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First Hand Accounts of Female Slaves

| 11/06/2016 | Comments (0)
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Learn the history of black female slaves reading this informative book on the tragic realities of life as a female slave in Far More Terrible For Women.

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What Makes a Man Afraid of Commitment?

| 11/06/2016 | Comments (4)
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There is nothing wrong with saying you are afraid of something! Fear is a normal human emotion just like being angry, being sad, being happy. But the bottom line is women are AFRAID of being abandoned and behave accordingly, and men are AFRAID of commitment and losing options, and they behave accordingly as well. Each gender finds reasons to justify their behaviors and reasons for running away from commitment.

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Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

| 11/01/2016 | Comments (2)
Manhood is Not Automatic: What Makes a Male a Man?

What is manhood? What do women really need to see to know that a male has the qualities and attitude necessary and is worthy of being bestowed the title “man?”

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When abortion is the smartest choice for all concerned

| 10/30/2016 | Comments (0)
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Involving innocent children in adult silliness can have catastrophic effects on a child’s life. Sometimes abortion is the smartest choice for all concerned.

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Single Women – Get Up on Game for Smarter Dating

| 09/10/2016 | Comments (0)
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A series of videos which examine the games black men run on single women and girls to get you to stay with them hoping for more, giving to them in a vacuum, focusing on them in a one-sided relationship, and worrying about keeping THEM happy while they do little to nothing in return for you. You deserve to have a loving union which is fulfilling and supportive…not some one-sided pimp player crap masquerading as “a relationship” that leaves you feeling empty and depleted.

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The “What Other People Said About You” Game of Emotional Abuse

| 08/18/2016 | Comments (0)
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In video #18 of “The Manipulative Things Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!” series, veteran relationship advice columnist and author Deborrah Cooper breaks down the goals of the “lemme tell you what folks said about you” game of emotional abuse. What is emotional abuse? I define it as any words or […]

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The Dirty Dozen – My Top 12 Dating Pet Peeves

| 08/18/2016 | Comments (1)
Top 12 dating pet peeves

I loved the fantastic war movie The Dirty Dozen. If you haven’t seen it before, try getting it for your next Blockbuster night. Exciting action drama, espionage, comedy, lots of stuff blowing up, sex, death, hope and redemption – it’s all there! But just like in dating, the story SOUNDS like an exciting adventure, so you sign on for the mission. It’s only after you get started on the journey that you find out that it is gonna be hard to make it out alive without losing a limb, or getting ventilated with bullet holes. What follows is my top 12 pet peeves, which I have affectionately dubbed The Dirty Dozen Dating Pet Peeves!

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When Black Men Bring Up Butthurt and Bitches from the Past

| 07/29/2016 | Comments (0)
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His goal? To control your behavior towards him, and manipulate you with jealousy into bending over backwards and jumping through hoops to prove that you aren’t like those other bitches who hurt him. He has set you up to be in competition with his past, so you (unaware of the game) commence to doing too much to prove that you’re better, more down, a serious ride or die chick that knows how to treat a man!

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Fixing the Black Community and the Flawed Logic of Black Men

| 07/23/2016 | Comments (1)
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Guest blogger Shadid Mack questions the logic of black men who blame the downfall of the black community on black women and single parent homes – asking black men how they can expect black women to perform a miracle in a vacuum and a hostile environment? He lays out the problems and possible solutions.

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What it Means When a Single Black Man Says I’m Not Ready

| 07/22/2016 | Comments (0)
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If you want marriage and children, does it make sense to wait around for years and years, investing more time and energy into a man who has already told you that he is not ready for all that and doesn’t know when he will be? Advice columnist, social researcher and dating expert Deborrah Cooper discusses the frustrating but extremely common issue of the man who gives mixed messages by saying one thing and doing another.

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Manipulative Shit Black Men Say to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops

| 07/22/2016 | Comments (0)
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Smooth talk works because black women tend to be very auditory. My hope is that after listening to this series, single black women can quickly identify the sincere guy from the gaming bullshit artist, enabling you to choose wisely to spend your time ONLY with the man who is on the same page in the same book of life that you are.

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Twenty year old woman child abuses her seven year old sister

| 07/16/2016 | Comments (0)
Twenty year old woman child abuses her seven year old sister

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: My stepdaughter (who is 20 about to be 21 years old) pinched my daughter (age 7) under the arm and it has bruised badly. I asked my husband to deal with it, as he is the biological parent. I was shocked to hear him say that our seven year old daughter deserved it […]

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