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When Black Men Attack
These men seek to hurt women with words; they feel empowered if they can make women feel emotional pain and psychological hurt. Every utterance is designed to make women feel small, a failure, less than men, sad, confused, and unintelligent.
Interracial Dating: She Said “Yes” to Marriage but…
She said “yes” to marriage but whenever she wants to do her own thing she says “we are not married!” How long should I endure her treating me like a boyfriend while I treat her like my wife?
Exposing Black Male Privilege
I’ve repeatedly heard Black men express the belief that they are victims of a matriarchial society, that they are denied rights and privileges and the opportunity to “be a man” by “strong Black women.” I’ve heard grown men whine that women need to be responsible for men’s attire (sagging pants), teen pregnancy amonst 11, 12, 13 year old girls (who are actually victimis of child molesters, not willing adults making a choice for sex), and assign to women the responsibility for changing the Black community. With women being blamed for all that, what the hell is it that Black men are going to get off their asses and do?
Racist White Advice Columnists Cannot Help Black Women
In August 2010, a young Black female that used the on-air name “Jade” called in to the Dr. Laura Schlessinger show seeking advice on how to handle her White husband and her husband’s redneck friends. Dr. Laura responded to her questions by repeatedly using the word “nigga!” – a total of 11 times in just five minutes. Isn’t it time for Dr. Laura’s old dried up racist ass to retire?
Let’s Bring “NO!” Back to Parenting
Why is it that so many parents are afraid to say the word “no!” to their children? I’ve observed parents being kicked, punched, yelled at, talked to with disrespect and whined half to death by their bratty, spoiled monsters. Why can’t they tell them to stop screaming, stop acting a fool, and do it now because I said so! Join me as I launch the Let’s Bring “NO!” Back campaign!
Women, Self Esteem and Smart Dating Choices
Self esteem means never begging for love or settling for less. A woman that values herself, her sexuality and heart would not try to maintain a relationship with a man that was not valuing and honoring her back.
Raising the Academic Achievement Levels of Black Students
School is NOT where the foundation for learning and future academic achievement should be established for black students. That process must begin at home. Here are some suggestions on how to create a positive learning environment for your future black scholar.
11-28-10 Elite Black Men: Fantasy or Reality?
What qualities would make a Black man “elite”? Is it possible that men who believe themselves to be “elite” are really just normal, average men doing what they are supposed to be doing and are nothing special at all?
Men, I Hear You and Imma Let You Finish, but…
Men must stop overgeneralizing, stop misinterpreting statistics, stop taking things out of context, stop telling women what to do, stop trying to change us, and stop trying to control us.
Deborrah “Aesop” Cooper Tells the Tale of The Fox and the Grapes
An Aesop’s fable tells the story of a thirsty Fox and how he dealt with the frustration of not getting what he wanted. Excuse me while I add my own hood flava to it.
Relationship Has Lost That Lovin’ Feeling…
It kills me how young girls put so much emphasis on the fact that they have a baby by some fool like it means something important. Is a broken heart in this advice seeker’s future?
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