Comments on: If You Didn’t ‘Get’ How The Black Church Keeps Black Women Single…

By: Deborrah

Deborrah — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 18:53:41 +0000

Yawn. Why Black women believe they must be less in order to elevate Black men and trick them into believing they are more (without doing anything to deserve it), is beyond my understanding. Jesus is nothing but slavemaster trickeration and b.s. Again, why Black women in 2011 hold onto any remnant of slavery and even want to argue with other Black folks in favor of the slavemaster’s brainwashing shows how lost the majority of Black women are.

It would actually be quite depressing if I allowed myself to care that much.

By: Kayle

Kayle — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 07:17:15 +0000

Good for you for leaving and admitting your mistake to your kids!!! So many are in bondage (to bridge things with a church term) to lies! Good for you for cutting yourself and your kids free.

By: Kayle

Kayle — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 07:12:04 +0000

YOU. IS. OUTCHO. MIND.

The ratio of single black women to black men, ESPECIALLY IN THE CHURCH, blows this theory to pieces. We don’t even need case studies here. H***, if you found them they’d be the exceptions that prove the rule held up as a dishonest example. Holy crud!

By: Kayle

Kayle — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 07:04:09 +0000

You know, when you believe god is on your side making you super-human, you will win a lot of battles. Or die trying. Faith. Period. Is what helped the people you talk about, but a heezy of a lot more other people on their side died and never saw what they were fighting for, too. I suspect the same is for “good” single christian women. a lot of them are “dying” single spinsters waiting on god to bring them a man.
Confirmation bias, my friend, confirmation bias.

By: Kayle

Kayle — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 06:53:35 +0000

yeah. cosigning. I was raised in the white church by codependent mom (well, she was independent, but thought that almost every relationship was a mission from god, and to this day my father has trouble telling me that behavior that mirrors his 1st 30 years is jackassery and to dump the jerk), but believe me, “I kissed dating goodbye” had more of an impact on me than anything T.D. Jakes or Fred Price had do say. It’s this “jesus is magic” to quote Sarah Silverman, thing. It’s a horrifying plot to keep women from having sex outside of marriage that backfires and keeps her from having marriage, or, if she actually listens and believes hard and fast enough, “WANTING marriage.” it is effed up beyond belief.

By: Kayle

Kayle — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 06:43:13 +0000

THANKYA.

By: Deborrah Cooper

Deborrah Cooper — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 20:35:04 +0000

No, its NOT all about Jesus. It’s about us as people and the spiritual power that we have within us. We each have the power to manifest our dreams irrespective of religious beliefs. It is difficult for people of logic and reason to ascribe to the belief of a dead White man saving anyone when he couldn’t even save himself. That concept is completely ridiculous and illogical, so those that do not believe in that theory have no interest in the boogey man theory of happily ever after.

And the second thing is if you have never done any wild crazy stupid stuff in your life, you don’t NEED to be “saved”. That is only people that acted a fool, cut up, did a bunch of insane things in their youth. They get older and start worrying about dying and so they run to church and get “saved” by a bunch of other useless sinners and liars that also cut up, acted a fool, and did a bunch of insane things in their youth.

LOLOL!! Yall kill me with this Jesus stuff.

By: All God

All God — Sun, 28 Nov 2010 23:10:39 +0000

My heart goes out to the comments of the atheists And Stephani, and other individuals that made the statement about her relatives having issues and problems and you and your husband living an atheist life style thinking that you are escaping problems… Let me tap you lightly in your mind… Your problems are just building up and it is going to be a crying shame when they all explode at one time in your face. Now, the difference between a person being saved, born-again, is we are forgiven by the one and only creator of the ends of this earth you and I live on and breathe in… JESUS CHRIST, our LORD and SAVIOR.. Yes, problems come our way, but baby you just don’t understand that this is not about flesh and blood, this is a spiritual battle, not fought with weapons that man made but is unseen and if you do not have The Lord Jesus Christ on your side, you are not going to get too far. I pray that the Lord, Jesus Christ shows you who he really is, and that you will accept him as your personal savior, because it’s not all about YOU! IT’s All About JESUS!!!! Amen, Amen, Amen..