Comments on: Should Women Ask Men Out on Dates?

By: dave

dave — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 21:54:50 +0000

Raz – Where do you get such a double standard?

By: dave

dave — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 21:52:15 +0000

Well, listen to these women! It is the man’s job to pursue, according to them, and if we do not pursue, then we are lazy? How do you live with such a double standard?

By: Deborrah

Deborrah — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 08:12:22 +0000

Do what you feel. But I still think if a man isn’t interested or too scary to say that same sentence to a woman, he is a punk and I wouldn’t want him.

By: eLLe85

eLLe85 — Tue, 09 Aug 2011 13:37:20 +0000

Now you aren’t speaking nothing but the truth and took it to the animal kingdom on their asses. Nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants and works hard to get it-including the chance to be with moi. My username is elle85, and as a woman, I approve this message!!!!!

By: Raz

Raz — Mon, 08 Aug 2011 22:49:16 +0000

Stephanie asking a man out for coffee is considered showing’ your interest. That’s not the same as asking him, ‘Hey do you want to date me?’

By: Stephanie

Stephanie — Mon, 08 Aug 2011 21:25:37 +0000

Every single friend of mine that is married is because SHE asked the MAN out. Ladies, it’s common sense – either ask guys out, or live your entire life alone.

This depends on where you live, too. In big cities like Chicago or New York, there tends to be 1 man for every 4 women. Women HAVE to pursue or else they will get NO one. And pursue doesn’t mean breathe down his neck. Pursue means “hey, want to get coffee sometime?” THAT’S IT. That’s ALL a woman has to do! Let him take it from there.

By: NoLongerPursuing

NoLongerPursuing — Fri, 05 Aug 2011 15:31:31 +0000

I think this issue goes a lot deeper. If a woman isn’t being asked out on dates, and if the man is saying no when she does ask them out: consider the possibility that maybe you’re not meant to be dating period. If the woman does the pursuing, she’s already put herself in a position of looking desperate. The man knows this and the worst of the lot take advantage. Even if the woman manages to get the man to marry her, it’s a ‘hollow victory’ at best. She will always have to be the one to make the first move in everything. The man will just sit back and take, take, take. Even if they break up, chances are the woman is going to have to do the breaking up because what happens when a woman pursues the guy, they usually wind up with the passive-agressive narcissistic types who don’t really care about her at all, but they’re perfectly willing to eat from whatever plate she sets in front of them. Better to be alone than to put up with a man like that. If it is God’s will you have a boyfriend/husband, it will happen. If it doesn’t then women need to accept this and stop complaining and acting desperate and making things worse. There are worse things in life than being alone and dateless. Being in a loveless pseudo-relationship that destoys one’s body, soul and spirit is one of them. If the man really and truly wants you, they’ll come to you no matter what. If he doesn’t then nothing you do will make them change their minds. That’s the truth. Deal with it.

By: Raz

Raz — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 23:58:50 +0000

Hal: “Women want to be equal to men only when it comes to advantages like salary but when it comes to disadvantages, they come up with reasons why they should not be equal. “

Hall you are full of shit! Men want to be traditional when it suits them but then want ‘untraditional‘ privileges when it suits them. Men want sex without marriage and want to date women without paying for dates, then call that ‘women being equal. No FOOL, that’s you not being a gentleman and a trifling asshole. Learn the difference! It’s men like you with your fonky attitude that women put on nignore. And this mess about women being instinctual, obviously you don’t know shit about women. It’s men who run around with their dicks leading the way. They could care less about what is going on with a woman, as long as she makes their dicks hard, they jump on board wanting to treat all women like jump offs.
So when you have women demanding that men stop acting like trifling horny dogs, a stupid ignorant fool like yourself comes along and tries to flip the script and whine and say women aren’t being ‘equal’. That’s just some dumb excuse you give yourself for being a cheap trifling fool. A decent woman would not want a cheap fool like you and the ones that end up with fools like you are those women with low self esteem willing to practically pay for a man to be with them. So you ain’t hardly getting no prize with a woman like that.