Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
Infidelity: how to tell if your man is cheating (and what to do about it)
I often receive letters from heartbroken women, sick with worry that their boyfriends or husbands are cheating on them. The cheating itself seems to hurt them deeply, as it indicates a violation of the marital vows the wife holds dear, but I think its the lying which accompanies the infidelity that is the most destructive element in the whole horrible situation.
Full-figured, chunky, heavy, big, fat, large, curvy, or thick?
Curves are great! And the THICK CHICKS HOME WORKOUT PROGRAM provides women with step by step instructions on creating a better body and better health without dieting, no matter what your current size.
Are Black Women Too Fat for Dating and Marriage?
Are Black women undesirable for relationships and marriage because so many are overweight? Are happy relationships for thin women only? Actor Boris Kodjoe has an interesting perspective on it, as does Deb Cooper.
Whatever You Did to Get Her You Need to Keep Doing
Women must demand more from men in both dating relationships and marriage. Make your emotional needs a priority, and reign in your dependency on men if you want to have better, more satisfying relationships.
Sneak Peek: Thick Chicks Home Workout Program
The seated physioball woodchop establishes a base foundation of core strength, teaches balance, and opens up the chest and shoulder girdle while toning the muscles along the sides of the waist – a perfect exercise for Thick Chicks!
Breaking Up: When Love Doesn’t Live Here Anymore
Losing love hurts. But what hurts is more is blocking our hearts from a new love. We could all learn to love again if we just let go of fear and stop projecting the hurtful past onto the unknown future.
Men Never Miss Their Water ‘Til the Well Has Run Dry!
Women often ask why men break things off, or do something really stupid that causes a self-respecting woman to give him the boot, only to see him turn around, and beg to come back. Why, why, why do men never miss their water until the well has run dry?
Why Women Leave Men
Focusing on your woman and providing her with what she needs emotionally guarantees a happy, long-lasting relationship with a loving woman that will never leave you. Tips for relationship success and longevity for men.
Marriage – Why The Fantasy is Better Than The Reality for Women
Many young women dream of having a fancy wedding and the title of “Mrs.” imagining marriage as a lifetime of marital bliss, close companionship, and passionate romance. Sadly, that fantasy is usually just that.
Black Kids Read: Call to Action for Youth Literacy and Access to Books
Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper envisions a nationwide program for inner city youths called BLACK KIDS READ! that distributes fun and educational books to children without access to libraries or books of their own.
Dating Tips for Singles: Why You Didn’t Get a Second Date
For all those singles that want to know why the phone never rang again from THAT person after the first date, this one is for you!
Why Are Women In Such a Rush to Secure a Commitment?
You want the security of knowing where you stand in a relationship, but shouldn’t you first take the time to know the character and history of the man you are committing to?
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