Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Non-Prescription Access for Minors to Plan B Pill Denied by FDA

| 12/07/2011 | Comments (1)
Non-Prescription Access for Minors to Plan B Pill Denied by FDA

This morning the FDA denied a petition to change the Plan B morning after pill from a prescription drug to a retail product available even to girls under the age of 17.

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She’s Hot, You’re Not – How To Get Her to Like You Anyway

| 12/04/2011 | Comments (0)
She's Hot, You're Not – How To Get Her to Like You Anyway

From the teens into their 40s, men are confused about what women seek in a man. Here are a few tips to help get you closer to having the girl of your dreams like you back.

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A Date is NOT You Making Butt-Prints on My Couch!

| 11/30/2011 | Comments (3)
A Date is NOT You Making Butt-Prints on My Couch!

The first thing some men do after talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman’s home. Their idea of a date is spending time together relaxing on your couch… in close proximity to the bedroom. A “no, I don’t know you well enough yet” response may cause such a man to press even harder or become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this increasingly common behavior pattern, and what should women do to counter it?

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The Strange Thing About The Johnsons Discussion

| 11/28/2011 | Comments (1)
The Strange Thing About The Johnsons Discussion

We take a whole new look at child sexual abuse in this riveting short film that puts an interesting twist on the power and control games, the denial and the unwillingness of witnesses to protect victims. Share your thoughts

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Seven Dumb Things Women Tell Each Other About Men and Relationships

| 11/20/2011 | Comments (17)
Seven Dumb Things Women Tell Each Other About Men and Relationships

There are dozens of silly things women tell each other about men, dating, love and relationships, these are the seven that cause the most damage to the female spirit.

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder in the Black Community

| 11/20/2011 | Comments (90)
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder is characterized by long standing patterns of lack of empathy towards others, a need to be fawned over, and a belief in their innate superiority. With Black males demanding submission by women and having no sympathy to women’s plights, how many Black men can be identified as suffering from this mental illness?

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No Such Thing as a Traditional Marriage Anymore

| 11/17/2011 | Comments (0)
No Such Thing as a Traditional Marriage Anymore

As the world changes, so does our concept of marriage, equality of races, women’s roles in society, and women’s roles in marriage. With that in mind, is there such a thing as “a traditional marriage” anymore?

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Daughter Was Fighting at School

| 11/10/2011 | Comments (0)
Daughter Was Fighting at School

When your daughter gets punched in the face at school after defending herself from a boy’s attack, is it right for her to be punished?

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What Black Women Need to Be Happy

| 11/10/2011 | Comments (14)
What Black Women Need to Be Happy

Black women are tired of hearing Black men say that we are bitter, unhappy, or that we alone are responsible for the high numbers of single family homes and fatherless children. We’re not. Black women are tired of the bullshit, the blaming, the failure of men to step up to take responsibility for the mistakes they’ve made. We, just like women of other races, deserve to have a decent, loving, committed and honorable man in our arms. We deserve wonderful fathers for our children. We deserve to have respectful Black men be our husbands as well our lovers. Where are these men?

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Sexual Double Standards and The Virtuous Woman

| 11/06/2011 | Comments (2)
Sexual Double Standards and The Virtuous Woman

Black men pass down, from generation to generation a mentality that judges and condemns women based on what has happened with one part of her body. When are men going to grow up?

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Can Church Help a Cheating Alcoholic Change?

| 11/04/2011 | Comments (1)
Can Church Help a Cheating Alcoholic Change?

With his marriage in shambles, an alcoholic cheating husband takes to church and religion – but will that really help long-term?

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Should Black Women Feel Sorry for Kris Humphries? Hell to the Naw!

| 11/02/2011 | Comments (3)
Should Black Women Feel Sorry for Kris Humphries? Hell to the Naw!

Noting the double standard in which allows Black men to judge the sexual behaviors and number of partners of Black women harshly, while completely ignoring the sexual past of White women. What’s that all about?

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