Tag: codependency

Whatever You Did to Get Her You Need to Keep Doing

. 08/16/2011 . 3 Comments

Women must demand more from men in both dating relationships and marriage. Make your emotional needs a priority, and reign in your dependency on men if you want to have better, more satisfying relationships.

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Can We Ever Have a Drama Free Relationship?

. 07/20/2010 . 2 Comments

Abandoned by his Mom as a child, a new boyfriend has issues with intimacy and has chosen crazy drama girls to date in the past. Should the new girlfriend expect changes or flee?

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The “Stupid Muthafucka!” Gene

. 06/20/2010 . 13 Comments

Some singles are so anxious for love they rush into commitments with stupid people they really don’t know much about. The older and wiser I get, the more I’ve come to realize the importance of taking the time to assess the personality, health history and attitudes of potential mates with a critical eye to their genetics. Why? Because stupidity is carried in the genes!

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Women Are Socialized to be Codependent

. 06/08/2010 . 2 Comments

My working definition of codependency is anyone involved with someone else that worries more in a role where they take care of that person and worry more about that person’s needs, wants, feelings and actions than they do their own. Aren’t women deemed to be better wives, mothers and human beings when they behave in a codependent manner and condemned as selfish bitches when they have firm boundaries?

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The Three Types of Black Men

. 09/02/2009 . 4 Comments

After studying Black men for decades, I’ve come to the conclusion that there are three different types of Black men. Sadly, more than half of the Black men in the dating pool are misogynists and truly hate women; their treatment of and the thoughts they express about Black women prove it.

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You Don’t Know HOW To Date!

. 05/26/2009 . 0 Comments

The last U.S. Census report stated that for the first time in the history of the U.S., we have a higher population of single adults in this country than we do married.  Are most of us single by choice – finding a life of aloneness to be preferable?  Or are we stymied by our lack […]

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