Dating advice columnist on AskHeartBeat.Com and Examiner.Com; hosts the Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show on BlogTalkRadio every Sunday evening at 5:30 pm (PST). She is the author of hundreds of articles on dating and relationships, and penned the Best Black Books of 2007 award-winning guide to modern dating "Sucka Free Love! How to Avoid Dating The Dumb, The Deceitful, The Dastardly, The Dysfunctional & The Deranged." Sucka Free Love is a hilarious, street smart examination of the mistakes singles make in relationships - find it on Amazon.Com.
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
Are black men socialized to focus on swaggar, macho and street-thug behavior as their measure of manhood? What behaviors and attitudes constitute manhood to Black men? What makes a Black man a man?
What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.
Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?
Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating. Do you know which days those are?
Can polygamous marriages really be the answer to the large numbers of single African American women in the U.S.? Black men say yes and that polygyny should be legalized. What do you have to say about polygyny – a man having more than one wife?
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
What would you do if you had first hand proof that your best friend was being cheated on? Would you tell it immediately, pretend you didn’t see anything and stay out of it, or approach the cheater yourself?
What are some of the things women say that make men break out into a cold sweat and shiver with anxiety? Here’s our list of the top dozen or so phrases women say that fill men with dread.
Discussion of the dozens of tests men run to determine the morals and values of the women they date. Whether his goal is to game on her or to make sure its safe to commit to and love her, all men run a version of the ‘ho test.
All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, churchgoing “husband material” men will run some variation of the ‘ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions and issues put forth will determine whether he puts feelings into a relationship with you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing..
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