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	<title>Comments on: Why Men Hate Dating Single Mothers</title>
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		<title>By: blackcaesar</title>
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		<dc:creator>blackcaesar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 22:49:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You know I don&#039;t know if this is wrong of me or not, maybe you all can help me on this one.  But, most single black women have never been married in the first place right?  O.K., so I think to myself about these women, &quot;What kind of knucklehead would get themselves into the position where they are solely responsible for the well-being of children?  Didn&#039;t they know how difficult it would be as a single parent.  They certainly could not have good judgement.  My sister, my mother, and all the women in my family were smart enough to recruit, for lack of a better word, the help/resources of the father of their children and got married to them to boot.  What&#039;s wrong with these women who seem unable to similarly &quot;corral in&quot; a man or better yet, a husband.&quot;  I&#039;ve got this male best-friend who has SOLE custody of two children (one of whom is not even his biologically) from this trifling white woman who cheated on him prior to him deciding to move to Indiana with her and having their biological child.  Now, he tells me that he never gets a day off, even when he has days off from work.  All I think is &quot;that&#039;s what you get for not breaking up with that chick when you found out she cheated on you.&quot;  I mean dude is my best bud from childhood, but talk about POOR judgement!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know I don&#8217;t know if this is wrong of me or not, maybe you all can help me on this one.  But, most single black women have never been married in the first place right?  O.K., so I think to myself about these women, &#8220;What kind of knucklehead would get themselves into the position where they are solely responsible for the well-being of children?  Didn&#8217;t they know how difficult it would be as a single parent.  They certainly could not have good judgement.  My sister, my mother, and all the women in my family were smart enough to recruit, for lack of a better word, the help/resources of the father of their children and got married to them to boot.  What&#8217;s wrong with these women who seem unable to similarly &#8220;corral in&#8221; a man or better yet, a husband.&#8221;  I&#8217;ve got this male best-friend who has SOLE custody of two children (one of whom is not even his biologically) from this trifling white woman who cheated on him prior to him deciding to move to Indiana with her and having their biological child.  Now, he tells me that he never gets a day off, even when he has days off from work.  All I think is &#8220;that&#8217;s what you get for not breaking up with that chick when you found out she cheated on you.&#8221;  I mean dude is my best bud from childhood, but talk about POOR judgement!</p>
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		<title>By: Deborrah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 23:06:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe the ones YOU date don&#039;t cook, but millions of women do. Why not elevate the level of women you spend time with and interact with instead of lamenting and whining about the few that don&#039;t cook?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe the ones YOU date don&#8217;t cook, but millions of women do. Why not elevate the level of women you spend time with and interact with instead of lamenting and whining about the few that don&#8217;t cook?</p>
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		<title>By: Imaginativeone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Imaginativeone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 11:16:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Get real.  American women don&#039;t cook.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Get real.  American women don&#8217;t cook.</p>
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		<title>By: Jucole</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-men-hate-dating-single-mothers/comment-page-2#comment-2830</link>
		<dc:creator>Jucole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Aug 2011 14:51:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a single mom of two &amp; no one that I&#039;ve came across so far as been turned off by me having kids. I actually look for men who have experience with children &amp; who are self-reliant &amp; if they have kids of their own they have to have a good relationship with them to keep my interest. I guess you just need to know how to pick them. I also have no drama with my children&#039;s father &amp; a set vistation schedule that allows me to have some free time every week &amp; every other weekend. I thank therapy, counseling, &amp;, parenting classes for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a single mom of two &amp; no one that I&#8217;ve came across so far as been turned off by me having kids. I actually look for men who have experience with children &amp; who are self-reliant &amp; if they have kids of their own they have to have a good relationship with them to keep my interest. I guess you just need to know how to pick them. I also have no drama with my children&#8217;s father &amp; a set vistation schedule that allows me to have some free time every week &amp; every other weekend. I thank therapy, counseling, &amp;, parenting classes for that.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Aug 2011 23:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am a successful single mother, ie great career and working on Master&#039;s degree. I have found on the dating scene that it is difficult to find a man who is not intimidated by the fact that I have two children. I guess I look at these sites to remain open-minded and not to get bitter. I know that every man I date will be different and how they act will be different. I know it is difficult for someone to come into our lives. I do not let my children meet any man unless the relationship is getting serious, though I tell every man I date that I am a single mother. It is hard and I almost feel &#039;tainted&#039; over it. My children are my priority. I am only in my 20s though so I would like to date. It&#039;s just difficult and I see how it is difficult from both ends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a successful single mother, ie great career and working on Master&#8217;s degree. I have found on the dating scene that it is difficult to find a man who is not intimidated by the fact that I have two children. I guess I look at these sites to remain open-minded and not to get bitter. I know that every man I date will be different and how they act will be different. I know it is difficult for someone to come into our lives. I do not let my children meet any man unless the relationship is getting serious, though I tell every man I date that I am a single mother. It is hard and I almost feel &#8216;tainted&#8217; over it. My children are my priority. I am only in my 20s though so I would like to date. It&#8217;s just difficult and I see how it is difficult from both ends.</p>
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		<title>By: amb</title>
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		<dc:creator>amb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2011 08:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am single mom. I reject so many guys who want to date me. mostly they are singl dad too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am single mom. I reject so many guys who want to date me. mostly they are singl dad too.</p>
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		<title>By: Raz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jun 2011 00:29:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theo3773: &lt;em&gt;&quot;I am a successful single male, 2 masters degrees, and trying to start a 3rd degree program. I gots money, although tight in this economy, and I can take care of myself.&quot;&lt;/em&gt;

