Why Black Women Put Professional Black Men on ‘NIGNORE’

. 08/11/2010 . 78 Comments

Men write me frequently to get my take on why Black women complain that they “can’t find a good Black man” or “can’t find a Black man on my level” when they are surrounded by educated, professional Black men.  It made me wonder too.  Why a guy, with all the outward appearances of a highly desirable catch (college educated, established, an “on point” Black man) would be passed over by women for romance and marriage.  Well, I have some answers.

Them men I’ve come across the past couple of years are frustrated and angry at women for rejecting them. Why? Because the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow they thought would be there isn’t.  The reward they believed they would get at the completion of their struggles to achieve financial stability, own their own home, become college educated, be a good guy and not dog out women, and establish a viable and legitimate career has not happened.

They made themselves into the man that was the opposite of what women complained about.  But somehow they still get rejected by women, even while doing everything they are “supposed to do.”  Therefore, the problem must be that women don’t know how to pick a man or recognize the man that is what women claimed to want.

In my latest video (a two part series entitled “Why Black Women Put Professional Black Men on ‘Nignore’), I explain exactly what it is that women are looking for in a romantic, committed relationship.  Listening to this video series will provide you with answers and why many of these educated, professional Black women would rather have a less accomplished, undereducated man by their side than you all.

Part 1

Part 2

Deborrah

Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.

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