Deborrah
Veteran social researcher, relationship advice columnist, author and radio host. Author of hundreds of articles on American and black culture, gender issues, singles, dating and relationships. Author of "Sucka Free Love!" , "The 24 Types of Suckas to Avoid," "The Black Church - Where Women Pray and Men Pray," and "Why Vegan is the New Black" all available on Amazon.Com. Her unique voice and insightful commentary have delighted fans and riled haters for 20 years. Read her stuff on SurvivingDating.Com and AskHeartBeat.Com.
Deborrah's Latest Posts
Why Do Black Men Always Ask Me if I Go to Church?
What kind of game is being run by Black men that ask if a woman goes to church immediately upon meeting her? You don’t know the game? Read and learn baby girl, read and learn.
Female Submission in Dating and Marriage: Why Should Women Submit to Men?
Tonight we’ll discuss female submission in Black relationships, the pros and cons of submission if any, and the reasons Black men demand that Black women submit to them. Who really benefits from submission by women?
Is Polygyny a Viable Option for Single Black Women Seeking Marriage?
Can polygamous marriages really be the answer to the large numbers of single African American women in the U.S.? Black men say yes and that polygyny should be legalized. What do you have to say about polygyny – a man having more than one wife?
Survey on Polygyny – What is Your Stance on Polygamous Marriages
What is your stance on polygyny and polygamous marriages? Is polygamy really a viable solution to the high number of single Black women in the U.S. or just a game Black men want to play for sex?
Courting vs Dating – Why Courting Needs to Make a Comeback
Courting vs. dating…Is courting dead? Courting needs to make a comeback because too many men press for sexual intimacy with a woman they know little to nothing about while avoiding commitment and marriage.
Your Best Friend is Getting Cheated On – What Do You Do?
What would you do if you had first hand proof that your best friend was being cheated on? Would you tell it immediately, pretend you didn’t see anything and stay out of it, or approach the cheater yourself?
Dating Advice – Phrases Men Hate to Hear Women Say
What are some of the things women say that make men break out into a cold sweat and shiver with anxiety? Here’s our list of the top dozen or so phrases women say that fill men with dread.
The ‘Ho Test – Why and How Men Test the Women They Date (part 2)
Discussion of the dozens of tests men run to determine the morals and values of the women they date. Whether his goal is to game on her or to make sure its safe to commit to and love her, all men run a version of the ‘ho test.
The Ho Test – How and Why Men Test Women’s Values and Morals
All men, from hard core player pimps to hardworking, church-going “husband material” men will run some variation of the ho test on every woman they meet. How you handle the questions put forth will determine whether a man invests feelings in you, or labels you a low class, trifling, money-grubbing good for nothing.
Better Dating Relationships: Before You Ask the Question, The Answer is NO!
Learn the games men play in dating relationships and how to protect yourself. Avoid heartbreak and being used by learning when and how to say NO! to silly games.
How to Date a Guy: Important Dating Questions to Ask and How to Ask Them
Though there is no way to know everything about someone even after being with him for years, there are vitally important bits of information that you must have early on to determine if THIS man is a good fit for your needs. There is a manner in which a woman should acquire information that involves skill and finesse.
10 Minutes of Exercise Can Help You Lose Weight
A loss of one pound of weight requires a 3500 calorie deficit. The best way to lose weight is with a combination of reduced caloric intake and increased activity. Blasting fat and dropping pounds can be done in either one long block of exercise, or by breaking your exercise up into several 10 minute blocks throughout the day.
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