Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
The Dreaded “What Are You Thinking?” Question…
Why do women waste their time asking men “what are you thinking?” when men are never thinking anything?
He keeps hurting me by using me for sex
I know I’m stupid but I forgive him every time he calls and explains how hard it is on him to be without me in his life. How can I know if he’s using me for sex?
Why Black Women Are Their Own Worst Enemy
It saddens me to see educated, professional Black women share invalidating, denigrating commentary with other Black women. Every time you read or hear something which negates your intelligence, desirability, skin color, marriageability or morals – your self-esteem is damaged. You are doing the work of racists FOR THEM by promoting and marketing their product of hate. You are the sole reason their messages of hate are going viral.
Are Most Black Men Insecure With Low Self-Esteem?
LL Cool J believes Black men are insecure. Men with low self esteem blame other people (typically women), for their failures and shortcomings, refusing to take personal responsibility for their lack of action.
Black women in America: dispelling myths and stereotypes
Sophia Angeli Nelson discusses her well-researched and important book which delves into the challenges faced by the 21st century black woman.
Week 6: The Pudge Be Gone Fitness Challenge
The 100 Reps Challenge Perform 100 reps of the following 5 exercises this week: 100 Squats 100 push ups 100 crunches 100 burpees 100 arm exercises (??) (throw in another challenge a big curve ball) how about lose 3 lbs or 3 ” measurements PLUS 500 minutes of cardio
Failure is Part of the Game of Life and Love!
If you are never willing to risk striking out and experiencing failure, you’ll never give yourself the opportunity to hit the ball out of the park and become a winner!
Will.I.Am Says Women That Possess Condoms Are Tacky
In a recent interview Black Eye Peas frontman Will.I.Am shared his views on female sexuality, growing up fatherless, losing his virginity, and ass cleaning.
Week 5: The Pudge Be Gone! Fitness Challenge
Burpee are extremely versatile, and can accommodate every fitness level. This week’s challenge: knock out at least 200 burpees by week’s end! Let’s get to it!
When Sex With Him is NOT All That!
On this show hundreds of women will share what they want from men mentally, emotionally and physically to help men learn how to stimulate their female partners. Become a memorable lover!
Garbage Men and Scavenger Bitches
Lonely for companionship and sex, scavenger bitches scour the earth picking up anything male with a pulse. Scavenger bitches repeatedly align themselves with the most undesirable men and settle for the most disrespectful treatment – men that other women with better sense have rejected.
Dating Tips and Advice: The Go-Nowhere Relationship
Women must learn the dynamics of dating and how to select a man that works for the long haul. Do you have the courage to wait for your yacht to come in, or are you settling for a leaky rowboat man? An interesting take on the subject of love and dating between single men and women.
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