Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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What Turns Women Off? Scary Ass Men That Are Afraid of Rejection

. 09/04/2012 . 13 Comments

Men don’t understand that their fear of rejection turns women off. Women don’t like having to ask men out or be the pursuer because it does not inspire feelings of passion and desire in the female spirit.

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The Top 5 Reasons Men Don’t Get Laid!

. 09/02/2012 . 5 Comments

Why do some guys get all the women, and other guys sit at home lonely and horny? The answer is this: the men that have women are willing to put energy and effort into learning how to talk to and treat females. Whether married or single, if you aren’t getting laid regularly, the problem is with YOU!

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You are NOT in a Relationship and He is NOT Your Man!

. 08/31/2012 . 3 Comments

Many women find themselves confused about the difference between booty calls, friends with benefits and real committed relationships. How to know when you are in a relationship and when he is and is NOT your man.

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What Turns Women Off – Seven Things Men Wear That Turn Women Off

. 08/14/2012 . 9 Comments

Though fashion changes from generation to generation, there are certain styles of clothing and accessories that all men should avoid. If you are an adult male over the age of 18 and you wear these items you really need to stop. Like today.

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Because It’s All Your Fault Black Woman

. 08/14/2012 . 1 Comment

The black community is suffering from severe mental illness. It’s called Blame the Black Woman which encompasses total rejection of responsibility and accountability for the things black men do and say that harm black women and children. This toxic behavior must stop.

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Webinar 9/8/12 – NO! is a Complete Sentence with Deborrah Cooper

. 07/30/2012 . 1 Comment

No! really is a complete sentence Webinar hosted by dating expert Deborrah Cooper takes place September 8 2012. Learn the importance of emotional, physical, and mental boundaries. Learn how to stand up for yourself.

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When Fun Turns into Sexual Assault a Good Time is Not Had by All

. 07/25/2012 . 0 Comments

The rape conviction of Oklahoma State University basketball player Darrel Williams separates the black community into two camps – those that defend the attacker and blame the victim for a sexual assault, and those who believe he got what he deserved as black athletes think they are above reproach.

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Natural Black Hair Care – Flax Seed Gel Moisturizer

. 07/23/2012 . 0 Comments

Enjoy the wonderful moisturizing benefits of flax seed gel on your natural black hair. Extra moisturizing for dry hair with this easy to make home made flax seed gel recipe that contains aloe, essential oil and penetrating avocado oil.

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Will Black Churches Finally Do Something About HIV/AIDS in Black Women?

. 07/23/2012 . 10 Comments

HIV and AIDS has been ignored by black churches since the 1980s. When will black church leaders finally get their heads out of their asses and do something about HIV/AIDS and stop pretending people are not having sex?

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Pastor Sexual Abuse in Black Churches Must Not be Defended by Black Women

. 07/17/2012 . 2 Comments

Pastor sexual abuse occurs frequently in black churches, yet black female congregants are quick to forgive and often defend the pastor’s criminal actions while blaming the victim. Both behaviors must stop.

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Bride’s Beautiful Wedding Day Risks Ruin by In-Laws From Hell

. 07/07/2012 . 4 Comments

Wedding day plans going sour for bride-to-be who discovers her future in-laws are flaky, manipulative liars.

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Friends with Benefits, Booty Calls and Bed Buddy Dating Relationships

. 07/06/2012 . 4 Comments

Friends with benefits relationships sometimes cause more problems than they solve. What words of wisdom do you have for a man or woman involved in a friends with benefits type relationship?

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