Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
Single woman dating and in love with a married man is apparently confused about her role in his life, so she writes to complain about a lack of trust and feeling used.
All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, churchgoing “husband material” men will run some variation of the ‘ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions and issues put forth will determine whether he puts feelings into a relationship with you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing..
Recently, several articles by single Black women praising Black men and admonish Black women for their criticisms and anger. These rah rah cheerleader Black women are not helping Black men at all, and really get on my nerves.
Contributing author Shadid C. McDonald and columnist Deborrah Cooper discuss a common complaint of black men – that beautiful black women don’t know how to “make a man feel like a man.” Both writers share their views on the issue.
Author John D. Husband explores the issue from both sides of the gender fence and explains why men need encouragement from women to approach and why men will go to such great lengths to avoid being humiliated, embarrassed, diminished, ridiculed, or told the truth.
Men come with baggage just as some women do. If you’re not looking for baggage or added stress to your life, take heed when dating these nine types of men.
“Is Marriage for White People,” by Stanford Law Professor Ralph Richard Banks is analyzed and dissected. Is it really time for Black women that seek marriage and commitment to stop limiting their options to Black men? The arguments in favor are compelling.
Key findings from “The Consequences of Marriage for African Americans” which concludes that Black women benefit substantially less from marriage than Black males OR White females. Why then are so many Black women in a hurry to get married?
Households in which children live with a single mom and a “live in” boyfriend increases a child’s risk of abuse to 8x that of children living with their married parents. Most homicides of young children are committed by family members through beatings or suffocation. Although victims include approximately equal numbers of boys and girls, offenders include a disproportionate number of women, primarily their young, single mothers.
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