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It’s Just a Woman’s Power

. 09/01/2009 . 1 Comment

A mature man comments on the female powers of observation and shares a little advice with the fellas… “Men we now have to start coming clean using truth and honesty if we hope to keep our women. This knowledge has me a little paranoid when I meet a woman… now is she looking at me from the inside out? That can’t be a pretty sight because I got issues. Not being as handsome as most and now I know I’m certainly not as smart, I have to be more honest and forthright to attract the opposite sex.”

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Can Dating Standards Be “Too” High?

. 09/01/2009 . 15 Comments

Everyone must have standards. Your standards become the criteria used to compare the men or women that come into your life to see if they measure up. If you don’t have standards, you’ll risk becoming involved with married or other emotionally unavailable sorts. You also risk developing an attachment to someone that you know is totally wrong for you.

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Jerks, Assholes, Idiots and Abusive Men: Recognizing Verbal Abuse

. 08/14/2009 . 12 Comments

Five common tactics abusive men use to derail female confidence. The goal for abusive men is to belittle and insult you so often that you shut down. He wants to be able to treat you any way he likes, and for you to take it without complaint because you’re so beaten down you believe his words to be true.

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My Man is Nice and All, But the Sex is Boring as Hell!

. 08/07/2009 . 0 Comments

How do women decide between the man that is stable and the man that is a sexual God. In other words, how do women choose between the stable nice guy who may be trustworthy and a good father figure, but who is sexually boring, and the guy that makes her feel like a total woman but who may be a player? The issue is discussed in detail on The Date Smarter, Not Harder Talk Show with host Deborrah Cooper.

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Flying Your ‘Freak’ Flag… Sometimes it Needs to Be at Half Mast

. 08/03/2009 . 3 Comments

I’ve noticed that a great many men seem to have little patience or perhaps its restraint, when it comes to initiating sexually oriented conversation with women they barely know. What is the behind this rude ungentlemanly-like conduct? Why come at someone like a hooker and insult every woman you meet running your same, tired game when, if you acted like you had some sense and manners and graciousness, you’d get what you want a lot sooner and she’d be thrilled to give it to you? Men are dumb.

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The God Virus – How Religion Messes Up the Minds of Men

. 08/01/2009 . 2 Comments

Black men feel they deserve to be in charge and run their woman and household without question. Is this truly the relationship that modern Black men expect and feel they deserve… straight out of 1800? Why should accomplished Black women place themselves under the foot of a male that believes he is superior to women? Controversial examination of religion, God, Christianity, and the ego of the Black male.

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We Broke Up – How Can We Be Friends?

. 08/01/2009 . 1 Comment

I have never understood why people insist on being friends with an ex! Why continue to put emotional energy towards something that does not exist? Why torture yourself by hanging around and talking to someone in a situation that has a very low potential to become what you wanted it to be? The clock is ticking! Why not re-invest your emotional energy into the possibilities of finding someone else that wants to direct their romantic energy towards you?

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7 Early Warning Signs of a Doomed Dating Relationship

. 07/26/2009 . 2 Comments

Do you notice that you repeatedly involve yourself with the same “type” of person over and over again? If so, the reason is most likely because you are either ignoring early warning signs that this situation is unhealthy and dangerous, or you don’t know what to look for. The earlier you notice signs of incompatibility such as these, the easier it will be for you to avoid getting hurt emotionally.

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Statistics on Black Women… Don’t Believe The Hype!

. 07/24/2009 . 3 Comments

Are statistics true that show that Black women have a harder time with relationships than women of other races? Think about that and what truths are really exposed by an “average.” I suggest that all Americans be very leery of what is packaged as “statistics” when it comes to Black America. Do not put your faith in what statistics say until you have carefully considered what they do not say.

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Both Dating and Fishing Are Sports

. 07/22/2009 . 1 Comment

Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle!

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Radio Talk Show: Are Men Afraid of The Power of The Pu$$y?

. 07/22/2009 . 0 Comments

On Wednesday, July 22nd at 7:00 p.m., Deborrah Cooper will discuss the double standard surrounding male and female sexuality! Why is it that in 2009, many decades past the sexual revolution, can a man screw around and freely celebrate and enjoy his sexuality, but a woman that does the same thing is labeled a ‘ho, […]

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What Do Men Say Is “Sexy?”

. 07/21/2009 . 1 Comment

In the United States women go on extreme diets to get thin; pierce lips, eyes, nostrils and nipples; or endure surgical procedures like breast enlargements, tummy tucks, Botox injections, face lifts and body waxing because they think men will find these physical modifications to be sexier. Surprise! The men I interviewed mentioned NONE of those things on their list of sexy attributes.

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