Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Black Women – Stop Nurturing Grown Ass Men

| 01/29/2017 | Comments (13)
Black Women - Stop Nurturing Grown Ass Men

Black women think it is their job to provide nurturing to grown men in relationships; however I believe such behavior is contributing to the growing number of immature adult babies masquerading as men that fill the Black community and prisons.

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Husband Calls Wife Slut and Whore for Creative Sex Life

| 01/14/2017 | Comments (0)
better sex life

Wife creates exciting sex life with fantasy stories, but judgmental husband condemns her with vile names like slut and whore.

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Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

| 01/12/2017 | Comments (0)
Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

Are jealousy, insecurity and verbal put-downs considered red flags in a new dating relationship?

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Child Sexual Abuse in the Black Community – Survey Results

| 01/11/2017 | Comments (0)
landmark study on childhood sexual abuse in the black community; child molesting statistics

No one wants to talk about it, but child sexual abuse is the biggest “dirty little secret” in the black community, and has been for generations. This landmark study, with more than 8000 responses, gets to the heart of the matter of sexual abuse amongst African Americans.

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Passion Has Left Our Marriage – Is She Cheating on Me?

| 12/06/2016 | Comments (0)
woman avoids sex with husband

What should a young husband do when the passion seems to have left his relationship, and he and his wife have sex once per month if that? However his chief concern isn’t the marriage falling apart but: “is she cheating on me?”

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What do I do when he won’t take no for an answer?

| 11/24/2016 | Comments (1)
stalking men won't take no for an answer

Young woman experiences harassment from a guy she has no interest in dating, and asks what to do when a man won’t take no for an answer.

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First Hand Accounts of Female Slaves

| 11/06/2016 | Comments (0)
slavery women in slavery

Learn the history of black female slaves reading this informative book on the tragic realities of life as a female slave in Far More Terrible For Women.

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What Makes a Man Afraid of Commitment?

| 11/06/2016 | Comments (4)
fear of commitment, why men are afraid of commitment

There is nothing wrong with saying you are afraid of something! Fear is a normal human emotion just like being angry, being sad, being happy. But the bottom line is women are AFRAID of being abandoned and behave accordingly, and men are AFRAID of commitment and losing options, and they behave accordingly as well. Each gender finds reasons to justify their behaviors and reasons for running away from commitment.

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Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

| 11/01/2016 | Comments (2)
Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

What is manhood? What do women really need to see to know that a male has the qualities and attitude necessary and is worthy of being bestowed the title “man?”

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When abortion is the smartest choice for all concerned

| 10/30/2016 | Comments (0)
abortion choice

Involving innocent children in adult silliness can have catastrophic effects on a child’s life. Sometimes abortion is the smartest choice for all concerned.

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Single Women – Get Up on Game for Smarter Dating

| 09/10/2016 | Comments (0)
controlling relationships abusive relationships single black women single black men

A series of videos which examine the games black men run on single women and girls to get you to stay with them hoping for more, giving to them in a vacuum, focusing on them in a one-sided relationship, and worrying about keeping THEM happy while they do little to nothing in return for you. You deserve to have a loving union which is fulfilling and supportive…not some one-sided pimp player crap masquerading as “a relationship” that leaves you feeling empty and depleted.

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The Dirty Dozen – My Top 12 Dating Pet Peeves

| 08/18/2016 | Comments (1)
Top 12 dating pet peeves

I loved the fantastic war movie The Dirty Dozen. If you haven’t seen it before, try getting it for your next Blockbuster night. Exciting action drama, espionage, comedy, lots of stuff blowing up, sex, death, hope and redemption – it’s all there! But just like in dating, the story SOUNDS like an exciting adventure, so you sign on for the mission. It’s only after you get started on the journey that you find out that it is gonna be hard to make it out alive without losing a limb, or getting ventilated with bullet holes. What follows is my top 12 pet peeves, which I have affectionately dubbed The Dirty Dozen Dating Pet Peeves!

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