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		<title>By: Bev Jo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bev Jo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2011 20:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really appreciate this post. The earth is being destroyed by too many humans, but the media is not allowed to refer to that. If anyone dares to mention it, there is the hysterical response about humans dying off. Overpopulation is destroying the earth. No woman should reproduce until she has taken care of a new-born baby for a year. The propaganda for women to reproduce is relentless. And of course it&#039;s a right wing pressure. The Nazis awarded mothers who produced 5 kids with a medal. 

But yes, you are considered &quot;abnormal&quot; and &quot;selfish&quot; if you care about other species and the earth enough to say no to that tremendous privilege that mothers get.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really appreciate this post. The earth is being destroyed by too many humans, but the media is not allowed to refer to that. If anyone dares to mention it, there is the hysterical response about humans dying off. Overpopulation is destroying the earth. No woman should reproduce until she has taken care of a new-born baby for a year. The propaganda for women to reproduce is relentless. And of course it&#8217;s a right wing pressure. The Nazis awarded mothers who produced 5 kids with a medal. </p>
<p>But yes, you are considered &#8220;abnormal&#8221; and &#8220;selfish&#8221; if you care about other species and the earth enough to say no to that tremendous privilege that mothers get.</p>
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		<title>By: Raz</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-2107</link>
		<dc:creator>Raz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 16:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Looks like yet another knucklehead who read the title of the article without reading the article itself and based his judgment and comments on the title alone.  Not once comment did you make about the heinous acts men commit against children and women, just another whine because you feel defensive that someone is calling men on their shyt.  Women should stop having babies, because men act a zip damn fool towards babies and women.  They abuse them, whine about paying child support.  Y&#039;all want babies, figure out how to make them yourselves without women.   And as for your name, you&#039;re evil because you&#039;re stupid.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks like yet another knucklehead who read the title of the article without reading the article itself and based his judgment and comments on the title alone.  Not once comment did you make about the heinous acts men commit against children and women, just another whine because you feel defensive that someone is calling men on their shyt.  Women should stop having babies, because men act a zip damn fool towards babies and women.  They abuse them, whine about paying child support.  Y&#8217;all want babies, figure out how to make them yourselves without women.   And as for your name, you&#8217;re evil because you&#8217;re stupid.</p>
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		<title>By: Raz</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-2001</link>
		<dc:creator>Raz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2011 17:50:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Baffled: &lt;em&gt;&quot;childbirth. Yes, people should stop having children, but this is only because of ecological and labor related concerns&quot;&lt;/em&gt;

People can stop having kids because of their own reasons, you don&#039;t get to dictate the reasons why.  If you&#039;re so worried about childbirth, grow a womb and have some kids then, or better yet, go adopt the many neglected and abused kids caught up in the system. Otherwise STFU!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Baffled: <em>&#8220;childbirth. Yes, people should stop having children, but this is only because of ecological and labor related concerns&#8221;</em></p>
<p>People can stop having kids because of their own reasons, you don&#8217;t get to dictate the reasons why.  If you&#8217;re so worried about childbirth, grow a womb and have some kids then, or better yet, go adopt the many neglected and abused kids caught up in the system. Otherwise STFU!</p>
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		<title>By: Baffled</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-1988</link>
		<dc:creator>Baffled</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2011 02:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How can you derive an ethics based on an appeal a right intrinsic to humans that, in its defense, posits an inherent tendency of males to deprive that right when half of the human species are males? This is pure idiocy and unpersuasive politics.  Both male and female require each other and can benefit from supporting and collaborating with each other rather than by issuing a simplistic, unqualified fatwa against an entire half of the species.  I am a gay man, respect my female counterparts and know plenty of heterosexual men who treat the women in their lives with respect, concern and service and neither prescribe nor insinuate narrow role restrictions for these women.  Plus, there are many women who denigrate male -- and female -- rights for personal advantage or out of some kind of distorted, internalized fear, just as many men do.

