Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
My Man and His Brother are Not Speaking Because of Me
What kind of man gets angry at his brother for getting married? If his brother is in love and happy, why be a hater? Could there be more to this scenario than meets the eye – like jealousy?
If Submission in Marriage is So Wonderful and Perfect…
Female submission is touted by patriarchal men as the key to a successful marriage or relationship, but where is the proof? If submissive relationships are better then why aren’t more submissive, religious women happily married?
Ten Traits Men Must Have to Be a Great Husband
What are the qualities that make a man a wonderful husband? Join us for a lively discussion of the traits of a fun boyfriend and how they differ from what a woman should be looking for in a man that make him a dependable, loving husband.
Match.Com’s Singles Survey Means Nothing for Black Women
Though the Match.Com 2012 Singles Survey is an impressive undertaking, I would caution Black women to avoid viewing the findings as anything more than humorous entertainment. This is a study primarily of White people for White people, and therefore it has little to do with the very real cultural differences in values and socialization of African Americans.
When Valentine’s Day Sucks!
The day after Valentine’s Day is the #1 day of the year for women to cheat. With that fact in mind, why do so many men stubbornly refuse to romance their woman and show appreciation on Valentine’s Day?
Margaret Sanger and the Eradication of the Black Race Using Planned Parenthood
Margaret Sanger has been accused by Black men of starting Planned Parenthood for the sole purpose of eradicating the black race. Are Black women to be denied the right to birth control and abortions to satisfy the demands of black nationalists?
Cheating in Relationships – Three Days of the Year Women Are Most Likely to Cheat
Smart men pay attention to their women. Those that don’t are likely to find out the hard way that their woman is getting her needs met elsewhere. There are three days of each year that women are more prone to cheating, and Valentine’s Day is one of them.
Tips for Men How to Be a Better Lover
How can men divorce proof their relationships? Putting in time, energy and effort to understand a woman’s body and sexual intimacy needs will go a long way towards lowering the divorce rate and becoming a better lover. Arrogance has no place in the bedroom fellas. Listen and learn!
Black Women Need to Help a Brotha and Date Single Black Men With Potential?
Black women must stop believing they are required to “work with a brotha” when said Black male is beneath her, lagging, lacking in certain vital areas of performance and qualifications. Black women deserve to have what they want and need in a mate, just like women of other races.
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