Tag: black love

What Black Women Need to Be Happy

. 11/10/2011 . 14 Comments

Black women are tired of hearing Black men say that we are bitter, unhappy, or that we alone are responsible for the high numbers of single family homes and fatherless children. We’re not. Black women are tired of the bullshit, the blaming, the failure of men to step up to take responsibility for the mistakes they’ve made. We, just like women of other races, deserve to have a decent, loving, committed and honorable man in our arms. We deserve wonderful fathers for our children. We deserve to have respectful Black men be our husbands as well our lovers. Where are these men?

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Is he losing interest, or am I just paranoid?

. 10/12/2011 . 0 Comments

Anytime a man’s behavior and pattern changes, it means something. Women need to pay attention to the signs.

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Why Women Leave Men

. 08/04/2011 . 0 Comments

Focusing on your woman and providing her with what she needs emotionally guarantees a happy, long-lasting relationship with a loving woman that will never leave you. Tips for relationship success and longevity for men.

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I’m the Man…Woman Listen to Me!

. 08/04/2011 . 13 Comments

Men set themselves up as the final authority when it comes to dating and relating and telling women what to do. Men need to advise other men instead.

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Marriage – Why The Fantasy is Better Than The Reality for Women

. 08/03/2011 . 7 Comments

Many young women dream of having a fancy wedding and the title of “Mrs.” imagining marriage as a lifetime of marital bliss, close companionship, and passionate romance. Sadly, that fantasy is usually just that.

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Men, I Hear You and Imma Let You Finish, but…

. 11/22/2010 . 24 Comments

Men must stop overgeneralizing, stop misinterpreting statistics, stop taking things out of context, stop telling women what to do, stop trying to change us, and stop trying to control us.

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Black Men – How to Love a Black Woman

. 10/28/2010 . 16 Comments

A sad young man reflects on the errors he made in his former relationship and shares his newfound understanding to help other men avoid making the same mistakes.

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The Romantic Adventures of Sistah Girl

. 10/16/2010 . 3 Comments

In the first video of the Sistah Girl series, she sits down and has a chat with the #1 man in her life about the future of their relationship. The catch is her boo thang just happens to be Bishop Eddie Long!

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Why Black Women Put Professional Black Men on ‘NIGNORE’

. 08/11/2010 . 78 Comments

Men write me frequently to get my take on why Black women complain that they “can’t find a good Black man” or “can’t find a Black man on my level” when they are surrounded by educated, professional Black men. It made me wonder too. Why a guy, with all the outward appearances of a highly desirable catch (college educated, established, an “on point” Black man) would be passed over by women for romance and marriage. Well, I have some answers.

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10 Things Women Do That Drive Men Away

. 01/01/2010 . 7 Comments

The ten item list contained in this article may anger many women. This isn’t a list of complaints, it’s information intended to provide women with insight into what men are thinking; it’s a bridge across the communication gap. After all, without straight and candid communication, we can’t solve the issues that threaten to end so many relationships. Use these ten issues as a starting point for a dialogue with your husband, the man in your life, or a male friend. Such an open discussion will give you even more insight and help to improve your relationship.

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We Broke Up – How Can We Be Friends?

. 08/01/2009 . 1 Comment

I have never understood why people insist on being friends with an ex! Why continue to put emotional energy towards something that does not exist? Why torture yourself by hanging around and talking to someone in a situation that has a very low potential to become what you wanted it to be? The clock is ticking! Why not re-invest your emotional energy into the possibilities of finding someone else that wants to direct their romantic energy towards you?

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Both Dating and Fishing Are Sports

. 07/22/2009 . 1 Comment

Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle!

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