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The 10 Reasons Your Goofy Butt Didn’t Get a Second Date

. 06/28/2009 . 0 Comments

With each new person you date there is excitement and hopeful anticipation. Of course not every date is going to go the distance or anywhere at all. But if you are one of those folks that have a hard time getting a second date with everyone you meet, it’s time to examine your behavior and make sure you aren’t making any of these ten dating blunders.

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What a Black Man Needs in a Relationship

. 06/23/2009 . 0 Comments

Just like Freud (who admittedly never could figure out what women wanted), women don’t understand men and what their relationship needs are! But I have the answer, and it’s very simple.

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Single Women: Satisfy Your Horniness Without Being a ‘Ho

. 06/02/2009 . 0 Comments

Traditional thinking promotes commitment, fidelity and love as mandatory components to a romantic relationship. Does such thinking make sense in our current society? Is it really necessary to have and to hold until death do you part? Can’t a single woman enjoy guilt-free pleasure with a man, get up, and leave further expectations on the pillow?

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Time to Dismantle The Jump Off

. 05/30/2009 . 2 Comments

I hate texting.   A few months ago I met a guy that seemed really cool.  Tall, good looking, single father raising his daughter, well educated, with a great family and job.  We went out on one lunch date, then talked on the phone a few times.  He was wonderful face to face and fine […]

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Interracial Dating: Black Men with Non-Black Women

. 05/26/2009 . 1 Comment

Over the past 10 years, the numbers of African American women that have dated and married White men has dramatically increased. I believe a lot of it has to do with the fact that Black women are tired of waiting for Black men to choose them, to commit, to love.

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You Don’t Know HOW To Date!

. 05/26/2009 . 0 Comments

The last U.S. Census report stated that for the first time in the history of the U.S., we have a higher population of single adults in this country than we do married.  Are most of us single by choice – finding a life of aloneness to be preferable?  Or are we stymied by our lack […]

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Strong Reasons Make Strong Actions

. 05/21/2009 . 0 Comments

 "Strong reasons make strong actions." — William Shakespeare (1564-1616)   Did ole Willy have to date?  I believe the whole mating thing was done a bit differently back in his day.  My understanding is that one’s parents figured out who might be a good match for the family as a whole, then you were "assigned" […]

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