Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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Memes About Black Women

. 05/02/2013 . 2 Comments

Memes about black women, black men and black male/female relationships by advice columnist Deborrah Cooper

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How to Keep a Man Interested in You

. 04/27/2013 . 0 Comments

What if anything can a woman do to keep a man interested in dating or marrying her if his attention has wandered, he’s cheating, or he has begun falling off? Does it make sense for a woman to go through changes to keep a man interested or should she move on?

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Day 15 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Killing Ex-Girlfriends

. 04/03/2013 . 2 Comments

Online and offline, men are angry when women resist being under their control. Why is it so difficult for men to accept that a relationship has ended and the solution to their pain is killing their ex-girlfriend?

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This is NOT A Free Speech Zone

. 03/26/2013 . 1 Comment

You have no rights of free speech on this web page. You speak like you have some sense and your comments will be posted. You can disagree with anything written here, but you best do it in a respectful way. Pretend like your momma is reading it and check yourself.

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Day 12 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Booty Bandits Demanding Anal Sex

. 03/22/2013 . 13 Comments

Another problem I have with this mindset is that DBR black men put the responsibility for keeping their sex life from being stale on black women and anal sex. In other words, her anus has the onus.

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Day 11 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Failure to be Chivalrous

. 03/21/2013 . 4 Comments

Chivalrous behavior is exhibited by men of high moral fiber and character, and they treat everyone in a chivalrous manner because that is who they are. Men that are truly chivalrous gentlemen do not turn their character on and off like a light switch or only be a gentleman to certain people, at certain times. They are instead a chivalrous gentleman to everyone.

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Day 9 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Parasites Moving In With a Girlfriend

. 03/14/2013 . 9 Comments

DBR black men love the idea of moving in with a girlfriend. They want to come move in and roost in your hen house and see nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of your labors while they sleep under a roof they haven’t provided, eating up food they haven’t provided, and running electricity to watch television and play video games when they haven’t provided any of those things either!

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Day 6 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Entitlement Issues and Black Men

. 03/08/2013 . 6 Comments

Violence by bitter beta DBR black men who claim to be “nice guys” or “good black men” discussed. How a sense of entitlement will cause them to verbally abuse women who reject them with profanity, and physically abuse women with flying fists or objects.

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Day 5 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: You Are Not a King

. 03/07/2013 . 1 Comment

Black men running amuck in the black community are hardly kings though they bestow that title to themselves. They are fools, not men. They destroy rather than create; crush rather than uplift, and kill spirits and people rather than bring forth joy and happiness. They are, in many instances, barely human. They are certainly NOT Kings.

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Day 4 – 40 Days of Rain on FUBAR Black Men – Racking Up Pussy Points

. 03/06/2013 . 4 Comments

Most young black men are focused on nothing but their dick. They focus on getting it wet at every opportunity, and shoving it in as many holes as they can find and fill. Why aren’t black males focusing on achievement of greatness instead of acquisition of pussy?

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Day 3 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Failure to Protect

. 03/05/2013 . 8 Comments

Widespread acceptance of violence by black men towards black women is dangerous. Black women have no confidence that black men will protect them, as in many instances you are the ones that she needs protection from! Too many of you now see the victimization of women as nothing but entertainment.

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Do Not Get Offended Black Man Unless What I Say Applies to You

. 03/03/2013 . 0 Comments

Why is it that black males group themselves together and seem incapable of separating the knucklehead punks and thug criminals from the decent hard working black man. If a woman criticizes the former, for some reason the latter will quickly come to their defense.

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