Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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MANSPLAINING – Mansplaining Defined

| 03/15/2017 | Comments (0)
MANSPLAINING - Mansplaining Defined

What is mansplaining? When men attempt to redefine women’s use of language and nullify women’s experiences with their own vision, you’ve seen mansplaining in action.

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Dating and Jealousy… Why Bother Being Jealous?

| 02/23/2017 | Comments (2)
Jealous men jealousy in relationships

Controlling, jealous, possessive behaviors have no place in loving relationships; and neither does disrespectful flirting, threatening your partner with abandonment, or cheating. When you truly believe that you deserve to have someone that loves you just as you are, and believe that anyone would be lucky to have you in their corner, you won’t get jealous. You won’t feel threatened by people that try to get at your lover, because you are confident that your mate is truly all about you.

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The True Path to a Man’s Heart

| 02/14/2017 | Comments (15)
The True Path to a Man's Heart

Women make the mistake of being so giving, so loving, so pleasing, so sweet and gentle to men all the time thinking that is the key to his heart and making him love them more. In reality that shit bores men out of their minds!

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The Mother-Son Relationship: Men With a Mother Complex

| 02/09/2017 | Comments (0)
The Mother-Son Relationship: Men With a Mother Complex

Dr. Peter Milhado explores the mother-son relationship in which the mother has been wounded, and forms an unhealthy attachment to her son.

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True Forced Independence – Black Men FORCED Us to Not Need a Man

| 02/06/2017 | Comments (0)
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Black men have created a situation where they removed themselves from the equation of black families and black communities and made themselves obsolete. So now that black women have learned they “don’t need a man” to survive, black men are angry. Huh? You are responsible for true forced independence.

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Do Black Men Want a Momma Figure They Can Screw?

| 02/05/2017 | Comments (0)
Peter Pan Syndrome men want to be nurtured catered to and spoiled by substitute momma figures

Infantilized black men are rampant in the black community these days – men who seek to avoid the responsibilities and obligations of adulthood by depending on single black women women to take care of, spoil and nurture them as a replacement momma.

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Educated Lames, Classic Men, True Forced Loneliness, and Whining Ass Black Men

| 02/02/2017 | Comments (0)
educated lames classic men true forced loneliness

Educated lames are men with degrees who have no skills with women at all, and are therefore single, angry, horny and lonely. They blame women for their “true forced loneliness” an affliction they claim that women give them by ignoring their needs. I say they are all full of crap and here is why.

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Feminine Energy is Nothing But Bullshit

| 02/01/2017 | Comments (5)
Feminine Energy is Nothing But Bullshit

Do women have to pretend to be or actually be weak, passive and vulnerable (feminine) so that men can feel strong, action-oriented and invincible (masculine)? It certainly appears that way.

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Black Women – Stop Nurturing Grown Ass Men

| 01/29/2017 | Comments (13)
Black Women - Stop Nurturing Grown Ass Men

Black women think it is their job to provide nurturing to grown men in relationships; however I believe such behavior is contributing to the growing number of immature adult babies masquerading as men that fill the Black community and prisons.

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Husband Calls Wife Slut and Whore for Creative Sex Life

| 01/14/2017 | Comments (0)
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Wife creates exciting sex life with fantasy stories, but judgmental husband condemns her with vile names like slut and whore.

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Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

| 01/12/2017 | Comments (0)
Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

Are jealousy, insecurity and verbal put-downs considered red flags in a new dating relationship?

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Child Sexual Abuse in the Black Community – Survey Results

| 01/11/2017 | Comments (0)
landmark study on childhood sexual abuse in the black community; child molesting statistics

No one wants to talk about it, but child sexual abuse is the biggest “dirty little secret” in the black community, and has been for generations. This landmark study, with more than 8000 responses, gets to the heart of the matter of sexual abuse amongst African Americans.

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