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Dating Tips: What Questions do you Ask During the First Date?

. 04/14/2012 . 4 Comments

How to handle first date getting to know you questions. The machine gun rapid fire questioning might not be the best approach, and here’s why.

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Should a Woman Ever Tell Her New Man About a Past Abortion?

. 04/14/2012 . 32 Comments

Discussion of the pros and cons of telling the new man in your life about past the sexual adventures, an abortion, or STDs. If its in the past, that’s where it should stay and a woman should never tell her secrets Deborrah says. What’s your stance?

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If he doesn’t want a relationship what can I do to change his mind?

. 04/12/2012 . 0 Comments

How should a woman handle a friendship that turned sexual with a guy she’s known for years when he has no real interest in moving things along to a true committed relationship?

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Black Women in Interracial Relationships Get Their Swirl On!

. 04/11/2012 . 2 Comments

Swirling is a new relationship guide for black women looking to make the jump into the world of interracial relationships. Full of tips for success and answers to the questions you’ve always wanted to know the answers to but were afraid to ask.

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April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month : The Rapist Checklist

. 04/07/2012 . 0 Comments

Besides being forced to give a man sex at knife or gunpoint, are there other coercive behaviors that men use that constitute rape? The answer is YES! Read this list and learn what men do and say that means they are raping you.

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Engaged to a man I’m worried has a porn addiction

. 04/01/2012 . 1 Comment

Young woman engaged to be married in a few weeks is distrustful of her fiancee due to his repeated denial that he watches porn, though his computer history says otherwise.

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What is the deal with this wedding gift registry thing?

. 03/29/2012 . 1 Comment

When couples have sex, have babies, and live together before marriage, what sense does it make for them to have a giant fancy wedding complete with a wedding gift registry?

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Debsterisms – Wise Quotes to Date and Live By

. 03/29/2012 . 0 Comments

Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper regularly posts witty tidbits with insightful wisdom on dating and life. We’ve collected dozens of them from around the web, and share a few with you in this post.

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So what he died of an overdose, he still deserves respect!

. 03/26/2012 . 1 Comment

The crass crudeness of some people is examined when a family’s website to memorialize a deceased member of their clan is bombarded with negativity.

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Men Want to Know: What is it that Women Want from Us?

. 03/24/2012 . 0 Comments

What do women want from men and relationships? Survey collects the desires, thoughts and opinions of women about what makes them happy and what they wish men would understand about making their relationships better.

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I am in Love With Him, but Very Unhappy in My Relationship

. 03/24/2012 . 0 Comments

Does a man with wavy hair and a body like Tyson sound like husband material? A young black woman with no clue about how to select a man for marriage writes to seek guidance on her relationship.

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Marriage and Cheating: I Think my Husband is Having an Affair at Work

. 03/19/2012 . 0 Comments

A marriage of only one year is headed for disaster when a husband ignores his wife, 18 month old child, and focuses all his attentions on a woman at his new job.

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