Re: childbirth.  Yes, people should stop having children, but this is only because of ecological and labor related concerns. As the population grows wildly, esp. in under-developed regions of the planet with low urbanization rates, consumption of non-renewable resources accelerates, as does pollution of vital, life-sustaining essentials - water, soil &amp; air.  Aside from this nasty feedback loop - which, esp. in countries like China, is reaching fundamentally dangerous levels, with the PRC officially acknowledging that up to 500K ppl prematurely die each year from air pollution alone, and where the WHO estimates that 700M ppl in China have no access to clean drinking water -- there is also the fact that an ever-increasing supply of labor puts a downward pressure on wages and exacerbates inequality, poverty and deprivation world-wide. This is due to the fact that unchecked multinational interests have co-opted most of the world&#039;s governments, enabling them to shift as many operations as possible to regions where they can pay as low a wage as possible under the worst conditions possible.  These reasons - environmental protection and economic advancement - are the only compelling ones in the proscription of childbirth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can you derive an ethics based on an appeal a right intrinsic to humans that, in its defense, posits an inherent tendency of males to deprive that right when half of the human species are males? This is pure idiocy and unpersuasive politics.  Both male and female require each other and can benefit from supporting and collaborating with each other rather than by issuing a simplistic, unqualified fatwa against an entire half of the species.  I am a gay man, respect my female counterparts and know plenty of heterosexual men who treat the women in their lives with respect, concern and service and neither prescribe nor insinuate narrow role restrictions for these women.  Plus, there are many women who denigrate male &#8212; and female &#8212; rights for personal advantage or out of some kind of distorted, internalized fear, just as many men do.</p>
<p>Re: childbirth.  Yes, people should stop having children, but this is only because of ecological and labor related concerns. As the population grows wildly, esp. in under-developed regions of the planet with low urbanization rates, consumption of non-renewable resources accelerates, as does pollution of vital, life-sustaining essentials &#8211; water, soil &amp; air.  Aside from this nasty feedback loop &#8211; which, esp. in countries like China, is reaching fundamentally dangerous levels, with the PRC officially acknowledging that up to 500K ppl prematurely die each year from air pollution alone, and where the WHO estimates that 700M ppl in China have no access to clean drinking water &#8212; there is also the fact that an ever-increasing supply of labor puts a downward pressure on wages and exacerbates inequality, poverty and deprivation world-wide. This is due to the fact that unchecked multinational interests have co-opted most of the world&#8217;s governments, enabling them to shift as many operations as possible to regions where they can pay as low a wage as possible under the worst conditions possible.  These reasons &#8211; environmental protection and economic advancement &#8211; are the only compelling ones in the proscription of childbirth.</p>
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		<title>By: Viv</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-710</link>
		<dc:creator>Viv</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 19:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Procreation is what is needed to continue with the human race.  Bitter women and bitter men should never have children.  I respect people who know enough not to have children and I also respect people who have the courage and love to have children.  It is our complex differences that makes this crazy world go around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Procreation is what is needed to continue with the human race.  Bitter women and bitter men should never have children.  I respect people who know enough not to have children and I also respect people who have the courage and love to have children.  It is our complex differences that makes this crazy world go around.</p>
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		<title>By: jubilee</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-664</link>
		<dc:creator>jubilee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 02:45:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a sad article---I think women who feel that way are probably attracted to males who are lousy in more ways than one, and they KEEP ATTRACTING that type of man. Their fathers were probably that way, so they havent seen good men who would give their lives for their families</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a sad article&#8212;I think women who feel that way are probably attracted to males who are lousy in more ways than one, and they KEEP ATTRACTING that type of man. Their fathers were probably that way, so they havent seen good men who would give their lives for their families</p>
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		<title>By: Theo</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-1#comment-529</link>
		<dc:creator>Theo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2010 21:18:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Sad Mom
Sad Mom, I am so very sorry to hear about your situation. I am a single black male. My wife passed back in 1999. Together we raised two wonderful children. They are both grown now and very productive citizens. Neither one has ever gone to jail or been in any serious trouble. Do not give up on men. There are still some good ones out here. Now, while I do not agree with a lot of what I have read on this site, I will agree with Raz when she tells you to get away from this man. Especially get your son away from this man. I know you say he loves his father (and that is understandable), but children can overcome setbacks.  I have personally witness this same thing happen to the child of a friend of mine. Even if you do give up on men for yourself, do not give up on looking for a good role model for your son. He likely needs a good man in his life more than you. He needs a good man to teach him how to act like a man. He needs a good man to teach him how to love and respect women. He needs a good man to teach him how to &quot;effectively&quot; deal with life&#039;s inevitable difficulties. He needs a good man to teach him that setting fires is not the answer.  He needs a good man to teach him how to be a &quot;MAN&quot;. You say that he is eight years old now. YOU ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME IF YOU WANT TO SAVE YOUR SON!!! The older he gets, the more difficult it will become. 
I really get pissed of at men who mistreat women because I know that I may have to suffer the bullshit that the woman may want to put on me because of his actions. I know that men talk a lot about how hard it is to find a good woman. Well Hell. We have messed up a lot of you women!!
It does pain me because I would love to have another beautiful relationship. But far too many women have experienced far too many bad men and that does make it hard for me.
Good luck Sad Mom. I will say a prayer for you and your son.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Sad Mom<br />
Sad Mom, I am so very sorry to hear about your situation. I am a single black male. My wife passed back in 1999. Together we raised two wonderful children. They are both grown now and very productive citizens. Neither one has ever gone to jail or been in any serious trouble. Do not give up on men. There are still some good ones out here. Now, while I do not agree with a lot of what I have read on this site, I will agree with Raz when she tells you to get away from this man. Especially get your son away from this man. I know you say he loves his father (and that is understandable), but children can overcome setbacks.  I have personally witness this same thing happen to the child of a friend of mine. Even if you do give up on men for yourself, do not give up on looking for a good role model for your son. He likely needs a good man in his life more than you. He needs a good man to teach him how to act like a man. He needs a good man to teach him how to love and respect women. He needs a good man to teach him how to &#8220;effectively&#8221; deal with life&#8217;s inevitable difficulties. He needs a good man to teach him that setting fires is not the answer.  He needs a good man to teach him how to be a &#8220;MAN&#8221;. You say that he is eight years old now. YOU ARE RUNNING OUT OF TIME IF YOU WANT TO SAVE YOUR SON!!! The older he gets, the more difficult it will become.<br />
I really get pissed of at men who mistreat women because I know that I may have to suffer the bullshit that the woman may want to put on me because of his actions. I know that men talk a lot about how hard it is to find a good woman. Well Hell. We have messed up a lot of you women!!<br />
It does pain me because I would love to have another beautiful relationship. But far too many women have experienced far too many bad men and that does make it hard for me.<br />
Good luck Sad Mom. I will say a prayer for you and your son.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborrah</title>
		<link>http://survivingdating.com/why-women-should-stop-having-children/comment-page-2#comment-411</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborrah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jun 2010 05:15:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s an interesting article on the subject
http://www.nomarriage.com/children.html</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s an interesting article on the subject<br />
<a href="http://www.nomarriage.com/children.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.nomarriage.com/children.html</a></p>
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