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He Said She Said

Relationships Webcam Show – WHAT HE SAID, WHAT SHE SAID

04/20/2017 | Comments (0)

What He Said …What She Said Gender Perspectives on Male/Female Relationships Sharing perspectives during a conversation with Quincy, host of Talk2Q about male/female relationships. We have two topics slated for examination during this discussion: (1) Why all the constant back and forth blaming each other instead of looking within? (2) Why single men and women […]

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Ghosting – The Slick Way to End a Dating Relationship

03/20/2017 | Comments (0)

Ghosting is the favorite technique of the single to end things when they don’t want to deal with a bunch of drama and emotions. Ghosting explained in both definition and practice.

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Dating and Jealousy… Why Bother Being Jealous?

02/23/2017 | Comments (2)

Controlling, jealous, possessive behaviors have no place in loving relationships; and neither does disrespectful flirting, threatening your partner with abandonment, or cheating. When you truly believe that you deserve to have someone that loves you just as you are, and believe that anyone would be lucky to have you in their corner, you won’t get jealous. You won’t feel threatened by people that try to get at your lover, because you are confident that your mate is truly all about you.

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relationship advice

Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

Red Flags of Dating for Single Black Women

01/12/2017 | Comments (0)

Are jealousy, insecurity and verbal put-downs considered red flags in a new dating relationship?

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Emotionally Unavailable: I Never Ask for Anything but He Gets the World From Me!

Emotionally Unavailable: I Never Ask for Anything but He Gets the World From Me!

01/12/2017 | Comments (2)

A classic story of a young women in love with and chasing an emotionally unavailable game playing man that will never give her the commitment and love she seeks. Why do so many single black women waste their time in dead end relationships with emotionally unavailable men?

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Passion Has Left Our Marriage – Is She Cheating on Me?

12/06/2016 | Comments (0)

What should a young husband do when the passion seems to have left his relationship, and he and his wife have sex once per month if that? However his chief concern isn’t the marriage falling apart but: “is she cheating on me?”

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for the ladies

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Why Are Single Black Women ALWAYS Told to Settle?

09/28/2017 | Comments (0)

An allegedly professional matchmaker goes in on single women telling them they need to sign on to “build a boo” and that their standards are unrealistic and unreasonable. Dating expert Deborrah Cooper of SurvivingDating.Com counters with a solid argument on why single black women settling for less than what they want in a man is the wrong move to make.

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The True Path to a Man's Heart

The True Path to a Man’s Heart

02/14/2017 | Comments (15)

Women make the mistake of being so giving, so loving, so pleasing, so sweet and gentle to men all the time thinking that is the key to his heart and making him love them more. In reality that shit bores men out of their minds!

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Do Black Men Want a Momma Figure They Can Screw?

02/05/2017 | Comments (0)

Infantilized black men are rampant in the black community these days – men who seek to avoid the responsibilities and obligations of adulthood by depending on single black women women to take care of, spoil and nurture them as a replacement momma.

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for the fellas

The Mother-Son Relationship: Men With a Mother Complex

The Mother-Son Relationship: Men With a Mother Complex

02/09/2017 | Comments (0)

Dr. Peter Milhado explores the mother-son relationship in which the mother has been wounded, and forms an unhealthy attachment to her son.

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Educated Lames, Classic Men, True Forced Loneliness, and Whining Ass Black Men

02/02/2017 | Comments (0)

Educated lames are men with degrees who have no skills with women at all, and are therefore single, angry, horny and lonely. They blame women for their “true forced loneliness” an affliction they claim that women give them by ignoring their needs. I say they are all full of crap and here is why.

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Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

11/01/2016 | Comments (2)

What is manhood? What do women really need to see to know that a male has the qualities and attitude necessary and is worthy of being bestowed the title “man?”

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social issues and culture

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Hypergamy – Why Are MGTOW Men Angry that Women Opt to Marry Up?

07/06/2017 | Comments (0)

Women who operate with hypergamy in mind are much more pragmatic than romantic. They are not easily gamed on and not easily manipulated with threats and fear of singleness. A hypergamous woman looks for a man who is going to provide stability, make her life easier, make her children’s life better, be interesting, fun, sexy, exciting, and who wants what she wants out of life.

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Webinar Series on Dating and Relationships with Deborrah Cooper

Webinar Series on Dating and Relationships with Deborrah Cooper

06/24/2017 | Comments (0)

Attend a free webinar with Deborrah Cooper (aka Ms. HeartBeat) on the second Saturday of each month through 2017. Participants will have the chance to discuss hot issues in black culture, dating, relationship violence and abuse, the games men play, better partner communication, and lots more. Register today.

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Breaking Up and Moving On - Knowing When It's Time to Let Him Go

Breaking Up and Moving On – Knowing When It’s Time to Let Him Go

05/21/2017 | Comments (0)

Webinar for women on when and how to recognize when a relationship has reached it’s limit. Breaking up and moving on – how to leave a bad relationship and find your joy!

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Black Girls and Pimp Game Run by Black Males

Black Girls and Pimp Game Run by Black Males

| 05/12/2017 | Comments (0)

Today I watched a sad piece of life unfold as two young black girls were exposed to pimp game spit at them by a young black male already adept at coercion and verbal manipulation. Black women need to do more to educate black girls on these types of mind games.

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Self Esteem and Dating Webinar on Improving Your Self Esteem and Confidence

| 04/07/2017 | Comments (0)

Dating and relationships webinar focuses on attacking low self-esteem, improving self-confidence, and guiding women to learn boundary setting and more assertive behavior.

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Breeding the Next Generation of Sex Slaves and Profit for Private Prisons

Breeding the Next Generation of Sex Slaves and Profit for Private Prisons

| 04/01/2017 | Comments (2)

The African American community has the highest rate in the U.S. of single parent homes. Statistically speaking, the children of single parents are at greatest risk of sexual and physical abuse, child rape, and child murder. Abduction into sex slavery is also a concern for these children.

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Webinar – “Better Understanding Yourself and the Choices You Make” with Dating Expert Deborrah Cooper

| 03/26/2017 | Comments (0)

Why do you keep making poor choices in men? Join advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper as she discusses the choices and belief systems each of us has that drives our choices, feelings and behaviors, often to our detriment.

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MANSPLAINING - Mansplaining Defined

MANSPLAINING – Mansplaining Defined

| 03/15/2017 | Comments (0)

What is mansplaining? When men attempt to redefine women’s use of language and nullify women’s experiences with their own vision, you’ve seen mansplaining in action.

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True Forced Independence – Black Men FORCED Us to Not Need a Man

| 02/06/2017 | Comments (0)

Black men have created a situation where they removed themselves from the equation of black families and black communities and made themselves obsolete. So now that black women have learned they “don’t need a man” to survive, black men are angry. Huh? You are responsible for true forced independence.

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Feminine Energy is Nothing But Bullshit

Feminine Energy is Nothing But Bullshit

| 02/01/2017 | Comments (5)

Do women have to pretend to be or actually be weak, passive and vulnerable (feminine) so that men can feel strong, action-oriented and invincible (masculine)? It certainly appears that way.

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