Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
Colonel of Wisdom Not Very Wise About Black Women, Female Sexuality or Men
Whether you have four, 14 or 44 lovers, with each man you learn more about your female sexuality and sexual response. You must follow these guidelines for selecting men with whom to share your body, and the 5 rules for engaging in sexual activity with hot sexy men to protect yourself and avoid drama.
Natural Hair Leave in Conditioner – Black Hair Care from Braids to Twist Out
Wearing natural hair is increasing in popularity amongst black women in the U.S. However sun, wind and salt water may leave your natural hair dry and at risk of breaking. Try this easy to make natural hair leave in conditioning treatment before your next twist or braid set.
Why do Single Black Women Demand That Men Go to Church With Them?
Black women and their focus on church attendance causes problems in many relationships. Demanding that a man attend church services when he is not a religious person is a sure-fire way to end up single and lonely in your black church.
When a Religious Black Man is Looking for a Wife
The hypocrisy of the so-called religious black man is evident when they make posts such as the one quoted here. Why does every black man with an opinion about what HE wants in a wife flatly state that his thoughts apply to every single black man in the world. It’s as if they truly believe their opinion is universal and every black woman should listen to them just because they are a man.
Controlling Black Men and the Word ‘All’
Observations about the mindset of black men who demand women change the way they write or speak and use the words some, most, a few, etc. when criticizing men. Here’s a humorous critique of the male ego and The All Police.
Give Him Six Months to Start Talking Marriage or Get Rid of Him!
No need to wait years for a marriage proposal, especially since men know almost instantly if you are ‘the one’ or not, and if you have the qualities he seeks in a wife. Don’t have babies and waste years of your life on a dead end relationship.
Help! My Boyfriend is a Big Ole Freak!
Sexually incompatible with her boyfriend’s interest in group sex, bisexuality and porn, a confused and very hurt girlfriend wonders if she should dump him and move on now, or stay and work it out.
You Need to Train Men How to Treat You?
Why do so many relationship experts tell single women that they must train men – grown men now, how to treat them? Especially when these guys already know how to treat a woman when in reality some men choose to be ratchet instead of respectful!
Why Do Men Think Everything Women Do Is About Them?
Why do so many men turn every decision women make that protects their heart or body from being used for sex by players into being an attack on them? Why are women not allowed the right to say “no sex!” to men that they are merely dating because rushing to intimacy is not good for HER?
All Men Lie – What They Really Want to Marry is a ‘Ho Not a Housewife
“Can’t turn a ho into a housewife!” Men need to learn to choose what works best for them which is most likely going to be a freaky wild ho that delivers sexual experiences that make his toes curl, not an apron wearing, cookie baking housewife.
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