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Women’s Self Esteem Attacked to Make a Buck

. 07/12/2011 . 0 Comments

There is a social attack on women’s bodies and self esteem, with the everyday women being compared in looks and performance to porn stars. Who stands to profit from women feeling bad about themselves? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides her usual insightful analysis into several disturbing new trends that affect women and their bodies.

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Single Women: Avoid the Dream Weaving Lover

. 07/07/2011 . 1 Comment

The Magical Dream Weaving lover fills your head full of possibilities and promises, but he never actually busts a grape to make anything he says a reality. Learn how to recognize this type of guy!

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Breaking Up on the Down Low – How and Why Men Sneak Out of Relationships

. 07/04/2011 . 2 Comments

He doesn’t want to be the bad guy and experience a direct confrontation. Men hope you won’t notice that he’s on his way out, and sadly, many women don’t!

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My Son’s Father is in Prison, But I Still Want Our Relationship To Work!

. 07/02/2011 . 7 Comments

Getting pregnant with one baby after another, this young women remains lost in the muck and mire of the past.

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Pro-Life, Pro-Choice or Pro-Abortion?

. 06/23/2011 . 19 Comments

Should unmarried women involved in uncommitted sexual relationships opt for an abortion or have a baby? Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper discusses the pro-life movement’s true agenda regarding gaining control of the wombs of young, poor, black and brown women.

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Divorced Single Mom Experiences Dating Drama

. 06/14/2011 . 4 Comments

Divorced single Mom’s attempts to have a romantic life and find a new man meet resistance from six year old daughter.

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Is He Using You?

. 06/10/2011 . 9 Comments

When deeply in love, it can be easy to blur healthy boundaries. But being in love doesn’t mean being a fool for a user. Five ways to know if you are being used!

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Mom’s Best Relationship Advice and Tips for Finding Love

. 06/09/2011 . 0 Comments

A mother’s influence is very important in forming not only who and what we are, but who and what we ultimately become, how we view the world and how we relate to others. This article explores how parental influence shapes our expectation about love.

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If Your Girlfriend is Married or Has a Man, You Better Watch What You Tell Her

. 05/29/2011 . 26 Comments

Women need to stop telling their men their girl’s business. You are rattling off at the mouth and giving your man the inside track on how to get into your girl’s head and thus, into her panties.

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The Dreaded “What Are You Thinking?” Question…

. 05/26/2011 . 5 Comments

Why do women waste their time asking men “what are you thinking?” when men are never thinking anything?

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He keeps hurting me by using me for sex

. 05/20/2011 . 2 Comments

I know I’m stupid but I forgive him every time he calls and explains how hard it is on him to be without me in his life. How can I know if he’s using me for sex?

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Why Black Women Are Their Own Worst Enemy

. 05/16/2011 . 16 Comments

It saddens me to see educated, professional Black women share invalidating, denigrating commentary with other Black women. Every time you read or hear something which negates your intelligence, desirability, skin color, marriageability or morals – your self-esteem is damaged. You are doing the work of racists FOR THEM by promoting and marketing their product of hate. You are the sole reason their messages of hate are going viral.

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