Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
If at First You Don’t Succeed, Destroy All Evidence You Tried
Why would someone want to appear to be something they are not? I believe everyone wants to appear to have their life together, to make smart choices, to be a success and a winner! Who wants to admit they made silly mistakes or gambled and lost – over and over again? Losers, that’s who!
Awww shit!
After much debate on which word in the English language was the most functional, we’ve come up with the winner!
Has Feminism Hurt Black Men and Our Relationships With Them?
In the Black community, men place blame for their failures on feminism. Reportedly, back in the days when women knew their role and place, men had no problems being men. Is feminism responsible for the immaturity and lack of action demonstrated by Black males?
G Spot Orgasms – Sexual Positions to Hit the G-Spot
I read the other day that most Americans have sex in just a few positions. If that’s true, it’s time to shake things up with an article on g-spot positions, and favorite ways to hit the g-spot during sex.
Advice Young Women Need When Dating Older Men
Many young women are dating older men without a clue as to the differences they will encounter in the future. Men have left marriages for women 10+ years younger, gone into depressions, had children late in life they regret having, and much more.
Who Really Makes the First Move, Men or Women?
Author John D. Husband explores the issue from both sides of the gender fence and explains why men need encouragement from women to approach and why men will go to such great lengths to avoid being humiliated, embarrassed, diminished, ridiculed, or told the truth.
Interracial Dating: Black Women with Trifling White Men
Why do young Black women post photographs of their breasts and butts online and participate in overtly sexual conversation with White men on interracial dating sites? How can you say you are a Black Queen when you present yourself as a Black hooker? Whatever is the reason, the crap needs to stop RIGHT NOW!
Why Black Women Should Never Submit to Black Men
Female submission is a key point of contention in Black male/female relationships. Would Black women really experience higher rates of marriage and marital satisfaction if they bought into the concept of submission as Black men say they should?
Black Marriages: Is Marriage Good for Black People?
Key findings from “The Consequences of Marriage for African Americans” which concludes that Black women benefit substantially less from marriage than Black males OR White females. Why then are so many Black women in a hurry to get married?
When The Children of Single Parents End Up Dead
Households in which children live with a single mom and a “live in” boyfriend increases a child’s risk of abuse to 8x that of children living with their married parents. Most homicides of young children are committed by family members through beatings or suffocation. Although victims include approximately equal numbers of boys and girls, offenders include a disproportionate number of women, primarily their young, single mothers.
Advice Columnist Deborrah Cooper Keynotes Interracial Dating Convention
Dating advice columnist and relationship expert Deborrah Cooper will be the keynote speaker at America’s first Interracial Dating Convention, taking place on Friday October 14, 2011 in San Francisco.
My broken heart makes me afraid to love or trust again
Not everyone has the strength to get back in the game of love after suffering a broken heart. But you will never, ever experience the gloriousness of love if you hide in the shadows, protecting yourself from anticipated pain.
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