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During a break up my girl slept with one of my friends… how do I get over it?

. 04/24/2015 . 0 Comments

A young man is anguished by the mental vision of his ex girlfriend being intimate with a friend she dated during a long break up, and seeks advice on how to move past his jealousy.

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10 Texting Rules for Dating Singles – Texting Guidelines and Dating Etiquette

. 02/20/2015 . 2 Comments

Text messaging isn’t necessarily a tool of the devil, but there can be quite a bit of misinterpretation and miscommunication if you don’t follow texting rules. Texting is a great way to stay connected to someone you are madly in love with, and a useful tool to touch base with casual or new dating partners. Ten great texting rules for proper dating etiquette for singles.

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My Friend Went Back to Her Abusive Ex

. 02/10/2015 . 0 Comments

A concerned friend writes to Ms. HeartBeat, asking what if anything she should say to a dear friend who rekindled a relationship with an abusive ex who now seems hell bent on controlling her every move.

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Are We Obligated to Give My Sister a Baby Shower?

. 11/28/2014 . 1 Comment

My sister’s first baby is due in three months and I’m wondering if we’re obligated to throw a baby shower for her? A few people have already commented that they wouldn’t be coming if we did throw a baby shower, because they’re pissed they never received a ‘thank you’ note from my sister from her wedding two years ago.

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My Two Year Old Son is Abusive to His Four Month Old Sister

. 10/28/2014 . 1 Comment

Mom asks what she can do to get her abusive two year old son to stop biting, smacking and head butting his four month old sister.

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I’m heartbroken wondering if my boyfriend is hanging onto his ex

. 10/26/2014 . 0 Comments

How do you determine if your boyfriend making contact with his ex is just friendly contact to close doors, or if he is trying to get something going again with her?

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How You Have a Thug Kitchen When You’re a White Boy from the Valley?

. 10/01/2014 . 0 Comments

This week it all came out. Like a scab being ripped off a sore, the ugly truth about Thug Kitchen has been revealed and charges of racism, cultural appropriation and general stupidity have been levied at the two site owners who have hidden like cowards and failed to address the conflict.

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Domestic Violence and Dating Abuse

. 09/12/2014 . 0 Comments

If you’ve endured abuse – punching, slapping, kicking, choking, arm twisting, forced intercourse, threats of violence to you, your pets or your children, hair pulling etc. by a romantic partner, friend, family member or stranger, please share your story.

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My Jealous Man Wants Sex All The Time!

. 08/23/2014 . 0 Comments

A young woman seeks advice about her relationship with a man who demands sex constantly, even when she isn’t in the mood – sometimes she even feels raped. Is she in an emotionally abusive relationship with a sex addict?

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The Black Church: How Black Churches Keep African American Women Single and Lonely

. 07/20/2014 . 505 Comments

Single Black women sit in church every Sunday being brainwashed and placated into waiting for love. The true reason that there are so many single, never married Black women in the U.S. is the Black church which promotes female submission and subjugation to men, to the detriment of female achievement and happiness.

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Moving Past the Fuckery of Black Women and BWE

. 12/20/2013 . 31 Comments

The BWE movement (Black Women’s Empowerment) is filled with black women who continue to hang onto a need for validation, acceptance and acknowledgement by black men. I believe it is a twisted need to feel something… anything… including pain.

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Relationship Research Survey: Important Questions I Should Have Asked

. 12/10/2013 . 0 Comments

Have you regretted not getting vital information and asking important questions before getting involved in a relationship? “Hindsight is 20/20” as the saying goes, but asking the right questions means we’ll get the right answers and possibly save ourselves from unnecessary heartache.

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