Garbage Men and Scavenger Bitches

. 04/28/2011 . 15 Comments

The Substance Abusing Drug Selling/Using Drunkard

Bringing up the rear in this hit parade are the addicts, alcoholics, criminalistic types of garbage. Many women, having grown up in an unstable environment are drawn to codependent relationships with men of this type. Like a rat to cheese, scavenger bitches scarf up a variety of dependent losers, and get themselves caught in a trap of emotional pain and confusion.

Some of these guys are so far gone that they sexually abuse children in the household or extended family, and use their addiction as the excuse for errant behavior. Some women fall for it… “he was drunk/high and didn’t know what he was doing!” they say.

No matter if his addiction is to porn, food, drugs, liquor or gambling … it really makes no difference. Bottom line is his woman, his love, is something other than you. He is not emotionally nor mentally available to give the love and commitment you seek. He is always going to hold himself just out of reach, taunting and teasing you with the promise of commitment but never delivering.

Undeterred, you pray, plead, chase and beg — hoping that you will luck up on the magical combination of words and behaviors that makes him realize you are the one for him. You long for him to tell you that you are the woman he’s been waiting for all his life, the woman that he is going to change for and make all your dreams come true.

Only thing is it never happens. Five, 10, 20 years later, your youth wasted, you finally give up and admit that perhaps scavenging garbage wasn’t the right thing to do.

Conclusion

Lonely for companionship and sex, scavenger bitches scour the earth picking up anything male with a pulse. Throwing all choices associated with scrutiny and common sense out the window, scavenger bitches repeatedly align themselves with the most undesirable men and settle for the most disrespectful treatment.

Accepting booty calls, dealing with other women’s husbands, staying with men that lie and cheat – men with no promise or future or even teeth!  It’s amazing, sometimes it seems like the more of a tore up loser the guy is, the more scavenger bitches are attracted to him.

Scavenger bitches often feel obligated to “help” Black men get themselves together while they get little to nothing in return.  Throwing both their money and life energy into a black hole, scavenger women often waste their entire lives going from one loser to another, picking up trash and taking it home.

Why don’t you think you deserve better?

i
11 Votes

Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

More Posts - Website

Follow Me:
TwitterFacebookPinterestGoogle PlusFlickrYouTubeReddit

Pages: 1 2 3 4

Tags: , , , , , ,

Category: Date Smarter, Not Harder


Warning: array_merge(): Argument #1 is not an array in /home/askhtcom/public_html/survivingdating.com/wp-content/plugins/seo-facebook-comments/seofacebook.php on line 559

Warning: Invalid argument supplied for foreach() in /home/askhtcom/public_html/survivingdating.com/wp-content/plugins/seo-facebook-comments/seofacebook.php on line 561
This site is protected by WP-CopyRightPro