Of course fathers are concerned about their daughters making good life choices and not being exploited. But that should go for EVERY aspect of the daughter’s life – NOT just what she does with her twat. Why aren’t these fathers hosting “Financial Independence Balls” that celebrate their daughters learning how to handle money wisely? And why isn’t anyone hosting a ball for their SONS? Oh yeah…THAT’S different. Riiiiight.

This is the work of misogynistic religionists and religion has ALWAYS been about men possessing and controlling women, their bodies, and their sexuality.

As stated in the article, (great article by the way) I don’t advocate reckless sex, but I advocate enjoyment of sex by willing partners.

While I am all for this movement of women embrace their sexuality free from judgment, let’s also advocate that they do it responsibly. No need to keep providing fodder for men who are all to willing to say, “See all the babies born and STD’s from women having irresponsible sex?” (Of course the woman will take the heat moreso than the man even though he is equally responsible!)

Deb also made an excellent point about men who desire fully traditional women……yes, it’s fully unfair as a man, to desire a “Traditional” woman, if you are not being “Traditional” yourself . In the context of sexuality, that is unfair to DEMAND of a woman as well BUT, because women are more accepting of a man’s past sex life relatively more than men are of women, there WILL be a disparage in the numbers. Each man decides what’s “respectable” in his own eyes, just like women decide.

For instance, a Mcdonalds Manager is not “respectable” in some women’s eyes and such a man has NO chance with such women, no matter how much he makes. Even if he has the most compattible character for her, he’ll never get a shot. Should the McDonalds manager get mad about that? It would be a waste of time, even if he keeps hearing women say “I need a Ambitious Rich man, not some McDonalds worker”, he can do nothing about their opinions for the short term. He would be best served FINDING a woman that can respect him for who he is in his profession, a McDonalds manager. Likewise for the Sexually Advanced and Sexually Liberated Women. So, I think there will only be “acceptance” for many women on a individual man/woman level, not necessarily an overall culture level. Maybe somewhere in the future. Debs trying to spearhead that movement. Go Deb!!

On one hand they want a virginal woman that adheres to old fashioned values. But when it comes to dating, these same men will gripe and complain about the woman expecting him to pay on dates, to ask her out, to drive, open doors, and be a gentlemen. They also don’t think men that get women pregnant should have to marry them, or pay child support either. They don’t want the pressure of being mature, responsible men 100% across the board. What they want is the perceived pleasure of having a virginal woman from 1677 in their bed, while they are served and catered to and enjoy all the financial freedom of having a modern woman.

It amazes me that so many women fall for this stuff and don’t recognize the game for what it is! Tell a man if he is going to judge you by what goes on with your vagina, you are going to judge him by what goes on in his wallet. Make him pay for the pu$$y then by squiring you around and paying for everything, and before you give him some, make him marry you. He wants old fashioned – GIVE IT TO HIM. With both barrels.

Men who want virgins and women with the mindset of the past should go to the areas where they can find these women. Maybe they should go to those purity balls you mentioned and go join the Morman religion or some other religious sect. They shouldn’t be putting backwood ideas on modern women of today. Just take themselves to the environment where they can find such a woman. (It might be searching for the unicorn, but hey they can try). Men want it both ways. The virginal woman, but the modern woman of today and that is a fantasy not happening. Men shouldn’t look at virginity as the main thing to determine if a woman is marriage worthy.

On this issue it’s going to be a while to get the COLLECTIVE of men to see you in a broader light . You will have to find men that are as openminded as you, if you are looking for a man. Those men are rare.