Tag: "dating"

Men That Don’t Take Responsibility For a Pregnancy Are Punk Bitches!

Men That Don’t Take Responsibility For a Pregnancy Are Punk Bitches!

I’m tired of hearing Black men whine that they aren’t ready to be a father and that he shouldn’t have to pay child support for a kid he didn’t want. Look here fool… if you are having sex bare with a woman you know is fertile, you are ready to be a father whether you affirm it vocally or not. Actions speak louder than words. You are doing everything it takes to become a father, right? So what are you talking about you ain’t ready?

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Can Dating Standards Be “Too” High?

Can Dating Standards Be “Too” High?

Deborrah Cooper | 09/01/2009 | Comments (3)

Everyone must have standards. Your standards become the criteria used to compare the men or women that come into your life to see if they measure up. If you don’t have standards, you’ll risk becoming involved with married or other emotionally unavailable sorts. You also risk developing an attachment to someone that you know is totally wrong for you.

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We Broke Up – How Can We Be Friends?

We Broke Up – How Can We Be Friends?

Deborrah Cooper | 08/01/2009 | Comments (1)

I have never understood why people insist on being friends with an ex! Why continue to put emotional energy towards something that does not exist? Why torture yourself by hanging around and talking to someone in a situation that has a very low potential to become what you wanted it to be? The clock is ticking! Why not re-invest your emotional energy into the possibilities of finding someone else that wants to direct their romantic energy towards you?

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The Top 5 Reasons Men Don’t Get Laid!

The Top 5 Reasons Men Don’t Get Laid!

Deborrah Cooper | 06/30/2009 | Comments (0)

Why do some guys get all the women, and other guys sit at home lonely and horny? The answer is this: the men that have women are willing to put energy and effort into learning how to talk to and treat females. Whether married or single, if you aren’t getting laid regularly, the problem is with YOU!

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The 10 Reasons Your Goofy Butt Didn’t Get a Second Date

The 10 Reasons Your Goofy Butt Didn’t Get a Second Date

Deborrah Cooper | 06/28/2009 | Comments (0)

With each new person you date there is excitement and hopeful anticipation. Of course not every date is going to go the distance or anywhere at all. But if you are one of those folks that have a hard time getting a second date with everyone you meet, it’s time to examine your behavior and make sure you aren’t making any of these ten dating blunders.

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Bitch Made “Good Men” In the Dating Pool

Bitch Made “Good Men” In the Dating Pool

Deborrah Cooper | 06/25/2009 | Comments (3)

I’m tired of men that feel they are “Good men” touting their goodness like it’s a badge of honor, a trophy, something that entitles them to more or better or what they want. In the mating game your “goodness” means absolutely nothing. You telling women over and over why we should pick you instead of the exciting, sexy, fun guy makes you sound like a whining punk. Here are my reasons why I and a great many women totally ignore “good guys” when choosing a man.

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You’re Either Part of the Solution, Or Part of the Problem

You’re Either Part of the Solution, Or Part of the Problem

Deborrah Cooper | 06/16/2009 | Comments (0)

Fear is epidemic in our society. I’ve never seen so many scary ass people! Millions of people sit on the bench in the game of life, holding onto their fears of success like a security blanket while telling themselves over and over again what they “can’t” accomplish, “can’t” change, “can’t” become or “can’t” try for fear of failure.

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Avoid Wasting Your Love and Time on a Man That Won’t Commit

Avoid Wasting Your Love and Time on a Man That Won’t Commit

Deborrah Cooper | 06/10/2009 | Comments (0)

I posed questions about relationships and commitment to a group of singles. Each is seeking a mate for long-term commitment or marriage. I wanted to know whether they thought it worthwhile to hang on, hoping that the commitment they seek is on its way. What should a single look for to know if a dating partner is headed towards commitment, or if such hopes are a waste of time?

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A Date is NOT You Making Butt-Prints on My Couch!

A Date is NOT You Making Butt-Prints on My Couch!

Deborrah Cooper | 05/30/2009 | Comments (0)

The first thing some men do after talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman’s home. Their idea of a date is spending time together relaxing on your couch… in close proximity to the bedroom. A “no, I don’t know you well enough yet” response may cause such a man to press even harder or become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this increasingly common behavior pattern, and what should women do to counter it?

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

Deborrah Cooper | 05/30/2009 | Comments (2)

I hate texting.   A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool.  Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job.  We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times.  He was wonderful face to face and fine [...]

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Wisdom to Date and Live By

Wisdom to Date and Live By

Deborrah Cooper | 05/27/2009 | Comments (0)

You’ll never find wisdom like this in The Four Agreements, but there is a strange amount of truth that can be applied to life in each and every one of these gems! Do not walk behind me. Do not walk ahead of me. Do not walk beside me. Just leave me alone.  The journey of [...]

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You Don’t Know HOW To Date!

You Don’t Know HOW To Date!

Deborrah Cooper | 05/26/2009 | Comments (0)

The last U.S. Census report stated that for the first time in the history of the U.S., we have a higher population of single adults in this country than we do married.  Are most of us single by choice – finding a life of aloneness to be preferable?  Or are we stymied by our lack [...]

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