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		<title>By: Reese</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/the-70-of-black-women-are-single-lie-exposed/comment-page-2#comment-2868</link>
		<dc:creator>Reese</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 18:24:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am glad someone said it.  Because I get approached by men of all races.  And I am not the only one.  I have friends who are married to asians, whites, blacks, middle easterns, latinos. 
The myth is that no one wants us and everyone wants black men and it is not true.  Alot of races black men are the last chosen as well.  There are just as high a 
% of black men single, but they think they are single by choice.  You can date who you want, but they don&#039;t have to try to down bw.  I think they are putting their inferiority on us.  The majority of bm marry bw just like everyone else with exception of Asian women who is half and half, but nobody asks what is wrong with am.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am glad someone said it.  Because I get approached by men of all races.  And I am not the only one.  I have friends who are married to asians, whites, blacks, middle easterns, latinos.<br />
The myth is that no one wants us and everyone wants black men and it is not true.  Alot of races black men are the last chosen as well.  There are just as high a<br />
% of black men single, but they think they are single by choice.  You can date who you want, but they don&#8217;t have to try to down bw.  I think they are putting their inferiority on us.  The majority of bm marry bw just like everyone else with exception of Asian women who is half and half, but nobody asks what is wrong with am.</p>
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		<title>By: anthony</title>
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		<dc:creator>anthony</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Jan 2011 18:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>like the songstress MILLIE JACKSON once said in one of her HIT ALBUMS: if i was a man i&#039;ll just get me a sissy and call it a day</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>like the songstress MILLIE JACKSON once said in one of her HIT ALBUMS: if i was a man i&#8217;ll just get me a sissy and call it a day</p>
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		<title>By: Raz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 15:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ABC: &lt;em&gt;&quot;I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone–they don’t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don’t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.&quot;
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Wow ABC very insightful comment!  Where is this forum of nonblack women saying these things?  Can you post the link?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ABC: <em>&#8220;I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone–they don’t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don’t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.&#8221;<br />
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Wow ABC very insightful comment!  Where is this forum of nonblack women saying these things?  Can you post the link?</p>
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		<title>By: abc</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/the-70-of-black-women-are-single-lie-exposed/comment-page-1#comment-1608</link>
		<dc:creator>abc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 09:54:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am going to finally let it all hang out on this post, of how I really feel about most black men in this day and age. They are getting away with way too much -- as if we&#039;re the ones in the wrong.

A) The real reason why any percentage of black women are single is because 85% of black men in 2010 are pieces of shyt. There -- I said it. I&#039;d say about 15% of black men are taking care of their families, working or working toward something positive and treat black women with respect. The vast majority of 2010 black men (the other 85%) don&#039;t want to take care of their kids, they don&#039;t want to get married b/c like scare slaves they don&#039;t want someone to take their pittances, a large majority don&#039;t work and don&#039;t bring in income, and finally they worship at the altar of anything non-black. Their minds are twisted and spoiled due to their own self-hatred -- they are weak and that&#039;s been true since slavery. Black women were ALWAYS the ones to uphold their communities and families.

B) Black women are thankfully waking up. There is still a small faction of black women who will &quot;ride or die&quot; for this 90% low-life population of black men. But most of my black female friends (we&#039;re all college educated and ambitious) have long moved on. Just this past month I was hit on by about 5 different black men while out and about (there goes that idea that bw aren&#039;t attractive enough) -- I actively choose to say NO now. Now they want to come out of the woodwork b/c they are slowly starting to see that nobody values them the way that bw did. So being single has little to do with something that&#039;s wrong with me -- I actively choose it. I do not want to waste anymore time. I have that 85% statistics in the back of my mind at all times now. And be clear, I have no problem dating non-black men, preferably from other countries, as long as they are respectable and ambitious like myself. I will not accept anything from a non-black man that I wouldn&#039;t accept from a black man. 

C) Everyone but you can see this, black man. They laugh at you as you quote these 70% statistics and bash your own women, because you&#039;re only exposing your own weakness more and more every day. I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone--they don&#039;t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don&#039;t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.

