Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Shopping for Men is Just Like Shopping for Shoes

| 04/26/2015 | Comments (0)
why dating men is just like trying on shoes

You’ll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they refused to keep shopping until they find a shoe that fit perfectly. The same mentality women have about shopping for shoes is often the same one they have about shopping for a man.

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During a break up my girl slept with one of my friends… how do I get over it?

| 04/24/2015 | Comments (0)
black woman suffering from Rhetoric Fatigue Syndrome

A young man is anguished by the mental vision of his ex girlfriend being intimate with a friend she dated during a long break up, and seeks advice on how to move past his jealousy.

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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

| 02/20/2015 | Comments (2)
10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles - Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex

| 02/10/2015 | Comments (0)
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A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.

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How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You’re a White Boy from the Valley?

| 10/01/2014 | Comments (0)
How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You're a White Boy from the Valley?

This week it all came out. Like a scab being ripped off a sore, the ugly truth about Thug Kitchen has been revealed and charges of racism, cultural appropriation and general stupidity have been levied at the two site owners who have hidden like cowards and failed to address the conflict.

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Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse

| 09/12/2014 | Comments (0)
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If you’ve endured abuse – punching, slapping, kicking, choking, arm twisting, forced intercourse, threats of violence to you, your pets or your children, hair pulling etc. by a romantic partner, friend, family member or stranger, please share your story.

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The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

| 07/20/2014 | Comments (505)
The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

Single Black women sit in church every Sunday being brainwashed and placated into waiting for love. The true reason that there are so many single, never married Black women in the U.S. is the Black church which promotes female submission and subjugation to men, to the detriment of female achievement and happiness.

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My Boyfriend Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant

| 04/27/2014 | Comments (0)

How can a boyfriend of seven years who cheated and got another woman pregnant ever think he and the woman he cheated on “work things out?”

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Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

| 02/28/2014 | Comments (3)
Twelve Reasons Side Chicks Are Smarter Than Wives or Girlfriends

When you are married or in a relationship and your man cheats with a side chick, it makes YOU a side chick too. So don’t be getting all high and mighty, thinking you are better than the next broad because you have a ring and his last name. Understand that he doesn’t give any more fucks about YOU and that ring he gave you, or the relationship you two have than he does about HER… both of y’all are side chicks.

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Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

| 12/20/2013 | Comments (31)
Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

The BWE movement (Black Women’s Empowerment) is filled with black women who continue to hang onto a need for validation, acceptance and acknowledgement by black men. I believe it is a twisted need to feel something… anything… including pain.

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Relationship Research Survey: Important Questions I Should Have Asked

| 12/10/2013 | Comments (0)
advice question submission form

Have you regretted not getting vital information and asking important questions before getting involved in a relationship? “Hindsight is 20/20” as the saying goes, but asking the right questions means we’ll get the right answers and possibly save ourselves from unnecessary heartache.

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Black Men Be All Up in Their Feelings Like Women

| 12/07/2013 | Comments (5)
black men all up in their feelings

Modern black men be all up in their feelings like women, whining about the things black women say on social media and demanding that women specify SOME black men when she is critical of black male behaviors.

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