This will never happen so you need to quit whining about it like he-motional he-bitch. Act like a grown azz man instead of a big whiny baby. Accept that this is not reality. You don’t get a fucking choice after you’ve ejaculated your sperm inside a woman and she got pregnant dummy. The time for a man to worry about ‘choice’ is before sex and not after a pregnancy has occurred after you gave your sperm to her, it’s no longer yours to control what happens to it. By giving up your sperm, you gave up your choice of whether you want to be a parent or not. Your sperm is now ‘hers’ to decide what to do with. That’s what you need to accept. Just because you think something ‘should’ be, doesn’t make it so. You just wanna argue for the attention, and you get no more mental masturbation stimulation from me. Go jack off by yourself and stop commenting with these silly ass illogical comments. STFU Hmmm

Yes, I agree that he is choosing to become a parent right then and there, IF you agree that she is as well. Then I’m on board with equal responsibility. However, since I am pro-choice, I cannot see forcing either to become a parent if either chooses not to be.

In response to your questions,

1. No, I’m not paying child support
2. N/A since #1 isn’t a yes
3. N/A since #1 isn’t a yes

My goal is not to escape any bit of accountability. My goal in the many posts I’ve made is only to say, treat everyone equally. As long as choice is available about being a parent after a pregnancy has occurred, then it should be available to all. Women choose to have abortions in most cases because they are not ready to be a parent. Well, that seems to be escaping the responsibility in your eyes…in my eyes it is one making a decision about their future. It should be available to all. Again, not escaping responsibility, but just like women, not signing on to it until you are ready to be a parent. It is what choice is all about.

I believe all people, regardless of gender should be responsible with sex. I would never say otherwise. I believe men should use condoms religiously for both the man and the woman’s well-being. I believe women should take birth control if they don’t want to get pregnant and not let any guy have sex with her without a condom. I have taught my son and my daughter equally about their responsibility.

I am glad my daughter has the ability to make a choice should something happen she wasn’t expecting. But I do not believe, in an equal society, that when choice is available about becoming a parent, that EITHER gender should be forced into it against their will.

My sons know how babies are made and they know the role they would play in it to make a baby. My wife and I taught our sons that they are responsible for their own birth control. If a woman got pregnant it is because they didn’t take precaution. We also told them the value of waiting to have sex. I know it’s hard for teenagers, but we keep out sons involved in activities, sports, and other after school extracurricular activities to keep them occupied.

I do believe that too many teenaged boys have too much loose time on their hands which leads to mischievous behavior including having sex before they are mature enough to handle the responsibilities or consequences. I think this is a very good article and I have shared it with my male friends. The focus on the article is men needing to own up to their responsibilities if they get a girl pregnant.

I told my sons if they have unprotected sex, their hopes and dreams for the future will go out of the window because me and their mother will not be playing ‘grandparents’. They are on their own with that. They know we mean it too!

I think more fathers need to teach their sons to be responsible when it comes to sex and to be more present in their sons lives. They need to make sure their sons are involved in activities as well. Too many young black men are making babies in the Black community and not raising them. Too many irresponsible baby makers who then resent the mother for having the baby that they made.

This is a great article and I’m in total support!

What you’re refusing to accept is that when you have bareback sex and ejaculate your sperm into a potentially fertile woman,you are CHOOSING right then and there to become a parent because you are doing everything it takes to make a baby. So WTF are you talking about? You don’t want to become a parent, then keep your sperm out of the woman’s womb? That’s all on you dude. You can’t say you don’t want a baby when you did everything on your part to create a baby. Your actions speak louder than words.

Hmmm let me ask you a few questions since you persist in whining about this topic

1. Are you supporting kid(s) as a result of a pregnancy that happened that you didn’t want to happen?
2. If so, what made you decide to have unprotected sex with the woman when you knew the possible outcome could result in a pregnancy?
3. What steps did you take before sex to insure your sperm stayed out of her womb so a pregnancy wouldn’t be a result?

My goal is not to punish men, but your goal is to escape accountability for your own actions and deflect focus away from steps you could take all on your own to prevent a pregnancy. No matter how much you whine about it, once you give up your sperm, you give up your rights to decide what happens to your sperm and you are responsible (by law) if that sperm becomes a baby. You may not like it, but that is just the way it is so stop whining and accept that.

Now instead of whining on this blog about it, go forth and teach young men to be responsible when it comes to sex. Use your energy over what you can change and control and that is your own sperm. Teach young men to have responsible sex, get vasectomies, stop having bareback sex with women if they aren’t prepared to be a father, teach them to abstain from sex and only have it with the woman they are married to and want to make a baby with. It only takes one to prevent a pregnancy. That man has 100% control over his own sperm independent of that woman. Only he decides where it lands. All you’re doing is coming off as a whiny he-motional he bitch that refuses to accept reality and continues to whine because he wants things ‘his way’.
http://survivingdating.com/the-top-5-ways-to-know-if-youre-dealing-with-a-he-motional-he-bitch

Well, actually, she recanted her story, and the prosecutor dropped the charges, so no dismissal was necessary. The district attorney went so far as to proclaim those accused as innocent. So no, it never did happen. I don’t need to go into a vault to find violent women. It happens all the time. Human beings by nature are violent; HOWEVER, most of them can control themselves. To think that women aren’t violent is to thumb ones nose at reality.

In most relationships, the woman has either slapped, hit, kicked, punched or thrown something at her boyfriend/husband at one time or another. Just because it didn’t send him to the hospital didn’t mean it didn’t happen.

And as far as digging through history, it is hard to claim women are not offenders with this list that only includes teachers…the list is much larger for the general public:

http://www.wnd.com/?pageId=39783

I’m not saying all women are anything. I am only saying it is not a male perp/female victim issue. It is a perp/victim issue in which men are the highest percentage of both, but women exist in both as well.

It appears we may not be able to communicate as I don’t believe all men are inherently violent (and I haven’t quoted any scientists as it was suggested). I believe all men CAN be violent just as I believe all women CAN be violent, but it is not because they are born that way. That would be a sexist thing to say. Each individual makes their own choices and MOST individuals are good people, both women and men. But there is a negative side to both as well…not due to gender, but due to choices.

Scientists, the same ones you all love to quote when it benefits you, have proven thousands of times that the hormone that rages through men’s bodies, the hormones that give you facial hair, chest hair, muscles and deep voices – testosterone – is also responsible for the aggressiveness and violence that men have. MOST MEN. Really, ALL MEN until they get old or sick and their levels of testosterone drop and their levels of estrogen (the female hormone) increase. When men get soft and grow man boobs they are just as sensitive and non-aggressive as females.

Just because the Duke rape was dismissed did not mean it didn’t happen just like she said. And being arrested for a crime does not mean that one is guilty of it. Same as being convicted these days.

If that were not the case, THE INNOCENCE PROJECT would not have gotten hundreds of men – most of them Black – off Death Row around the nation that were convicted and sentenced for crimes they did not commit.

And I find it interesting how you had to go into the archives to find ONE case where a woman was involved in an assault against a man when there are thousands in the news on a daily basis which share the crimes of men against women and children. How you can say that MOST men are not violent is laughable. Means you are living in a dream world and need to put that pipe down and take a real look at the crimes going on around the world. MEN are responsible for the crimes against humanity, against the planet, against women, against the government, against rights and freedoms, against children, against healthy food, against fair wages, against women’s rights, against the poor.

ALWAYS IT’S MEN DOING DIRT THAT HURTS OTHER PEOPLE EN MASSE.