Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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The 13 Types of Men a Woman Should Never Marry

| 06/22/2015 | Comments (1)
no marry these 13 types of guys

Seeing the “potential” in a man is great – if you’re 16. As an adult, what you see is what you get, and no amount of loving support or encouragement will change a man from the man he is to the man you’d like to imagine he can be. If you’re a single woman of the mind that you want a marriage to a great husband, be sure to keep an eye out for these 13 types of high risk dating partners who should NEVER advance to become husbands.

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The Law of Attraction is Stupid

| 06/10/2015 | Comments (2)
abusive men, abusive relationships, the Law of Attraction used to victim blame

Popular amongst those looking for direction and guidance to a better life, the Law of Attraction made millions for those promoting it. But when the Law of Attraction is used to blame victims for their pain and suffering by saying “well you attracted it/him/that experience” you are wrong and you are stupid.

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Ramp Up Your Health with 11 Foods That Boost the Immune System

| 05/04/2015 | Comments (0)
11 foods that boost your immune system

How can you boost your immune system — the bodily functions that fight bacteria, viruses and disease — and give yourself the best opportunity to stay healthy through the winter cold and flu season? This article provides some answers.

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Disgusting List of Blacks Killed by Police 2014-Present

| 05/01/2015 | Comments (2)
thug murderers hiding behind a badge

We must stop wasting time fighting each other and get it together. Mobilize, organize, politicize, and strategize. Start with how to take back your block, your neighborhood, your city, your county, and your state from racist police. Get people out to vote and replace Mayor’s, District Attorneys, City Councilmen, Supervisors and anyone else whose agenda is not in your best interest. Make sure those who are in office are not in league with the police union and that they will make sure any cop who does not perform to the standard expected is terminated immediately.

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Shopping for Men is Just Like Shopping for Shoes

| 04/26/2015 | Comments (0)
why dating men is just like trying on shoes

You’ll see them squeezing their toes into the ill fitting shoe they think is so cute, tiptoeing around some strange gait, or walking barefoot with bunions corns and blisters on their feet because they refused to keep shopping until they find a shoe that fit perfectly. The same mentality women have about shopping for shoes is often the same one they have about shopping for a man.

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During a break up my girl slept with one of my friends… how do I get over it?

| 04/24/2015 | Comments (0)
black woman suffering from Rhetoric Fatigue Syndrome

A young man is anguished by the mental vision of his ex girlfriend being intimate with a friend she dated during a long break up, and seeks advice on how to move past his jealousy.

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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

| 02/20/2015 | Comments (2)
10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles - Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex

| 02/10/2015 | Comments (0)
abusive relationship abusive man

A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.

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How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You’re a White Boy from the Valley?

| 10/01/2014 | Comments (0)
How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You're a White Boy from the Valley?

This week it all came out. Like a scab being ripped off a sore, the ugly truth about Thug Kitchen has been revealed and charges of racism, cultural appropriation and general stupidity have been levied at the two site owners who have hidden like cowards and failed to address the conflict.

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Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse

| 09/12/2014 | Comments (0)
abusive relationships dating violence abused women

If you’ve endured abuse – punching, slapping, kicking, choking, arm twisting, forced intercourse, threats of violence to you, your pets or your children, hair pulling etc. by a romantic partner, friend, family member or stranger, please share your story.

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The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

| 07/20/2014 | Comments (505)
The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

Single Black women sit in church every Sunday being brainwashed and placated into waiting for love. The true reason that there are so many single, never married Black women in the U.S. is the Black church which promotes female submission and subjugation to men, to the detriment of female achievement and happiness.

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My Boyfriend Cheated and Got Another Woman Pregnant

| 04/27/2014 | Comments (0)

How can a boyfriend of seven years who cheated and got another woman pregnant ever think he and the woman he cheated on “work things out?”

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