Tag: codependent relationships

Controlling Your Emotions – Why Women Must Stop Making Life Choices Based on FEELINGS

. 10/23/2018 . 0 Comments

Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper points out the many ways women make poor choices about men and life, based on their FEELINGS instead of using logic and reason. She guides the listeners of this Tough Topic Thursday discussion to take a look at emotion-based decision making and how it can be detrimental to success and goal achievement.

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Feminine Energy is Nothing But Bullshit

. 02/01/2017 . 5 Comments

Do women have to pretend to be or actually be weak, passive and vulnerable (feminine) so that men can feel strong, action-oriented and invincible (masculine)? It certainly appears that way.

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Columnist Deborrah Cooper Slams Steve Harvey and Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man

. 05/15/2012 . 13 Comments

Podcast by columnist Deborrah Cooper which explains why Steve Harvey and his book Act Like a Lady Think Like a Man are a waste of time for a woman seeking a loving relationship based on mutual love and support.

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I am in Love With Him, but Very Unhappy in My Relationship

. 03/24/2012 . 0 Comments

Does a man with wavy hair and a body like Tyson sound like husband material? A young black woman with no clue about how to select a man for marriage writes to seek guidance on her relationship.

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My New Husband is a Lazy Bum That Leaves All the Work for Me

. 02/28/2012 . 5 Comments

New bride’s dreams of happily ever after shattered by husband’s selfishness and callous disregard for her feelings and needs. Can this new wife stop enabling, learn how to say “no!” and turn her unhappy relationship around?

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Pregnant by a Nothing Ass Man in Prison

. 02/15/2012 . 0 Comments

Dramatic breakup and probation violation lands drug using boyfriend in prison for three years; should his girlfriend (potential baby momma #5) have the child she is carrying?

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Whatever You Did to Get Her You Need to Keep Doing

. 08/16/2011 . 3 Comments

Women must demand more from men in both dating relationships and marriage. Make your emotional needs a priority, and reign in your dependency on men if you want to have better, more satisfying relationships.

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Garbage Men and Scavenger Bitches

. 04/28/2011 . 15 Comments

Lonely for companionship and sex, scavenger bitches scour the earth picking up anything male with a pulse. Scavenger bitches repeatedly align themselves with the most undesirable men and settle for the most disrespectful treatment – men that other women with better sense have rejected.

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Is she loving him or smothering him?

. 04/08/2011 . 0 Comments

Is it caring, love and devorition – or is it smothering that chokes the life out of the relationship? Let’s talk about love, obsessive love, and those incapable of true intimacy.

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But I Don’t Want to LOSE Him!

. 02/05/2011 . 2 Comments

Though they broke up 1 year ago, every few months he makes a booty call. Does this ex-relationship have a future?

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Women Are Socialized to be Codependent

. 06/08/2010 . 2 Comments

My working definition of codependency is anyone involved with someone else that worries more in a role where they take care of that person and worry more about that person’s needs, wants, feelings and actions than they do their own. Aren’t women deemed to be better wives, mothers and human beings when they behave in a codependent manner and condemned as selfish bitches when they have firm boundaries?

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