You’re Just Not That Into Him (But Maybe You Could Be)
You may not fall in love on the second date, but you’ll definitely be able to get a better sense of whether your date is a potentially suitable match.
You may not fall in love on the second date, but you’ll definitely be able to get a better sense of whether your date is a potentially suitable match.
Though there is no way to know everything about someone even after being with him for years, there are vitally important bits of information that you must have early on to determine if THIS man is a good fit for your needs. There is a manner in which a woman should acquire information that involves skill and finesse.
Women can’t stand empty silences and will fill the quiet with information about their past, laying them out like an offering to the Man Gods. Why clog a man’s brain with information that will do nothing but make him jealous or insecure about a future with you? Women also tell too much of their business to jealous females. It would be best if women learned to shut up!
The first thing some men do after talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman’s home. Their idea of a date is spending time together relaxing on your couch… in close proximity to the bedroom. A “no, I don’t know you well enough yet” response may cause such a man to press even harder or become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this increasingly common behavior pattern, and what should women do to counter it?
Why would someone want to appear to be something they are not? I believe everyone wants to appear to have their life together, to make smart choices, to be a success and a winner! Who wants to admit they made silly mistakes or gambled and lost – over and over again? Losers, that’s who!
When I think about going on a date I no longer get excited. Nor do I wonder if he could be \”the one.\” What I think now is: \”Crap! Do I have to?\”
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