Tag: dating tips and advice

He Ain’t Stella But He’s Trying to Get His Groove Back!

. 07/16/2013 . 0 Comments

How much of an age difference is too much? This writer wants to know if a 24 year old woman and a 43 year old man have a chance at happiness together.

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Day 11 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Failure to be Chivalrous

. 03/21/2013 . 4 Comments

Chivalrous behavior is exhibited by men of high moral fiber and character, and they treat everyone in a chivalrous manner because that is who they are. Men that are truly chivalrous gentlemen do not turn their character on and off like a light switch or only be a gentleman to certain people, at certain times. They are instead a chivalrous gentleman to everyone.

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Day 9 – 40 Days of Rain on DBR Black Men: Parasites Moving In With a Girlfriend

. 03/14/2013 . 9 Comments

DBR black men love the idea of moving in with a girlfriend. They want to come move in and roost in your hen house and see nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of your labors while they sleep under a roof they haven’t provided, eating up food they haven’t provided, and running electricity to watch television and play video games when they haven’t provided any of those things either!

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Video Webchat: Are Black Males Raised by Single Moms Poor Choices for Mates?

. 12/18/2012 . 0 Comments

As a single woman, you have no real way to know if a guy you’ve met had a sensible mother or a fool. Should men that were raised in single-parent homes with just their Mom be passed over as potential boyfriends, husbands and fathers?

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When Women Make the First Move – Pros and Cons

. 11/23/2012 . 0 Comments

Young women feel there is nothing wrong with taking the bull by the horns and going after what you want… that there is nothing wrong with a female making the first move. Older women look askance as such forwardness and feel young women are “playing themselves”… that there are smooth ways to invite a man to approach which means there is never a reason for a woman to make the first move.

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Dating the Man Confused About Confidence vs Dominance

. 06/21/2012 . 1 Comment

The difference between dominant man, the weak and spineless man, and the man of confidence. We’ll provide examples of what each of those three behaviors looks like in when dating or in a relationship.

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Why do Single Black Women Demand That Men Go to Church With Them?

. 06/04/2012 . 5 Comments

Black women and their focus on church attendance causes problems in many relationships. Demanding that a man attend church services when he is not a religious person is a sure-fire way to end up single and lonely in your black church.

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Sucka Free Love! Now available as an EBook on Smashwords

. 03/10/2012 . 0 Comments

Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper’s award winning dating guide “Sucka Free Love!” is now an Ebook. Get your giggle on and get smarter about men, women and relationships at the same time. Introductory special offer gets you 10% off. Don’t far around… the discount offer expires soon. .

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The Ho Test – How and Why Men Test Women’s Values and Morals

. 01/02/2012 . 1 Comment

All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, church-going “husband material” men will run some variation of the ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions put forth will determine whether a man invests feelings in you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing.

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Is he losing interest, or am I just paranoid?

. 10/12/2011 . 0 Comments

Anytime a man’s behavior and pattern changes, it means something. Women need to pay attention to the signs.

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Black Marriages: Is Marriage Good for Black People?

. 09/22/2011 . 2 Comments

Key findings from “The Consequences of Marriage for African Americans” which concludes that Black women benefit substantially less from marriage than Black males OR White females. Why then are so many Black women in a hurry to get married?

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When The Children of Single Parents End Up Dead

. 09/21/2011 . 3 Comments

Households in which children live with a single mom and a “live in” boyfriend increases a child’s risk of abuse to 8x that of children living with their married parents. Most homicides of young children are committed by family members through beatings or suffocation. Although victims include approximately equal numbers of boys and girls, offenders include a disproportionate number of women, primarily their young, single mothers.

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