Get a job you&lt;em&gt; &#039;edumucated fool&#039;&lt;/em&gt;.  How many degrees do you need in order to be a success and have a job.  What are all these so called degrees in?  Must be the degree of knuckleheadedness  lololol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theo3773: <em>&#8220;I am a successful single male, 2 masters degrees, and trying to start a 3rd degree program. I gots money, although tight in this economy, and I can take care of myself.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Get a job you<em> &#8216;edumucated fool&#8217;</em>.  How many degrees do you need in order to be a success and have a job.  What are all these so called degrees in?  Must be the degree of knuckleheadedness  lololol.</p>
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		<title>By: Raz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 23:50:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Theo3773: &lt;em&gt;&quot;So…. I date women abroad and I’m about to marry one. Oh yeah, I’m half Black….LOL&quot;&lt;/em&gt;

Yo butt ain&#039;t bout to marry nobody.  If you were you would be too caught up in your forthcoming nuptials instead of whining about women who dogged you out. You would be all over that and basking in the happiness of a man in love and about to marry the woman who thinks he&#039;s the shit!  If you were alladat like you claim you are, you would have had the heat and been in the &#039;select&#039; pool to actually pull the women you wanted instead of now whining about the women who dogged you out; but you don&#039;t, so stop fooling yourself.  That&#039;s the real reason trifling knuckleheads like you date out, because the woman you want don&#039;t want you and I can see why with your lousy funky attitude.  You relegated yourself to dating baby mamas that dogged you out and that tells more about the type of male &#039;YOU&#039; are&#039; than it does about anyone else.  

And this half black mess, you&#039;s a nigga all the way.  Don&#039;t no white person look at you saying, &quot;Oh he&#039;s only half black.&quot; so get over yourself because in America, most black folks got masta genes in them somewhere along the family tree. You ain&#039;t nothing special just because yours might be first generation as opposed to someone who has 2nd or 3rd generation Masta genes.  At any rate your &#039;so called Masta genes didn&#039;t get you the woman of your choice did it, so stop touting it like it&#039;s special.  You are probably butt ugly, looking like the inside of somebody&#039;s ass, and couldn&#039;t pull a hot looking educated, financially secure, successful independent black woman if you tried.  So you best gone over there and get you trailer trash Becky, or &#039;Wanna get her green card, Ming liu&#039; or whatever other foreign broad will want you and think your corny ass is the bomb.  Black women could give less than a damn.  You  will  be one less &#039;racial mutt&#039; in the dating pool for black women to have to contend with.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Theo3773: <em>&#8220;So…. I date women abroad and I’m about to marry one. Oh yeah, I’m half Black….LOL&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Yo butt ain&#8217;t bout to marry nobody.  If you were you would be too caught up in your forthcoming nuptials instead of whining about women who dogged you out. You would be all over that and basking in the happiness of a man in love and about to marry the woman who thinks he&#8217;s the shit!  If you were alladat like you claim you are, you would have had the heat and been in the &#8216;select&#8217; pool to actually pull the women you wanted instead of now whining about the women who dogged you out; but you don&#8217;t, so stop fooling yourself.  That&#8217;s the real reason trifling knuckleheads like you date out, because the woman you want don&#8217;t want you and I can see why with your lousy funky attitude.  You relegated yourself to dating baby mamas that dogged you out and that tells more about the type of male &#8216;YOU&#8217; are&#8217; than it does about anyone else.  </p>
<p>And this half black mess, you&#8217;s a nigga all the way.  Don&#8217;t no white person look at you saying, &#8220;Oh he&#8217;s only half black.&#8221; so get over yourself because in America, most black folks got masta genes in them somewhere along the family tree. You ain&#8217;t nothing special just because yours might be first generation as opposed to someone who has 2nd or 3rd generation Masta genes.  At any rate your &#8216;so called Masta genes didn&#8217;t get you the woman of your choice did it, so stop touting it like it&#8217;s special.  You are probably butt ugly, looking like the inside of somebody&#8217;s ass, and couldn&#8217;t pull a hot looking educated, financially secure, successful independent black woman if you tried.  So you best gone over there and get you trailer trash Becky, or &#8216;Wanna get her green card, Ming liu&#8217; or whatever other foreign broad will want you and think your corny ass is the bomb.  Black women could give less than a damn.  You  will  be one less &#8216;racial mutt&#8217; in the dating pool for black women to have to contend with.</p>
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