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Black Men and Sexual Addiction
In my work in sex addiction therapy, I come across men of all ethnic backgrounds struggling in this area. While the White sex addict may have just as many partners as the Black addict (some with over 200 partners while with their spouse), there is one major difference. Can you guess what it is? It’s the condom. The tendency is for white guys to act out sexually taking more precautions to use a condom while black men ignore the need for contraception, thus perpetuating the trend of single-mothers left to fend for themselves.
Is it Too Soon to Tell Him I Love Him After Dating Only a Month?
Everyone can be on their good behavior for a short period of time, but after 6-9 months, folks relax their front and ish gets real. As time passes and you spend more time together, you get to see more of who he really is, how he handles conflicts and problems, levels of responsibility and accountability, you meet his family, you meet his friends, you see how he is living, you learn how he thinks and what his values and morals are.
Black Men, Low Expectations and Embracing Mediocrity
Young black men are in a crisis and falling behind educationally, economically, emotionally and socially. Why are their expectations for themselves so low? Why is there such a willingness to settle for mediocrity instead of striving to achieve greatness head and shoulders above the crowd?
Big Booty, Onion Booty, Phat Booty, Bubble Butt
Butts are the IN thing. Single women who believe they don’t measure up in the butt department are going through some pretty drastic measures to get the booty they feel will make them more competitive in the dating game. But many of the things women do to get the perfect butt involves expensive, sometimes life-threatening procedures.
Black Women With White Men Interracial Relationships
Why did black women get upset when I created a meme showing happy, loved black women in interracial relationships with Asian, white and Latino men, and come soldiering along to rally for black men to get equal time?
Mother in Law Throws Shade After She Hears Us Making Love
Each “morning after” she will either refuse to look at me, make unnecessarily biting comments, or just glare at me when she thinks I’m not looking. I thought I was imagining it but after several months of living together, this is definitely the reason why. I’ve become paranoid about making love and we are very careful about being quiet — almost to the point of silence!
Men Never Outgrow Their Childhood Fascination With Bodily Functions
What is it with men and their fascination with farting, burping, scratching, pooping and picking their nose? Do they ever grow out of this phase?
Never Date a Dead Animal – Sunday 10/20/13
Learn the obscure, early warning signs of controlling, lying, narcissistic, verbally (and physically) abusive men. More importantly, understand the underlying mindset which causes women to ignore and minimize a man’s hurtful behavior, continue to date and even commit to him.
While Separated My Husband Had a Baby With Another Woman!
During a separation a husband has created a child with another person. What should the wife do – say or go?
Help! My Boyfriend Wants to Share Me With Other Guys!
Advice seeker thinks her boyfriend wants to “share her” with other guys, but Ms. HeartBeat sees a sociopath sex trafficker working on a naive and unaware potential victim of pimp game.
Why Don’t Women Talk to a Good Black Man Like Me?
Relationships are as much biological as they are emotional, at least at the beginning. You approached her because your dick got a tingle and you reacted biologically. Understand this good black man, since she didn’t get a tingle she rejected you.
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