That is the truth and I don&#039;t care who doesn&#039;t like it. So you can quote that statistic from now on -- 85% of black men need some serious help. Black women stop focusing your life around a losing proposition -- move on already.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am going to finally let it all hang out on this post, of how I really feel about most black men in this day and age. They are getting away with way too much &#8212; as if we&#8217;re the ones in the wrong.</p>
<p>A) The real reason why any percentage of black women are single is because 85% of black men in 2010 are pieces of shyt. There &#8212; I said it. I&#8217;d say about 15% of black men are taking care of their families, working or working toward something positive and treat black women with respect. The vast majority of 2010 black men (the other 85%) don&#8217;t want to take care of their kids, they don&#8217;t want to get married b/c like scare slaves they don&#8217;t want someone to take their pittances, a large majority don&#8217;t work and don&#8217;t bring in income, and finally they worship at the altar of anything non-black. Their minds are twisted and spoiled due to their own self-hatred &#8212; they are weak and that&#8217;s been true since slavery. Black women were ALWAYS the ones to uphold their communities and families.</p>
<p>B) Black women are thankfully waking up. There is still a small faction of black women who will &#8220;ride or die&#8221; for this 90% low-life population of black men. But most of my black female friends (we&#8217;re all college educated and ambitious) have long moved on. Just this past month I was hit on by about 5 different black men while out and about (there goes that idea that bw aren&#8217;t attractive enough) &#8212; I actively choose to say NO now. Now they want to come out of the woodwork b/c they are slowly starting to see that nobody values them the way that bw did. So being single has little to do with something that&#8217;s wrong with me &#8212; I actively choose it. I do not want to waste anymore time. I have that 85% statistics in the back of my mind at all times now. And be clear, I have no problem dating non-black men, preferably from other countries, as long as they are respectable and ambitious like myself. I will not accept anything from a non-black man that I wouldn&#8217;t accept from a black man. </p>
<p>C) Everyone but you can see this, black man. They laugh at you as you quote these 70% statistics and bash your own women, because you&#8217;re only exposing your own weakness more and more every day. I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone&#8211;they don&#8217;t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don&#8217;t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.</p>
<p>That is the truth and I don&#8217;t care who doesn&#8217;t like it. So you can quote that statistic from now on &#8212; 85% of black men need some serious help. Black women stop focusing your life around a losing proposition &#8212; move on already.</p>
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		<title>By: abc</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/the-70-of-black-women-are-single-lie-exposed/comment-page-1#comment-1607</link>
		<dc:creator>abc</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 09:53:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am going to finally let it all hang out on this post, of how I really feel about most black men in this day and age. They are getting away with way too much -- as if we&#039;re the ones in the wrong.

A) The real reason why any percentage of black women are single is because 85% of black men in 2010 are pieces of shyt. There -- I said it. I&#039;d say about 15% of black men are taking care of their families, working or working toward something positive and treat black women with respect. The vast majority of 2010 black men (the other 85%) don&#039;t want to take care of their kids, they don&#039;t want to get married b/c like scare slaves they don&#039;t want someone to take their pittances, a large majority don&#039;t work and don&#039;t bring in income, and finally they worship at the altar of anything non-black. Their minds are twisted and spoiled due to their own self-hatred -- they are weak and that&#039;s been true since slavery. Black women were ALWAYS the ones to uphold their communities and families.

B) Black women are thankfully waking up. There is still a small faction of black women who will &quot;ride or die&quot; for this 90% low-life population of black men. But most of my black female friends (we&#039;re all college educated and ambitious) have long moved on. Just this past month I was hit on by about 5 different black men while out and about (there goes that idea that bw aren&#039;t attractive enough) -- I actively choose to say NO now. Now they want to come out of the woodwork b/c they are slowly starting to see that nobody values them the way that bw did. So being single has little to do with something that&#039;s wrong with me -- I actively choose it. I do not want to waste anymore time. I have that 85% statistics in the back of my mind at all times now. And be clear, I have no problem dating non-black men, preferably from other countries, as long as they are respectable and ambitious like myself. I will not accept anything from a non-black man that I wouldn&#039;t accept from a black man. 

C) Everyone but you can see this, black man. They laugh at you as you quote these 70% statistics and bash your own women, because you&#039;re only exposing your own weakness more and more every day. I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone--they don&#039;t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don&#039;t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.

