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Pimps, Ho’s and Black Women as Tricks
In church, at home and in dating relationships, Black women submit to and serve men and give everything they have to dumb ass fools that have no sense, no ability to love, no respect for women, and no redeeming social or emotional value. All they are is pimps – doing whatever they can to get the upper hand and dominate you.
Lonely? Here are Five Secrets To Meeting Mr. Right!
As Valentine’s Day rolls around again, single women throughout the country are wondering where their Mr. Right is hiding. Why are so many beautiful, accomplished women without the loving relationship they seek? Ms. HeartBeat has five great ideas for how to avoid wasting time on Mr. Wrong.
Men on the Down Low
The term “down-low” originated in the Black community to indicate something on the “hush-hush,” but it’s now used to describe men of all races who secretly have sex with other men.
My Man and I Haven’t Had Sex in Over Six Months!
What should a vibrant young wife do about a husband that hasn’t touched her in six months?
1/23/11 – The Male Identified Woman
Discussion of how male-identified women encourage female submission, codependency and attitudes in men that are to the detriment of females. Male-identified women encourage men to remain close minded and judgmental about females.
1/9/11 – Dating the Cheap Man
When a man is a penny pincher with his money, is he tightfisted and guarded with his emotions as well? How important is male spending in the romantic selection and dating process?
How Long is Too Long to Wait for Marriage?
I am a 27 yr old White single mom, dating a Nigerian for 2 years. He wants to wait to marry until he can afford for me to stay at home, but his plan of script writing is shaky. How long am I supposed to wait?
The Emotionally Abusive Black Man – Part 2
Emotional abuse is the repeated use of negative behaviors by a male to control and gain the upper hand over a woman. When a man is emotionally abusive, every dismissive and critical word he says, every action he takes to make you feel badly, every threatening gesture he makes is being done with intent and malice. Don’t delude yourself into thinking emotional abuse is an accident.
How Much Leeway Should be Given to Adult Daughter Living at Home?
My 25 year old daughter, toddler grandchild and her baby daddy are living with us, but my daughter sees other men. My husband is very angry and asks her lots of questions that she doesn’t want to answer. How much leeway is appropriate here?
Emotional Abuse and the Emotionally Abusive Black Man
The most abusive men are those that feel the most powerless, least confident, and most insecure about their accomplishments or abilities. In the U.S. those men are for the most part, Black men. Part 1 of 2 on emotional abuse and emotionally abusive men.
Why Are Parents Afraid of Their Teens?
A no-nonsense father asks Ms. HeartBeat’s opinion about modern parents, and about how he handles disciplining his teenage sons.
You Lost it Over a Hairdo?
There has been considerable drama on FB revolving around one obnoxious female and her hateful words towards a cancer survivor, towards Black women that choose to wear weaves, wigs or relaxers, and towards me personally and my work in the advice field. Why so much hate lady?
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