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Deborrah

Dating advice columnist on AskHeartBeat.Com and Examiner.Com; hosts the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show on BlogTalkRadio every Sunday evening at 5:30 pm (PST). She is the author of hundreds of articles on dating and relationships, and penned the Best Black Books of 2007 award-winning guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Sucka Free Love is a hilarious, street smart examination of the mistakes singles make in relationships - find it on Amazon.Com.

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Help! My Boyfriend is a Big Ole Freak!

| 05/16/2012 | Comments (1)
Help! My Boyfriend is a Big Ole Freak!

Sexually incompatible with her boyfriend’s interest in group sex, bisexuality and porn, a confused and very hurt girlfriend wonders if she should dump him and move on now, or stay and work it out.

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You Need to Train Men How to Treat You?

| 05/10/2012 | Comments (3)
You Need to Train Men How to Treat You?

Why do so many relationship experts tell single women that they must train men – grown men now, how to treat them? Especially when these guys already know how to treat a woman when in reality some men choose to be ratchet instead of respectful!

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Why Do Men Think Everything Women Do Is About Them?

| 05/04/2012 | Comments (2)
Why Do Men Think Everything Women Do Is About Them?

Why do so many men turn every decision women make that protects their heart or body from being used for sex by players into being an attack on them? Why are women not allowed the right to say “no sex!” to men that they are merely dating because rushing to intimacy is not good for HER?

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All Men Lie – What They Really Want to Marry is a ‘Ho Not a Housewife

| 05/01/2012 | Comments (3)
All Men Lie – What They Really Want to Marry is a ‘Ho Not a Housewife

“Can’t turn a ho into a housewife!” Men need to learn to choose what works best for them which is most likely going to be a freaky wild ho that delivers sexual experiences that make his toes curl, not an apron wearing, cookie baking housewife.

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Mothering: Racial Differences in Parenting Styles Between Black and White Women

| 04/24/2012 | Comments (11)
Mothering: Racial Differences in Parenting Styles Between Black and White Women

The differences in parenting styles between a Black Momma and a White Mom are discussed and analyzed. Can you relate?

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Black men and dating: Who should pay for dates?

| 04/24/2012 | Comments (56)
Black men and dating: Who should pay for dates?

Who should pay for dates? Many black women believe they should pay half because when a man pays he expects something in return or that it gives him power. I disagree but what do you say?

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Dating Tips: What Questions do you Ask During the First Date?

| 04/14/2012 | Comments (2)
Dating Tips: What Questions do you Ask During the First Date?

How to handle first date getting to know you questions. The machine gun rapid fire questioning might not be the best approach, and here’s why.

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Should a Woman Ever Tell Her New Man About a Past Abortion?

| 04/14/2012 | Comments (9)
Should a Woman Ever Tell Her New Man About a Past Abortion?

Discussion of the pros and cons of telling the new man in your life about past the sexual adventures, an abortion, or STDs. If its in the past, that’s where it should stay and a woman should never tell her secrets Deborrah says. What’s your stance?

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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

| 04/13/2012 | Comments (2)
10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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If he doesn’t want a relationship what can I do to change his mind?

| 04/12/2012 | Comments (0)
If he doesn’t want a relationship what can I do to change his mind?

How should a woman handle a friendship that turned sexual with a guy she’s known for years when he has no real interest in moving things along to a true committed relationship?

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Black Women in Interracial Relationships Get Their Swirl On!

| 04/11/2012 | Comments (1)
Black Women in Interracial Relationships Get Their Swirl On!

Swirling is a new relationship guide for black women looking to make the jump into the world of interracial relationships. Full of tips for success and answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to know the answers to but were afraid to ask.

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April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month : The Rapist Checklist

| 04/07/2012 | Comments (0)
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month : The Rapist Checklist

Besides being forced to give a man sex at knife or gunpoint, are there other coercive behaviors that men use that constitute rape? The answer is YES! Read this list and learn what men do and say that means they are raping you.

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