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My Man and I Haven’t Had Sex in Over Six Months!

. 01/05/2011 . 1 Comment

What should a vibrant young wife do about a husband that hasn’t touched her in six months?

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11-28-10 Elite Black Men: Fantasy or Reality?

. 11/28/2010 . 2 Comments

What qualities would make a Black man “elite”? Is it possible that men who believe themselves to be “elite” are really just normal, average men doing what they are supposed to be doing and are nothing special at all?

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How Will I Know if a Guy is in Love With Me?

. 08/22/2010 . 1 Comment

How will I know if a guy is in love with me? What kind of signs will he show?

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Men Are Not Qualified to Lead Women or Relationships

. 08/07/2010 . 25 Comments

Men feel that they should lead women because that is “how it is supposed to be.” But if we remove religion from the equation, what is it that makes men feel they must be the leader? Not intelligence, drive, ambition or skills! And if it is true, as some men say, that men are destructive when left to their own devices and need women to lead them in other directions, then who is the real leader here?

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Can We Ever Have a Drama Free Relationship?

. 07/20/2010 . 2 Comments

Abandoned by his Mom as a child, a new boyfriend has issues with intimacy and has chosen crazy drama girls to date in the past. Should the new girlfriend expect changes or flee?

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The “Stupid Muthafucka!” Gene

. 06/20/2010 . 13 Comments

Some singles are so anxious for love they rush into commitments with stupid people they really don’t know much about. The older and wiser I get, the more I’ve come to realize the importance of taking the time to assess the personality, health history and attitudes of potential mates with a critical eye to their genetics. Why? Because stupidity is carried in the genes!

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The Decline in Black Marriages… Is Marriage for Educated White People?

. 01/25/2010 . 2 Comments

A report released on January 18th, 2010 by the Pew Research Center identifies a fundamental reconfiguration of marriage: As a consequence of increased education and greater access to high-paying jobs, wives are more likely than ever before to earn more and to be better educated than their husbands. Research indicates that equality in a number of areas is associated with today’s successful relationships: similar background, social class and educational level among them. Why then are so many Black men angry at Black women for demanding that their spouse have a college degree?

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Jerks, Assholes, Idiots and Abusive Men: Recognizing Verbal Abuse

. 08/14/2009 . 12 Comments

Five common tactics abusive men use to derail female confidence. The goal for abusive men is to belittle and insult you so often that you shut down. He wants to be able to treat you any way he likes, and for you to take it without complaint because you’re so beaten down you believe his words to be true.

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Both Dating and Fishing Are Sports

. 07/22/2009 . 1 Comment

Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle!

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How Do Relationships Become “Official” These Days?

. 06/26/2009 . 0 Comments

Single men and women must never assume that they have a committed relationship or a “boyfriend/girlfriend” just because they’ve been on 5, 10 or even 500 dates, slept together, are living together, or have even had a baby. Unless the details of their association have been discussed in great detail, expectations and abilities to meet said expectations have been ironed out, and both parties sign on the dotted line, there is no “relationship.”

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