That is the truth and I don&#039;t care who doesn&#039;t like it. So you can quote that statistic from now on -- 85% of black men need some serious help. Black women stop focusing your life around a losing proposition -- move on already!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am going to finally let it all hang out on this post, of how I really feel about most black men in this day and age. They are getting away with way too much &#8212; as if we&#8217;re the ones in the wrong.</p>
<p>A) The real reason why any percentage of black women are single is because 85% of black men in 2010 are pieces of shyt. There &#8212; I said it. I&#8217;d say about 15% of black men are taking care of their families, working or working toward something positive and treat black women with respect. The vast majority of 2010 black men (the other 85%) don&#8217;t want to take care of their kids, they don&#8217;t want to get married b/c like scare slaves they don&#8217;t want someone to take their pittances, a large majority don&#8217;t work and don&#8217;t bring in income, and finally they worship at the altar of anything non-black. Their minds are twisted and spoiled due to their own self-hatred &#8212; they are weak and that&#8217;s been true since slavery. Black women were ALWAYS the ones to uphold their communities and families.</p>
<p>B) Black women are thankfully waking up. There is still a small faction of black women who will &#8220;ride or die&#8221; for this 90% low-life population of black men. But most of my black female friends (we&#8217;re all college educated and ambitious) have long moved on. Just this past month I was hit on by about 5 different black men while out and about (there goes that idea that bw aren&#8217;t attractive enough) &#8212; I actively choose to say NO now. Now they want to come out of the woodwork b/c they are slowly starting to see that nobody values them the way that bw did. So being single has little to do with something that&#8217;s wrong with me &#8212; I actively choose it. I do not want to waste anymore time. I have that 85% statistics in the back of my mind at all times now. And be clear, I have no problem dating non-black men, preferably from other countries, as long as they are respectable and ambitious like myself. I will not accept anything from a non-black man that I wouldn&#8217;t accept from a black man. </p>
<p>C) Everyone but you can see this, black man. They laugh at you as you quote these 70% statistics and bash your own women, because you&#8217;re only exposing your own weakness more and more every day. I read a forum where several non-black women were telling black men to leave them alone&#8211;they don&#8217;t want a man who downgrades his own women either. They don&#8217;t want black men moving in on their stable communities and f-ing shyt up either.</p>
<p>That is the truth and I don&#8217;t care who doesn&#8217;t like it. So you can quote that statistic from now on &#8212; 85% of black men need some serious help. Black women stop focusing your life around a losing proposition &#8212; move on already!</p>
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		<title>By: Deborrah Cooper</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborrah Cooper</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 23:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No Black man has ever sent ANYTHING positive to me in the form of an article. So your question is answered with a profound NO. If you were concerned about that lacking, why did you not send one yourself instead of attacking me for what Black men have not done?  

If you think they were so wrong, why did you not attack them for their negativity? Why did you not check them fools for what they had to say about the Black women you claim to love so much? Instead, you point the finger of blame at ME for sharing the statements they made on this public forum. SMH. Typical Black male, you won&#039;t take responsibility for anything you and other men do -- you never fail in your attempts to make your failures, lackings and shortcomings the fault of a Black woman. 

You and the women that think as you do both need to get a clue about personal responsibility and blame those that have the hatred they do about Sistahs, not me for posting it.

If you want to see anything different, post an article glorifying the Black woman on your site and feel free to link to this article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No Black man has ever sent ANYTHING positive to me in the form of an article. So your question is answered with a profound NO. If you were concerned about that lacking, why did you not send one yourself instead of attacking me for what Black men have not done?  </p>
<p>If you think they were so wrong, why did you not attack them for their negativity? Why did you not check them fools for what they had to say about the Black women you claim to love so much? Instead, you point the finger of blame at ME for sharing the statements they made on this public forum. SMH. Typical Black male, you won&#8217;t take responsibility for anything you and other men do &#8212; you never fail in your attempts to make your failures, lackings and shortcomings the fault of a Black woman. </p>
<p>You and the women that think as you do both need to get a clue about personal responsibility and blame those that have the hatred they do about Sistahs, not me for posting it.</p>
<p>If you want to see anything different, post an article glorifying the Black woman on your site and feel free to link to this article.</p>
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		<title>By: Xandra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Xandra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jun 2010 03:10:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also agree with SKA. I am glad you wrote the article attacking the 70% statistic. However, I&#039;m equally saddened that you failed to see SKA&#039;s points. This finger pointing has to stop. 

Black people are not a monolithic group. Some things don&#039;t require explanation. Honestly, when I see a Black man with a woman of another race, I feel no anger. There is no law that we as Black people have to date and marry each other. I think that at times we as Black men and women have an unhealthy attachment to each other. It&#039;s like its own form of slavery, and the Emancipation Proclamation set us free. Let go and let God!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also agree with SKA. I am glad you wrote the article attacking the 70% statistic. However, I&#8217;m equally saddened that you failed to see SKA&#8217;s points. This finger pointing has to stop. </p>
<p>Black people are not a monolithic group. Some things don&#8217;t require explanation. Honestly, when I see a Black man with a woman of another race, I feel no anger. There is no law that we as Black people have to date and marry each other. I think that at times we as Black men and women have an unhealthy attachment to each other. It&#8217;s like its own form of slavery, and the Emancipation Proclamation set us free. Let go and let God!</p>
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		<title>By: Sophie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sophie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jun 2010 01:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OMG this was perfect.  Thank you!  I love how he tried to down black women when it was said countless times that there are more black women than black men in college and in higher careers.  In terms of money, Hilary Clinton did state that women as a whole make only $0.79 for every $1.00 a man makes.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OMG this was perfect.  Thank you!  I love how he tried to down black women when it was said countless times that there are more black women than black men in college and in higher careers.  In terms of money, Hilary Clinton did state that women as a whole make only $0.79 for every $1.00 a man makes.</p>
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