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My Man and His Brother are Not Speaking Because of Me

. 02/27/2012 . 0 Comments

What kind of man gets angry at his brother for getting married? If his brother is in love and happy, why be a hater? Could there be more to this scenario than meets the eye – like jealousy?

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To Ride or Not to Ride My Baby’s Momma?

. 02/25/2012 . 0 Comments

Advice on how to navigate a relationship with his son, his son’s mother, and the new fiancee over time spent and parental responsibilities in a baby momma situation..

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Black Women Prefer Relationship With Jesus to Black Men

. 02/22/2012 . 1 Comment

A recent Washington Post survey shows that Black women feel a relationship with Jesus is more important than being married, having children, or having a loving relationship with a man. These and other findings discussed tonight on The Date Smarter Not Harder Relationships Talk Show hosted by Deborrah Cooper.

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If Submission in Marriage is So Wonderful and Perfect…

. 02/20/2012 . 3 Comments

Female submission is touted by patriarchal men as the key to a successful marriage or relationship, but where is the proof? If submissive relationships are better then why aren’t more submissive, religious women happily married?

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Ten Traits Men Must Have to Be a Great Husband

. 02/15/2012 . 0 Comments

What are the qualities that make a man a wonderful husband? Join us for a lively discussion of the traits of a fun boyfriend and how they differ from what a woman should be looking for in a man that make him a dependable, loving husband.

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Pregnant by a Nothing Ass Man in Prison

. 02/15/2012 . 0 Comments

Dramatic breakup and probation violation lands drug using boyfriend in prison for three years; should his girlfriend (potential baby momma #5) have the child she is carrying?

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Your Selfishness is Not Making the Coochie Wet

. 02/14/2012 . 8 Comments

Black men have the right to be selfish and talk shit about Valentine’s Day if you want to – nobody is stopping you. But don’t say nothin when your selfishness hurts your woman. When she doesn’t want you to touch her, and certainly doesn’t want to share her coochie with you, it will be your own fault.

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Why Does My Boyfriend Always Claim to be Broke?

. 02/11/2012 . 3 Comments

At first he treated her like a queen with romantic dinners and wine at sunset on the beach; but now he claims to be broke, even the day after payday. What kind of pimp game is this running?

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Match.Com’s Singles Survey Means Nothing for Black Women

. 02/08/2012 . 1 Comment

Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.

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When Valentine’s Day Sucks!

. 02/08/2012 . 0 Comments

The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?

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Why Men Should Not Write Advice Columns

. 02/07/2012 . 0 Comments

Humorous examination of how men don’t listen to women, which is why men don’t make the best relationship advice columnists.

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Uh oh! I think my roommate is trying to put the moves on me

. 02/07/2012 . 0 Comments

An unusual request has a young man wondering if his roommate is hiding his sexuality. Can a young man that beds dozens of women have hidden gay tendencies or fantasies?

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