Garbage Men and Scavenger Bitches

. 04/28/2011 . 15 Comments

The Low-Budget Broke Joke

These men love to use women for their resources. They consider themselves to have come up if they get a meal at a woman’s house that they didn’t have to pay for, or a ride in her car that they didn’t have to buy gas for, or sex without commitment or paying for a date.

Watch out for those that are fresh out of prison and don’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of. They often go park themselves in the apartment of a lonely single mother on Section 8. He can’t do anything for himself or for the woman he moves in with, but he can get some ass from you scavenger bitches, right?

Low budget men like this never offer to take a woman out for a drink, or even buy her a sandwich… and he most certainly will never come in her door with a bag of groceries (though he spends just about every weekend at her house). But he will happily show up at her house week after week with his penis in his hand and his mouth open like a baby bird, waiting to be fed.

Scavenger women will be thrilled that they have a man coming by regularly, no matter how trifling he is. Fearful of making a demand for more or asking for financial assistance, they instead try to stretch their food budget to include feeding him and her two children, and their power bill money to accommodate the extra utilities being used from his 20 minute hot showers and running the television all day and night.

To a scavenger bitch, having a low budget broke joke piece of a man that women with more sense rejected is better than having no man at all

The Always Right ‘Cause I’m a Man Fool

Though he hasn’t been near a church or Bible in 30 years (he is 31), this guy loves to spout scriptures which he uses to control the women he meets.

Quick to tell Black women what the Bible says is their proper role, he enjoys verbally battering women with what they do wrong in relationships per Biblical scriptures, how they aren’t submissive like they should be, how they aren’t virginal like they should be, how they are respectful of his status as a man like they should be, how Black women won’t let him lead like they should either.

Everything that a woman does or says is met with a snort of derision, or deemed to be stupid or unimportant.

To him the word “submission” means that a woman never has a controverting opinion or even a thought that is not in full agreement with his way of thinking. He is to be judge, jury and executioner when it comes to what is right and proper.  He insists that he must have final say in all decisions without question, ever. He decides when you have sex, where, how often, how long, and in what position. He decides what is bought for the house. He decides what you should wear, who your friends are, and what your household will be like. All these decisions are made without your input because that is how it SHOULD BE BECAUSE I’M THE MAN!

Amazingly, even Black men that openly acknowledge their lack of interest in religion (even to the point of calling themselves Atheists), still adhere to these archaic views of female sexuality and feminine “roles.” He looks for women willing to put aside their goals and desires for his. Sadly, religious Black women have been socialized to be over givers of this type, and are easily set up to be used by one of these fools.

The scavenger bitch latches onto this type of man because (using her limited logic) “at least he wants a committed relationship and a family.” She talks herself into feeling superior to other Black women because she believes the game that there are 10 women for every 1 man. She gleefully tells any female that will listen “I have a man and you don’t!”

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