Again missing the entire point of this article and trying to turn it around and tell the woman ‘what not to do’ and not holding these ‘professional baby daddies ‘accountable for spreading their sperm’ around making the choice of having bareback sex and making babies. It takes 2 to make a baby, why do you choose to lecture and tell the woman ‘what not to do’ and not address the man and tell hiim ‘what not to do?

Now you’re backtracking and saying

“Choice for Men isn’t about blaming one or other party for the pregnancy. It’s also not about money. It’s about having equal outcomes for both parties to the pregnancy. That sounds like a fair goal”

Which is it? First you say it’s all about the money and in your next post you say it isn’t. You don’t know what you talking about. You up here trying to push some Choice for men” agenda and can’t even get your stance clear.

“you shouldn’t be giving women that kind of power over your own sperm. If you don’t want a woman to have that power over your life or your potential children, wrap up your shyt, keep your sperm to yourself and only deposit your sperm inside the woman who is your wife once youv’e made a conscious decision to embrace fatherhood. It’s as simple as that”

Men are punks when they refuse to take control over where they dump their sperm but then try to control what the woman does once that sperm has entered her body and becomes a part of ‘her body’ They don’t have any say so at that point. LOL Too late, they are caught, time to pay the piper! LOL. Men keep your sperm to yourself and you don’t have to worry about getting caught up.

The real and only choice for men is making the decision that when he decides to lay down with a woman and have sex, he decides right then and there if his sperm will meet an egg. His choice becomes either to (A) wrap it up, or (B) not have sex with that woman, or (C) have bareback sex. Those are his 3 choices. When men decide on choice (C) and have bareback sex with women, the potential for a baby to be conceived is always looming. If men aren’t ready to be a daddy then they need to do what they should to prevent a pregnancy. Men are solely responsible for where they ‘choose’ to deposit their sperm. Inside the womb of a fertile woman or inside of a condom or not at all. (wow look at least 3 choices before a pregnancy even occurs!)

A man should never take at face value what a woman says about her birth control. He should take responsibility for his own birth control regardless of the woman. So you see all of this rhetoric about a woman choosing to abort or not, forced parenthood on a man if a woman chooses to have the baby, equal say so over whether the child should be born can be avoided if a man chooses to wrap up his dyck in the first place or better yet, not have sex with that woman. Then he doesn’t even have to go there and worry about a woman getting pregnant and maybe aborting or not, because he wouldn’t have created a baby in the first place.

It’s not about an argument over whether it’s the egg or the sperm that is responsible for a pregnancy. There is nothing to argue about that. This is biology 101, that’s factual but it is also easily preventable by both men and women independent of the other and that is the crux of the matter you are refusing to acknowledge because you don’t want to see the real truth.

You Bank Machine are refusing to take ownership for what You as a man can do to prevent a pregnancy in the first place regardless of what a woman does. When you sleep with a woman, YOU and ONLY YOU have control over where your sperm will land. If you don’t want a baby, keep your sperm to yourself and make sure it stays out of her womb in the first place.
I know you don’t want to hear this because for years, men have blamed single parenthood on women for “choosing” to get pregnant, but women don’t get pregnant by themselves.

Just like you said, “Men have the choice to decide if he wants to become a parent or not just like she does”. Yes Men Do have this choice but he has a limited window of opportunity to make that choice. He has to make that choice early on BEFORE he has sex with the woman. If he chooses to have bareback sex with a woman, then he Forfeits his choice on what may happen to his sperm once it enters into that woman’s womb. The only way he can prevent this from happening is by making sure his sperm doesnt enter the woman’s womb and potentially meet an egg in the first place when he has sex with that woman. It’s as simple as that and this choice lies solely with the man and it isn’t dependent upon the woman at all, on what she does or doesn’t do. The woman has nothing to do with that. It’s all on the man. .

You want to make it seem as though men don’t have choices when it comes to becoming parents, that it’s all contingent upon what that woman does. This is so not true. And you shouldn’t be giving women that kind of power over your own sperm. If you don’t want a woman to have that power over your life or your potential children, wrap up your shyt, keep your sperm to yourself and only deposit your sperm inside the woman who is your wife once youv’e made a conscious decision to embrace fatherhood. It’s as simple as that. Accept it because that’s just the way it is. And that is the gender equal solution. The man decides what he wants to do with his sperm BEFORE sex, once the sperm enters the womb, the woman decides what will happen to it.

With Choice for Men, the man gets to drop all connection with the child just like the woman does if she decides to abort. (The same choices are available for adoption of the new-born.) The only difference then in outcomes for the man and the woman is:
- she can still decide to have the child or not have the child even if he decides to “abort” (drop all connection), but
- he can not have the child if she decides to abort (because it’s “her body, her choice”).
This is a small difference compared to the old way where she gets Choice and he gets Responsibility (support payments).

Of course if both decide to keep the child they will have to decide how to share the child. That’s the normal situation.

With Choice For Men, he gets the Choice to be a parent or not to be a parent just like she does. This is the gender equal solution. Furthermore, Remember that that abortion is based on the principle “every child a wanted child”. With Choice For Men, children come into families when the child is wanted, not because the child is conceived. Finally, we will be able to get rid of this argument about whether it’s the egg or the sperm that’s responsible.

People who are selfish and don’t believe in equality won’t like Choice For Men; and misandrists won’t like it; likewise people stuck in the 20th century won’t like it either. So much for Columbus, Ohio. The rest of the world will move on.
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“i dont think any of you have said anything , the truth of the matter is accountability has not been accepted on either side . The reality of the matter is really to answer this one question that no one dares to ask , which is ,” Did you lay down to conceive or to just have relations??” not to say that accidents don’t happen but quit trying to vaidate the whole situation a something that makes you a woman look any better that the man , the truth is you couldn’t leave the child is inside of you it dosent mean you were responsible it means you were there. He wasn’t your husband not saying that what he may have done was right but unfortunately it is what it is..”

HOOKED on PHONICS, learn to write a cohesive coherent sentence before trying to make your bogus point. Dang I hope you ain’t somewhere making babies as ignorant as you come off sounding.

The guy could also make the initial choice to ‘wrap it up’ or not have sex with the woman since he is so scurred of child support as the article said. The onus on responsible sex lies with Both people involved. the onus on the man’s decision of where he deposits his sperm lies solely with him regardless of what that woman tells you.

You talk about what the woman could or couldn’t do, what about the man at the time they are getting busy? What can he do? What choices can he make? He can buy a blow up doll to get his rocks off, he can use his hand, he can wear a condom. He doesn’t have to have barebacked sex. So if ‘HE makes those initial choices, the rest of it, doesn’t matter because no baby would ever be conceived in the first place.
When a man makes a choice to have sex with a fertile woman he should always keep in mind that a pregnancy could occur. You have bareback sex with women, you run the risk of a pregnancy end of story. The man makes the choice not to wrap it up, then want to cry foul when a pregnancy occurs. So yeah if a woman decides to have the baby she is ‘entitled (not untitled) to get some money, babies cost money!! But if the man already knows he doesn’t want kids, then stop playing Russian roulette with his dyck and having bareback sex with a woman even if she does say she is on birth control. Don’t trust what you don’t know for sure.

If he is so worried about it, then why have bareback sex in the first place and then want to talk about what a woman could do if she ends up pregnant? What about what a man could do when he decides to have sex in the first place? Why guys never look at it from that angle?