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Deborrah

Dating advice columnist on AskHeartBeat.Com and Examiner.Com; hosts the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show on BlogTalkRadio every Sunday evening at 5:30 pm (PST). She is the author of hundreds of articles on dating and relationships, and penned the Best Black Books of 2007 award-winning guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Sucka Free Love is a hilarious, street smart examination of the mistakes singles make in relationships - find it on Amazon.Com.

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Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?

| 01/28/2012 | Comments (0)
Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?

Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.

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Swagga, Macho and The Streets – What Makes a Black Male a Man?

| 01/28/2012 | Comments (0)
Swagga, Macho and The Streets – What Makes a Black Male a Man?

Are black men socialized to focus on swaggar, macho and street-thug behavior as their measure of manhood? What behaviors and attitudes constitute manhood to Black men? What makes a Black man a man?

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Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?

| 01/25/2012 | Comments (0)
Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?

What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.

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Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?

| 01/24/2012 | Comments (0)
Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?

Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?

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Cheating in Relationships – Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat

| 01/22/2012 | Comments (1)
Cheating in Relationships – Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat

Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating. Do you know which days those are?

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Is Polygyny a Viable Option for Single Black Women Seeking Marriage?

| 01/12/2012 | Comments (3)
Is Polygyny a Viable Option for Single Black Women Seeking Marriage?

Can polygamous marriages really be the answer to the large numbers of single African American women in the U.S.? Black men say yes and that polygyny should be legalized. What do you have to say about polygyny – a man having more than one wife?

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Survey on Polygyny – What is Your Stance on Polygamous Marriages

| 01/12/2012 | Comments (0)
Survey on Polygyny – What is Your Stance on Polygamous Marriages

What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?

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Courting vs Dating – Why Courting Needs to Make a Comeback

| 01/12/2012 | Comments (0)
Courting vs Dating – Why Courting Needs to Make a Comeback

Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.

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Your Best Friend is Getting Cheated On – What Do You Do?

| 01/08/2012 | Comments (2)
Your Best Friend is Getting Cheated On – What Do You Do?

What would you do if you had first hand proof that your best friend was being cheated on? Would you tell it immediately, pretend you didn’t see anything and stay out of it, or approach the cheater yourself?

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Dating Advice – Phrases Men Hate to Hear Women Say

| 01/04/2012 | Comments (0)
Dating Advice – Phrases Men Hate to Hear Women Say

What are some of the things women say that make men break out into a cold sweat and shiver with anxiety? Here’s our list of the top dozen or so phrases women say that fill men with dread.

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The ‘Ho Test – Why and How Men Test the Women They Date (part 2)

| 01/03/2012 | Comments (4)
The ‘Ho Test – Why and How Men Test the Women They Date (part 2)

Discussion of the dozens of tests men run to determine the morals and values of the women they date. Whether his goal is to game on her or to make sure its safe to commit to and love her, all men run a version of the ‘ho test.

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The ‘Ho Test – How and Why Men Test Women’s Values and Morals

| 01/02/2012 | Comments (0)
The ‘Ho Test – How and Why Men Test Women’s Values and Morals

All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, churchgoing “husband material” men will run some variation of the ‘ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions and issues put forth will determine whether he puts feelings into a relationship with you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing..

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