Podcast by columnist Deborrah Cooper which explains why Steve Harvey and his book Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man are a waste of time for a woman seeking a loving relationship based on mutual love and support.
Why do so many relationship experts tell single women that they must train men – grown men now, how to treat them? Especially when these guys already know how to treat a woman when in reality some men choose to be ratchet instead of respectful!
Don’t black women understand that the joke is on them and Steve Harvey is laughing all the way to the bank? Join us for an interesting dissection of Steve’s dating advice book “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man” analyzed in a way you have never heard before!
Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
Single woman dating and in love with a married man is apparently confused about her role in his life, so she writes to complain about a lack of trust and feeling used.
All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, churchgoing “husband material” men will run some variation of the ‘ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions and issues put forth will determine whether he puts feelings into a relationship with you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing..
Recently, several articles by single Black women praising Black men and admonish Black women for their criticisms and anger. These rah rah cheerleader Black women are not helping Black men at all, and really get on my nerves.
Contributing author Shadid C. McDonald and columnist Deborrah Cooper discuss a common complaint of black men – that beautiful black women don’t know how to “make a man feel like a man.” Both writers share their views on the issue.
Author John D. Husband explores the issue from both sides of the gender fence and explains why men need encouragement from women to approach and why men will go to such great lengths to avoid being humiliated, embarrassed, diminished, ridiculed, or told the truth.
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