Dating advice columnist on AskHeartBeat.Com and Examiner.Com; hosts the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show on BlogTalkRadio every Sunday evening at 5:30 pm (PST). She is the author of hundreds of articles on dating and relationships, and penned the Best Black Books of 2007 award-winning guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Sucka Free Love is a hilarious, street smart examination of the mistakes singles make in relationships - find it on Amazon.Com.
Black men have the right to be selfish and talk shit about Valentine’s Day if you want to – nobody is stopping you. But don’t say nothin when your selfishness hurts your woman. When she doesn’t want you to touch her, and certainly doesn’t want to share her coochie with you, it will be your own fault.
At first he treated her like a queen with romantic dinners and wine at sunset on the beach; but now he claims to be broke, even the day after payday. What kind of pimp game is this running?
Are black men socialized to focus on swaggar, macho and street-thug behavior as their measure of manhood? What behaviors and attitudes constitute manhood to Black men? What makes a Black man a man?
Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.
The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?
Why do so many single Black men resent Valentine’s Day and refuse to do anything special for the woman they claim to love? Why do so many Black women accept being ignored on Valentine’s Day by their man?
Margaret Sanger has been accused by Black men of starting Planned Parenthood for the sole purpose of eradicating the black race. Are Black women to be denied the right to birth control and abortions to satisfy the demands of black nationalists?
Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating, and Valentine’s Day is one of them.
How can men divorce proof their relationships? Putting in time, energy and effort to understand a woman’s body and sexual intimacy needs will go a long way towards lowering the divorce rate and becoming a better lover. Arrogance has no place in the bedroom fellas. Listen and learn!
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.
Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?
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