Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
In August 2010, a young Black female that used the on-air name “Jade” called in to the Dr. Laura Schlessinger show seeking advice on how to handle her White husband and her husband’s redneck friends. Dr. Laura responded to her questions by repeatedly using the word “nigga!” – a total of 11 times in just five minutes. Isn’t it time for Dr. Laura’s old dried up racist ass to retire?
Why is it that so many parents are afraid to say the word “no!” to their children? I’ve observed parents being kicked, punched, yelled at, talked to with disrespect and whined half to death by their bratty, spoiled monsters. Why can’t they tell them to stop screaming, stop acting a fool, and do it now because I said so! Join me as I launch the Let’s Bring “NO!” Back campaign!
Self esteem means never begging for love or settling for less. A woman that values herself, her sexuality and heart would not try to maintain a relationship with a man that was not valuing and honoring her back.
School is NOT where the foundation for learning and future academic achievement should be established for black students. That process must begin at home. Here are some suggestions on how to create a positive learning environment for your future black scholar.
What qualities would make a Black man “elite”? Is it possible that men who believe themselves to be “elite” are really just normal, average men doing what they are supposed to be doing and are nothing special at all?
An Aesop’s fable tells the story of a thirsty Fox and how he dealt with the frustration of not getting what he wanted. Excuse me while I add my own hood flava to it.
It kills me how young girls put so much emphasis on the fact that they have a baby by some fool like it means something important. Is a broken heart in this advice seeker’s future?
Every few years a new generation of Black Americans see The Willie Lynch Letter for the first time and falls prey to the nonsensical fraud. Flatly, the Willie Lynch letter is an urban legend and there is no such person as Willie Lynch the slave trainer.
The scorpion and the frog, Aesop’s timeless lesson about trusting those who do not deserve to be trusted is retold with hood flava.
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Street harassment is a form of sexual harassment and a common behavior of Black men. Some mistakenly believe their touching and words are no big deal; Sistah Girl explains why they need to get a clue!
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