Garbage Men and Scavenger Bitches
Mr. Baby Making Breeder
He has two women pregnant at the same time, both due to deliver in December 2011. That little two-fer doesn’t include the two older children he already has from two different baby mommas. He isn’t with either of those women either.
The baby breeder most often doesn’t have a source of viable employment, so the possibility of him being responsible and taking care of his children is nil. Many complain loudly to anyone that will listen that he is “not giving that ‘ho my money!” because he thinks that she is going to use that $50 for fun instead of food to feed his child. Basically, he is useless and stupid. These types go from dumb broad to dumb broad, living with them and not contributing much to the household but some weed and some halfway decent dick services.
If he should have an inkling to go “see” his children, the scavenger bitch gets jealous and thinks he may be sleeping with one of his exes. She never gives a thought to the fact that his children have a piss poor example of manhood and a father that is a joke. Scavenger bitches will snatch this loser up as if he is the pot of gold at the end of a Leprechaun’s rainbow! True scavenger bitches will decide to have a baby by him too, and add to his circus of illegitimate clowns.
The Angry at Black Women Fear Monger
These guys reside on the internet in pockets of social media site like Facebook, You Tube and other video posting and blog sites. Most often these men would, at face value, make a decent mate. Educated, successful careers, investment portfolios and active passports, they know about music politics and art, and can usually carry on a decent conversation without splitting infinitives.
However, like any young man growing up, they got a hard-on over the video vixens and girls with the banging bodies. With a shock they discovered that though they were going to school, had a job a car, and were doing everything “right,” the hot girls weren’t interested in them. Nope, not at all.
These young men were told they were corny, had no conversation, were square and boring, or too nice. Most often they were just plain tore up in the face and didn’t make a woman’s vagina and clitoris twitch with sexual desire. They were rejected in their youth and possibly even last week, by the very females they so desperately wanted on their arm.
They believed since they were doing everything right and were “a nice guy” that women owed them a relationship. It’s the deal you see – “I won’t be a thug and I get the girl I want!” But they realized that isn’t how it works once they got out into the real world.
Like a child throwing a tantrum, these bitter and angry men take their rage at being rejected out on every Black woman in listening range. Ranting and raving like maniacs, they berate and demean Black women from head to toe. They glory in figuring out ways to use and demean Black women for their own sadistic pleasure, then they go on websites and share their hateful victories with other fear mongering losers.
I’ve also noticed that they frequently attempt to elevate their non-status by referring to themselves as “elite” Black men when they are nothing but insecure fools. It’s scary actually to think that if they believe they are Elite, they must think Obama and God are fraternal twins!
The Fear Mongers relish taking pot-shots at Black women’s self esteem by comparing them unfavorably to White and Asian women. And if that doesn’t work, they start spouting statistics about how many Black women are single and how that means Black men don’t want Black women anymore.
Now to me, men like this are both sociopaths and psychopaths rolled into one neat little ball. Nothing there I could ever suggest a woman listen to, let alone waste her time trying to heal. Yet, there are hundreds of thousands of Black women that will attempt to maintain friendships and relationships with these angry losers. They’ve told me repeatedly that Black men won’t heal their wounds unless we help them get over their rage. Most women will try to use logic and reason to convince these guys that not every Black woman is like that, and certainly “I’m not like that!”
What a waste of time!
These guys are angry and they are garbage. Even when you recycle garbage, whatever you made may certainly be useful to someone somewhere, but it’s still a product made out of garbage.
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Deborrah
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@Deborrah ……THANK YOU…I got the chance to listen 2 the Steve Harvey expose…excellent, excellent…nothing like the FULL TRUTH…again THANK YOU..
Love this conversation.
The guy who doesn’t get it (the one she’s telling to be a man), is only concerned about the woman potentially taking his money. He keeps arguing with her, but she’s telling him the truth. Men need to get their own shit. Women don’t owe them a damn thing.
Sad position to be in whether someone is considered a “garbage man” or “scavenger bitch” There are men & women like this in all ethnic groups, not just the black community. It boils down to unconsciousness, low self-esteem, and self-confidence on both sides of this fence-male & female (regardless of ethnicity).
Very well written life saving advice Ms. Deborah Copper
Excellent article and sadly its very true.
I have always wondered how and where dudes like this got so ignorant. Did they just come out of a cardboard box? How did they live so long, yet remain so ignorant? I was born smarter than this. This totally baffles me.
Great article! The funny thing is that one group of Garbage Men (The Fear Mongers) constantly attack the other groups of Garbage Men when they are all in the same boat. The other funny thing is that most of these Garbage Men will call themselves “Good Black Men.”
That is the truth. Way to many freeking women find it flatering when some fool calls them “the hottest bitch in this joint”! LAME!!!
Even though I have not been in a personal relationship with guys like this I have witnessed pretty much all of these examples with my own eyes. It’s sad that women will risk their personal integrity and safet just for a man regardless of serious mental problems the guy may posess. It is that hard to be single, especially if the guy isn’t helping you, but actually hurting you and maybe your children? Some people just need to wake up! Another precise article done by Ms. Cooper, as always , well done!
I agree concerning women who choose men without using logic all for the sake of having one. I believe women will save themselves alot of heartache if they choose wisdom over their feelings. In terms of brothas on the internet venting about black women. I feel like its important to hear the brothas side cause sisters have been venting about black men also for years. HOWEVER I agree that all the unecessary insults are uncalled for. There is a way to communicate your opinion without being ugly to one another.
I don’t think its the least bit important to hear grown men whine about women and what women don’t do to meet their expectations. They want us to consider them to be leaders and Kings, then they need to act like leaders and Kings, and stop acting like whiney ass big diaper wearing babies. We hear their side all the time – for generations all we ever heard was their side, as women were forbidden and shamed into silence, into accepting mistreatment and abuse at the hands of men just to be married and have a roof over their heads.
Those days are over. Women are now venting as much as they please and its about time women have the right to do so. I don’t care to hear men complain anymore. They’ve had 2000 years to bitch and moan and control women. I want men to shut the fuck up and sit back and learn something. Stop thinking the world revolves around men, what men want, what men think, what men say. Men need to be focused on what WOMEN want what WOMEN think and what WOMEN say for a change. Then maybe the world will become a better place that is suitable for growth and development of both males and females… not just males.
Thank you!!!! This comment says it all—
GO GIRL!
I couldn’t have said it better.
Thank you, you said it very well. It is time men stop playing the victim role. When I see these guys, I run away.
Wow! Entertaining hard hitting and sadly too true in the black community with black women. Black women settle for anything that comes by. They are so starved for love and affection and don’t recognize unhealthy men when they see them. This points to the fragmented black families where we see a lot of black women witness their mothers with trifling men so they think it’s normal. Interestingly enough nonwhite women don’t think this way. They marry to bring themselves up, but black women seem to think they should ‘help a man’ come up. It’s so twisted. Black women shouldn’t be so desperate to settle for a piece of a man. Because that’s all they’ll ever get. A piece never becomes a whole.