Recently, several articles by single Black women praising Black men and admonish Black women for their criticisms and anger. These rah rah cheerleader Black women are not helping Black men at all, and really get on my nerves.
A writer condemns Black women for not knowing how to choose a mate; Ms. HeartBeat breaks the whole dating and marriage process down so that even simpletons like this guy can understand that its all men’s fault.
Due to the low rates of marriage in the Black community, few Black women are instructed on the qualities they should seek when looking for a husband. Marriage is a partnership, and selecting a partner that improves your life must be every Black woman’s goal. The facts that you are in love, have great sex, or enjoy sharing hobbies and similar entertainment interests are poor reasons to marry. Black women must begin looking deeper at a man’s personality, character, value system and beliefs about women/marriage before saying “I Do!”
A writer complains that teen mothers spread kids with the same ease that they buy a new purse. Who is really responsible for teen pregnancies?
In church, bookstores and real life, Black women submit to and serve men. Women give everything they have to men with a pimp mentality whose sole goal is to get the upper hand and dominate women.
I think it is important to note that statistics I am going to present apply only to those who self-identified in the last Census as just Black – not Black and Native American, not bi-racial, not a blend of three or more races like Tiger Woods with his Cablasian self. The “single never married” group of African Americans is close to 50% of the African American population. However, this statistical grouping also includes men. It also includes people that are gay or lesbian, that don’t want to get married EVER, those incarcerated that are not allowed to marry until their release, as well as those involved in a relationship that is not yet at the altar (engaged or living together).
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