Tag: relationship advice

What Do Men Say Is “Sexy?”

. 07/21/2009 . 1 Comment

In the United States women go on extreme diets to get thin; pierce lips, eyes, nostrils and nipples; or endure surgical procedures like breast enlargements, tummy tucks, Botox injections, face lifts and body waxing because they think men will find these physical modifications to be sexier. Surprise! The men I interviewed mentioned NONE of those things on their list of sexy attributes.

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When I’m Good, I’m Very Good…But When I’m Bad, I’m Even Better!

. 07/13/2009 . 1 Comment

Whether an angry, baby making hoochie, or a scripture quoting “good” woman, females at both ends of the spectrum of femininity are tiresome and boring. Both need to open their minds to new experiences and embrace the concept that a woman can be both intelligent and fun, spiritual and sexy – all at the same time. Tips for how to be an exciting woman that’s sometimes good, and sometimes not.

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For Men: The Difference Between Interest and Desperation

. 07/11/2009 . 0 Comments

He Says/She Says tackles the issue of rejection and dating for men. The authos explain the difference between showing interest in a woman and presenting oneself as desperate. Developing the ability to confidently show interest and approach a woman means guys must change their perspective and not be so attached to the outcome.

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Becoming The Man Women Want

. 07/05/2009 . 0 Comments

Women are frustrated and angry with men; men are confused about what modern women want and long for a return to “the good old days” when the male role was well-defined. Should women adjust their Fairy Tale expectations of Happily Ever After with the reality of who and what men are today? How can men adjust their caveman idea of “a man’s man” while still demonstrating strength and leadership so that the modern woman admires and respects him? If you’re confused about gender expectations and how to meet the needs of the opposite sex, this is the show for you!

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Men Don’t Understand When They Are IN A RELATIONSHIP

. 06/30/2009 . 0 Comments

Explanation of what women mean when they say “we’re in a relationship” because guys just don’t seem to get it. When a woman is looking for a specific, desired outcome from their interaction with a person of the opposite sex, she labels their regular interaction as “a relationship.” A relationship is much more important in her life than a mere date. A relationship usually includes sex for women. Guys don’t get that if they have sex with a woman more than a couple of times, she is going to consider that “a relationship” whether you want it to be one or not! In other words, you are her boyfriend, with all the obligations and responsiblities that title entails.

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Why Did The Almighty Waste Ears on Men When They Never Listen Anyway?

. 06/24/2009 . 0 Comments

Men wonder why women file for 75% of the divorces in this country. It seems that men just don’t understand how important communication and listening skills are to the quality and duration of their relationships with women. Whether in a personal or professional setting, men need to learn how to HEAR women, not just the words we say but the message we are communicating about how we FEEL.

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What a Black Man Needs in a Relationship

. 06/23/2009 . 0 Comments

Just like Freud (who admittedly never could figure out what women wanted), women don’t understand men and what their relationship needs are! But I have the answer, and it’s very simple.

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You’re Either Part of the Solution, Or Part of the Problem

. 06/16/2009 . 0 Comments

Fear is epidemic in our society. I’ve never seen so many scary ass people! Millions of people sit on the bench in the game of life, holding onto their fears of success like a security blanket while telling themselves over and over again what they “can’t” accomplish, “can’t” change, “can’t” become or “can’t” try for fear of failure.

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Are Black Men Judgmental Haters of Black Women?

. 06/04/2009 . 1 Comment

My Dad raised me to never worry about pleasing other people or to care what they thought about anything with regards to me. Too many women did not get that message, and bend themselves into pretzels with each new man they meet, trying in vain to be “good enough” for him. Women need to be whatever they want to be as long as they are happy and satisfied, and stop trying to be the fantasy woman of men’s dreams. It never works anyway.

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

. 05/30/2009 . 2 Comments

I hate texting.   A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool.  Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job.  We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times.  He was wonderful face to face and fine […]

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I Need a Break from Dating

. 05/10/2009 . 1 Comment

When I think about going on a date I no longer get excited. Nor do I wonder if he could be \”the one.\” What I think now about dating is: \”Crap! Do I have to?\”

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