indicates that equality in a number of areas is associated with today’s successful relationships: similar background, social class and educational level among them. Why then are so many Black men angry at Black women for demanding that their spouse have a college degree?]]></description>
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		<title>Can Exes Be Just Friends?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 04:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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</script></div>Can exes be friends?  Sure they CAN, but what would be the point? Someone is just going to try to cock-block or get back in where you don't want them to be, flip out with jealousy, or be all up in your business.  When its over, let it be over and move on.]]></description>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Waste Your Time on a Fearful Defeatist</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 06:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Some people submit to defeat quickly.  Their fear of failure causes them to settle for mediocrity instead of taking the risk to achieve excellence. Defeatist attitudes are easier to assume than facing one's fears and moving forward. However, the courageous, those that become successful and leaders, those that make things happen never stop, never give up and never succumb willingly to defeat.  The #1 goal of the courageous winner is to get to the other side of fear and the limitations fear places on our willingness to seek and then achieve greatness.  Whatever you need to do, get over your fears! ]]></description>
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		<title>10 Things Women Do That Drive Men Away</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 08:35:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ten item list contained in this article may anger many women. This isn't a list of complaints, it's information intended to provide women with insight into what men are thinking; it's a bridge across the communication gap. After all, without straight and candid communication, we can't solve the issues that threaten to end so many relationships. Use these ten issues as a starting point for a dialogue with your husband, the man in your life, or a male friend. Such an open discussion will give you even more insight and help to improve your relationship. ]]></description>
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		<title>Opposites Attract or Do You Attract Who You Are?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 07:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Which do we believe... opposites attract or you attract who you are?  I really don't think it's at all necessary for a couple to be like a set of matched bookends or The Bobbsey Twins. Finding common ground with regards to emotional commitment, honesty, respect, and conscientious adherence to your marital ties, no matter how opposite you may be in dozens of ways, is the mark of a truly solid couple.]]></description>
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		<title>The 70% of Black Women Are Single Lie Exposed</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 09:53:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think it is important to note that statistics I am going to present apply only to those who self-identified in the last Census as just Black – not Black and Native American, not bi-racial, not a blend of three or more races like Tiger Woods with his Cablasian self. The “single never married” group of African Americans is close to 50% of the African American population. However, this statistical grouping also includes men. It also includes people that are gay or lesbian, that don't want to get married EVER, those incarcerated that are not allowed to marry until their release, as well as those involved in a relationship that is not yet at the altar (engaged or living together).]]></description>
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		<title>Why Women Should Stop Having Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 20:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My lobby against women having children has begun.  You ladies limit your options when you are saddled down with some knucklehead's child. You give him power over you to drag you into court, something to threaten to take from you, something he can hurt in a twisted attempt to hurt you. When you have children and are raising them alone, you will end up broke and tied down.  You cannot go out and have fun anymore because you have responsibilities. You end up overwhelmed, frustrated, and often viewed by other men as being unworthy of being anything more than a roll in the hay because now you are "used goods."  ]]></description>
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		<title>Father&#8217;s Rights and Violence Against Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Dec 2009 16:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The fathers’ rights movement focuses on trying to re-establish fathers’ authority and control over their children’s and ex-partners’ lives, on gaining an equality concerned with fathers’ ‘rights’ and status rather than the actual care of children, and on winding back legal and cultural changes which have lessened gender inequalities. Fathers’ rights groups are well-organised advocates for changes in family law, and vocal opponents of feminist perspectives and achievements on interpersonal violence.]]></description>
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