If he doesn’t want a relationship what can I do to change his mind?
How should a woman handle a friendship that turned sexual with a guy she’s known for years when he has no real interest in moving things along to a true committed relationship?
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Single Black Women: Are You a Fling or a Potential Wife?
Single black women should be aware that from the moment a man first lays eyes on you, he begins to assess you as either a serious relationship partner and potential wife, or a booty call fling.
Courting vs Dating – Why Courting Needs to Make a Comeback
Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
A Date is NOT You Making Butt-Prints on My Couch!
The first thing some men do after talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman’s home. Their idea of a date is spending time together relaxing on your couch… in close proximity to the bedroom. A “no, I don’t know you well enough yet” response may cause such a man to press even harder or become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this increasingly common behavior pattern, and what should women do to counter it?
He keeps hurting me by using me for sex
I know I’m stupid but I forgive him every time he calls and explains how hard it is on him to be without me in his life. How can I know if he’s using me for sex?
But I Don’t Want to LOSE Him!
Though they broke up 1 year ago, every few months he makes a booty call. Does this ex-relationship have a future?
You are NOT in a Relationship and He is NOT Your Man!
Women write the “Dear Ms. HeartBeat” advice column frequently, seeking help understanding why their latest “relationship” went sour. Most times after digesting the facts, it’s clear as the nose on your face that there WAS no relationship at all. Therefore, the writer’s expectations of fidelity, commitment or involvement were totally misplaced. In other words, don’t get [...]
Can Exes Be Just Friends?
Can exes be friends? Sure they CAN, but what would be the point? Someone is just going to try to cock-block or get back in where you don’t want them to be, flip out with jealousy, or be all up in your business. When its over, let it be over and move on.
How Do Relationships Become “Official” These Days?
Single men and women must never assume that they have a committed relationship or a “boyfriend/girlfriend” just because they’ve been on 5, 10 or even 500 dates, slept together, are living together, or have even had a baby. Unless the details of their association have been discussed in great detail, expectations and abilities to meet said expectations have been ironed out, and both parties sign on the dotted line, there is no “relationship.”
Single Women: Satisfy Your Horniness Without Being a ‘Ho
Traditional thinking promotes commitment, fidelity and love as mandatory components to a romantic relationship. Does such thinking make sense in our current society? Is it really necessary to have and to hold until death do you part? Can’t a single woman enjoy guilt-free pleasure with a man, get up, and leave further expectations on the pillow?
Time to Dismantle The Jump Off
I hate texting. A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool. Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job. We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times. He was wonderful face to face and fine [...]
You Don’t Know HOW To Date!
The last U.S. Census report stated that for the first time in the history of the U.S., we have a higher population of single adults in this country than we do married. Are most of us single by choice – finding a life of aloneness to be preferable? Or are we stymied by our lack [...]
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