Why would someone want to appear to be something they are not? I believe everyone wants to appear to have their life together, to make smart choices, to be a success and a winner! Who wants to admit they made silly mistakes or gambled and lost – over and over again? Losers, that’s who!
Author John D. Husband explores the issue from both sides of the gender fence and explains why men need encouragement from women to approach and why men will go to such great lengths to avoid being humiliated, embarrassed, diminished, ridiculed, or told the truth.
I know I’m stupid but I forgive him every time he calls and explains how hard it is on him to be without me in his life. How can I know if he’s using me for sex?
It kills me how young girls put so much emphasis on the fact that they have a baby by some fool like it means something important. Is a broken heart in this advice seeker’s future?
Women write the “Dear Ms. HeartBeat” advice column frequently, seeking help understanding why their latest “relationship” went sour. Most times after digesting the facts, it’s clear as the nose on your face that there WAS no relationship at all. Therefore, the writer’s expectations of fidelity, commitment or involvement were totally misplaced. In other words, don’t get [...]
How do women decide between the man that is stable and the man that is a sexual God. In other words, how do women choose between the stable nice guy who may be trustworthy and a good father figure, but who is sexually boring, and the guy that makes her feel like a total woman but who may be a player? The issue is discussed in detail on The Date Smarter, Not Harder Talk Show with host Deborrah Cooper.
I’m tired of men that feel they are “Good men” touting their goodness like it’s a badge of honor, a trophy, something that entitles them to more or better or what they want. In the mating game your “goodness” means absolutely nothing. You telling women over and over why we should pick you instead of the exciting, sexy, fun guy makes you sound like a whining punk. Here are my reasons why I and a great many women totally ignore “good guys” when choosing a man.
"Strong reasons make strong actions." — William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Did ole Willy have to date? I believe the whole mating thing was done a bit differently back in his day. My understanding is that one’s parents figured out who might be a good match for the family as a whole, then you were "assigned" [...]
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